How to tell your parents about your divorce (you will tell them about your divorce)

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Divorce, whether for men or women, will have a certain degree of influence. At this point, both of us will be hurt.

However, marriage can only be accepted when it comes to this. Yes, anyway, we have come this far because we are no longer suitable for this marriage. And divorce may be the best choice for each other.

After divorce, how to face it? This may be a question worth thinking about.

From a woman's point of view, maybe the pressure after divorce is even greater. Of course, this is not absolute. Some men face much greater pressure after divorce than women. Actually, it depends on your own specific situation.

But no matter whether men and women choose to divorce, there will definitely be pressure. As for how you face all this, it's your own business.

But from the point of view of mentality, it is still necessary to tidy up your mood as soon as possible. Get out of the pain caused by divorce earlier, and maybe we can start a new life earlier.

As for divorce, many people actually don't know how to explain it to the people they love. Especially your parents. Reader Xiao Gan is such a divorced woman. Let's take a look at her story.

Hello, teacher: Not long ago, my ex-husband and I divorced. Few people know that we are divorced. We dealt with our marriage problems in a low-key way.

I am a woman who has been married for a long time and lived with my ex-husband for ten years. But now this relationship has come to an end. My mood is actually mixed, I don't know how to describe it.

I don't want to see this. But with the ex-husband, the relationship has actually been so long. Our feelings for each other have long since worn out.

Without emotional foundation, it is awkward for two people to be together. I thought about it for a long time, and finally discussed with him and divorced him.

After the divorce, we will still be as kind to our children as before. This is what we discussed. The child lives with me, and he will take time to see her.

Now I live with my daughter, because I am a long-distance married woman and have worked in this city for many years. My parents don't know my specific situation either.

Now my ex-husband and I have been divorced for three months, but I don't know how to tell my parents. Seriously, they will be very disappointed.

These are all my worries. I think that women who have the same experience as me may not know what to do in the face of such a situation.

Emotional analysis: the heart of a divorced woman: "I don't know how to tell my parents after the divorce." In fact, there are many similar cases. Take the woman above as an example. In fact, she still knows something about her present situation. Although she may not be over the divorce.

But she understands that she needs to go on her own in the future. Besides, she also knows that it will be told to her parents sooner or later. I just don't know what to tell my parents at the moment. Therefore, there will be some troubles in my heart.

This is normal.

I think I can choose to explain to my parents when I go back to visit them. You can tell them why you want to divorce, or you can tell them your plans after divorce. In this case, parents may be relieved.

Yes, since neither parent knows now. Just don't tell them for the time being, lest they worry. Of course, you can't hide it for long. How to balance discretion and choose when and how to say it. You have to think about all this in advance.

In the face of such a thing, relax. Don't think too much, first tidy up your mood, this is the first priority.

"After divorce, will you tell your parents about your divorce?" In the end, you have to choose to tell them, but you can choose not to tell them for the time being.

Yes, the woman in the above case chose not to tell her parents for the time being according to her own situation. This may be the right choice for her. But if your specific situation is not like this, don't learn from her.

In fact, every divorced woman's situation is different. You need to choose whether to talk according to your own situation. Of course, in the end, I will definitely say that there is no doubt about this.

Don't worry too much that your parents will blame you. If your marriage is unhappy, they will be sad, too. And if divorce can keep you away from pain, they will still understand you.

In fact, sometimes there is no need to worry too much between children and parents. Communicate honestly with your parents.

Of course, we are all adults. For your own personal problems, you still have to make up your own mind. Don't let parents worry about us all the time. Anyone who wants to be a child can understand this truth.

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