Why did WeChat friends delete themselves, and the other party's WeChat remained in their own WeChat?

People nowadays have great personalities. If they don't agree, they will be blacked out. But do you really understand the deletion function of WeChat?

1, receiving message.

Lahei: After being hacked, the other party can send you a message, but if you can't send it, it shows that it has been rejected. I am so wronged that I can't even scold you.

Delete: after being deleted, the other party can no longer send messages, and the words "send friends for verification" will appear in the message you send.

2. Address list

Black screen: automatically classified into blacklist, and the search method is "Settings-Privacy-Address Book Blacklist".

Delete: automatically disappears from the other person's friend list, but he still exists in your list.

3, circle of friends permissions

Lahei: Neither side can view their circle of friends.

Delete: You can't view it unless "Allow strangers to view ten friends" is turned on.

Step 4 restore friendship

Lahei: Just remove the other party from the blacklist.

Delete: it needs to be added again, and the other party agrees.

5. Chat history

Lahei: Both parties have chat records.

Delete: One party who actively deletes will lose all the chat records, and the other party will still keep them.

1, address book

The address book is your own, just like the mobile phone address book, you can add or delete anyone at will without consulting others.

In the same way, WeChat's address book is only dominated by itself, so as long as you don't take the initiative to clean it up, even if you are no longer a friend of the other party, he is still in your friend list.

A very important reason for the popularity of WeChat is that it pays more attention to privacy than QQ, which is mainly reflected in the restrictions on the circle of friends. The premise of a circle of friends is "friends", and they must be same-sex friends, whether blacked out or deleted. One party thinks that the other party is no longer a friend, so they can't view their circle of friends.

Whether it's hacked or deleted, it hurts. When it's dark and windy, in the dead of night, will you think of him who was silently deleted, and you can't read the chat record, so you can only sob silently? Wrong, there are still ways to remedy it.

1, recovery method for deleting friends.

For friends who have been deleted, we can only use the powerful Android recovery wizard software to find them. (Apple users can use the powerful Apple Restore Wizard, and the effect is the same. ) Check the chat record and add it back if you want. Face is worthless.

2. How to recover from blackmailing friends

But if it's just blacked out, it's much easier. Just remove it from the blacklist.

What? Don't be sad when you say the other person is black. There are ways.

As long as there is a good friend between you. Then let him create a WeChat discussion group and drag you in.

Then, transfer the group owner, click the button in the upper right corner of the WeChat discussion group, and select "Group Management"-"Group Owner Management Transfer" to make you a group owner.

When you are finished with your friends, it's time to leave. At this time, there are only two of you left in the group. Say what you want to say.

Be more tolerant towards friends, but delete those who sell products every day.

If it is found that a WeChat friend has deleted himself, but the other person's WeChat remains in his WeChat contact, there may be two reasons:

First, WeChat was set in this way when it was developed. This is a one-way deletion, which means that even if the other party deletes himself, the other party's micro-signal will remain in his own WeChat. This setting is actually beneficial. When the user wants to delete a person himself, but doesn't want him to know that he has deleted him, it can avoid embarrassment well. When the deleted person chats with himself, he may find himself deleted. At this time, if the user goes back on his word and wants to add the other party back, you can also tell him that it was accidentally deleted, or the number was stolen, etc., to leave room for yourself.

Second, this is the so-called address book function. Just like a mobile phone, there will be many numbers in the address book of the mobile phone, and the owners of these numbers may not have your number. In other words, this is also a one-way recording. Therefore, friends in WeChat are also in the WeChat address book, which is a feature of the address book. Just like a contact phone book, even if others delete their contact information, they still keep their contact information in their phone book.

Come uninvited ~

First of all, congratulations, the other party didn't blacklist you and delete you, just didn't want to contact you actively. Maybe you did something that upset the other person, but the other person can forgive you, so you were deleted. Only one copy was deleted because of deletion. If ta wants to contact you, she can continue to chat with you. It doesn't matter to you whether ta is deleted or not.

Power failure means I hope I will never contact you in my life. After the power failure, the other party sends you a message, and you will receive "The message was sent, but it was rejected by the other party."

Friendly reminder: be a man so that we can meet again in the future. Lahei, please go easy on me. In case I need to contact you again one day, and I'm not embarrassed, I don't want to contact ta. Directly block ta's wechat message!

Delete, just delete it from your address book first. The friendship between the two sides remained backstage, but it was not displayed.

In QQ, after you delete the other party, the system will automatically put ta into the "strangers" group, just to facilitate you to find them later.

So, if you want to be hacked, please calm down for 2 minutes before you start, and try the blocking function (please don't disturb the message):

In fact, QQ's stranger grouping function is very practical. Grouping from strangers, at least let us know who we deleted because of what. In case people turn over a new leaf, shouldn't we take the initiative to contact ~

Do you think of someone here and want to turn around ~

Some time ago, in the dead of night, I suddenly missed my ex-girlfriend and wanted to ask her how she was. Then, send her "I miss you!" " If you don't reply some thoughts, it's really a "bolt from the blue" after you send it! I've been deleted!

However, in my address book, there is also her WeChat. In fact, deleting friends is acceptable, but it is unacceptable:

"The message has been sent, but it was rejected by the other party!" This is a sad story, because it was put in the cold palace and blacklisted. In fact, deletion is acceptable, and the blacklist is really embarrassing!

So, why can't we delete the address book list after deleting WeChat? In fact, this is the current unilateral operation of WeChat.

Because the settings of WeChat can only be deleted unilaterally, that is to say, you can delete and blacken your friends, but you are still in the other party's address book.

This is embarrassing? We may have many friends in the address book now, but you don't know who deleted you. What should you do?

The first method: Send a message to a friend on holidays to see if it is rejected or needs to be added again.

