I've known each other for several months, and the Spring Festival is coming soon. The other party didn't mention the year to my parents either. Is this man rude?

Maybe this young man thinks it's too early to pay a New Year call to your parents.

Another reason is that he may feel that his achievements in work are not very outstanding, and it is "shameful to see the elders in Jiangdong" to pay a New Year call to your parents.

My suggestion is that you should tolerate him, accept him, don't label him as "rude" or "ignorant of the world", and try to untie his heart with some inspirational words full of positive energy.

You can suggest that you pay homage to his parents for a year, see his attitude, and then consider countermeasures.

As long as you two really love each other, nothing is a problem! Even if you encounter a problem, time will give an answer. Believe in yourself, believe in him and believe in love!