My boyfriend and mother are sick and ignore me.

Recently, Ms. Li came to consult: "My boyfriend and mother are sick, I didn't take good care of them, and she ignored me." The boyfriend said, "His mother and I are old classmates. We have contacts. His mother has always cared about me and made me feel the warmth of home. " Ms. Li thinks that there is a generation gap between herself and her boyfriend, and there is a crisis in her feelings, which leads her boyfriend to be very indifferent to her mother! So does Ms. Li really want to change boyfriends?

1, learn to understand, to understand her boyfriend's mother.

There is a generation gap between boyfriend and mother, but it is not a big emotional problem. When two people live happily together, they should also let each other feel the warmth of home. Especially the boyfriend's mother, takes good care of her body in life and always insists on doing housework to provide a good living environment for her children. He is a very grateful person. Without his company and tolerance, there is no happiness. Therefore, a man should learn to understand his father's thoughts and give his girlfriend enough support and understanding emotionally.

2. Introduce yourself and know what kind of person you are.

Don't just know who you are, let the other person know who you are. To know why other men love you so much, it's actually because of you. If the other person can't know himself well, then he will have resistance to you. So if you want to change each other, you must first make yourself better.

3. Pay more attention to your boyfriend and don't be a slave to emotions.

For a man, when his family is sick, you don't take care of them, but take care of them silently. This is not a man's responsibility, let alone a woman's. As men, everyone wants their families to be healthy and happy. Therefore, when a boyfriend is sick, pay more attention to his family, his family.

4. Let your boyfriend feel the warmth of home and learn to encourage and praise him.

Home is a warm harbor, so we should create a warm little environment for our boyfriend. Give him more encouragement at ordinary times to make him more confident to face the future life. Give him more praise and praise in life, give him a sense of accomplishment, and thus stimulate his self-confidence.

5. Make an emotional compromise.

Some women may feel love and dependence in their feelings, but at this time their consciousness is very weak, and they may be afraid of losing and start to escape. In fact, you can compromise properly in your feelings, for example, the two sides may quarrel. At this time, you need to compromise with her properly and don't let her have rebellious psychology.