The second method: look at each other's circle of friends, is it blank. If it is blank, there is a great chance that it will be deleted.

The third method: transfer money to the other party. If when transferring money to the other party, it shows that you need to add the other party as a friend to transfer money, then obviously, you have been deleted!

In WeChat, when the other party deletes himself, his address book also contains the other party's information. This is mainly because:

1, WeChat friends are all in the WeChat address book, just like the telephone address book, which is a feature of the address book. Address book belongs to its own information resources. Even if someone deletes your contact information, it will still keep the other person's contact information in your own address book. If you don't delete it actively, it will always exist. Wechat is the same, retaining this function of the address book.

2. It was set when developing WeChat. Even if you are deleted by the other party, the other party will still be in your WeChat. There are different opinions about this. One is that this setting follows the characteristics of the address book itself. Second, the positioning of WeChat is a communication tool between acquaintances. In order to prevent you from knowing that the other party deleted you, both sides are embarrassed. Simply keep the other person in your address book. As long as you don't send a message to the other party, you won't know if the other party deleted you.

Now many netizens want to add a two-way deletion function when updating the WeChat version, that is, when the other party deletes himself, the system can send a message to remind the other party that you have deleted it from his address book. Do you want to delete each other's information? This is very convenient and can be handled according to your own situation, which is more humanized.

Let's first review the function of QQ to delete friends. Remember that the original QQ was also deleted in one direction? Then QQ members can be deleted in both directions. Finally, the "optional two-way deletion" has been fully opened.

Back to WeChat, WeChat originally borrowed from Mi Chat, main voice and address book, which is an evolution of SMS function+address book function in the era of mobile Internet.

Since it is SMS+address book, it is unilateral design, and deletion is your behavior. You can't touch my mobile phone.

We didn't contact, and we didn't know it was deleted by the other party. After sending a message to the other party, I found that the other party is no longer your friend. Some people may think that WeChat can improve the function of deleting friends. Why can't it be notified humanely? In fact, there is an advantage that the other party silently deletes your friends, which will not disturb your life, and you can see that the other party is still on your own WeChat.

1, WeChat should have the storage function of address book.

2. Save some important information of users (because sometimes everyone's chat records, saved records and collected information can be found quickly). This can be recalled in the short message era.

Summary: Tencent's product manager knows human nature very well and polished this function many times.

Expansion: Previously, some users proposed the function of "two-way deletion of friends" to the WeChat team, but there is still no news about this new function. Wechat friends delete themselves, and the other party's WeChat will remain in their own WeChat, which means that you want to "break up" with me, but it doesn't mean that I have to do the same. Does this explain some social phenomena?

We will definitely encounter a situation in our life, that is, WeChat friends deleted themselves. Why did they delete us? Why did we delete each other's WeChat but stay in our own WeChat?

In fact, this setting shows the good intentions of the developers of WeChat platform. We will analyze it from the following three points:

The first point: If WeChat is set to two-way in deleting friends, just like QQ, when friends delete you, you will suddenly receive a prompt: "So-and-so has deleted you from the WeChat friends list, and you are no longer a friend of Ta". Do you feel confused and confused after receiving this prompt? "Why did he delete me? What did I do wrong? Should I save him? ..................................................................................................................................................................................

Then, you start to eat and sleep. You have been thinking about him deleting you, and you feel too uncomfortable to talk.

So instead of this, it is better to set it to one direction. In this way, when you clean up, you will find that you are not the other person's good friend, and you will not entangle so much and be sad for so long.

The second point: avoid deadlock.

Many times, deleting or blackmailing friends is just a temporary impulse, such as small frictions between friends, quarrels between couples, threats to delete each other's WeChat, and so on. When you quarrel with others, your brain gets hot and your teeth itch, so you delete WeChat.

However, when the anger disappears and you are rational, you will probably regret deleting your friends. Whether it is hacked or deleted, it is a very hurtful thing, and this one-way setting of WeChat gives us a chance to make up for it and add friends back in time, but friends may not know that you deleted her, thus avoiding more emotional breakups.

Did you get the good intention of WeChat?

The third point: we are all the best of ourselves, the address book is our exclusive, and your address book is only at your disposal. Wechat friends can delete you, but they can't delete his memory and influence in your life.

My friend M just broke up and cried her eyes out. She wanted to get back together with each other, but unexpectedly found that the other party had deleted her.

I occasionally see M's WeChat address book, but I still have his ex-boyfriend's WeChat. I was curious and asked, "Why do you still have his WeChat? Do you still want to get back together? "

M replied: no, keep it as a thought. I can't forget what happened with him before. Although he deleted me, he couldn't delete my memories with him!

From the above three reasons, I quite agree with this approach of WeChat. what do you think?

Even if you delete the other person's WeChat, there are two main reasons for staying:

1, start a group chat

Choose a group of friends you want to test. In most cases, some friends have deleted you and some have not, so the blue font effect will appear after the group chat is established, and the person displayed in blue font is the person who deleted you. If the display effect is that the group chat failed to be created, it means that everyone in it has deleted your friends.

Step 2 transfer money

This method is still the best, no one can know your operation, and you don't have to delete friends from each other, and you don't have to worry about all kinds of embarrassing problems such as building a group or leaving the group ~

The method is as follows: transfer money, enter any number, such as 1 yuan, and then click the green button to transfer money.

The effect is as follows: the two sides are friends, but the other side won't let you see TA's circle of friends-the interface for entering the payment password pops up.

The other party deletes you-the pop-up prompt needs to add the other party as a friend first.

The other party blacked you out-an abnormal friend relationship prompt pops up.

Why did WeChat friends delete themselves, and the other party's WeChat remained in their own WeChat? This is embarrassing.