He is very kind to you, but he says he doesn't like you and just treats you as a friend. What kind of mentality is it?

There are two possibilities, one is to treat you as a good friend, and the other is to treat you as a spare tire or a booty call.

Personally, I think the first one is more likely, about 30%. The second possibility is more likely, about 70%.

I believe that the first possibility exists because I believe that there is heterosexual friendship in this world, and it can be as strong as same-sex friendship. Believe me, heterosexual friendship really exists. You think there can be love between the same sex, so why can't there be friendship between the opposite sex, right? Great friendship can exist between the same sex like Marx and Engels, or between you and the opposite sex like that boy.

I believe he regards you as a good friend. As good friends, it is natural to get better. It is normal. Aren't you kind to your best friend, too? So it's okay for him to be nice to you. As long as you don't cross the line, he should not cross the line. Your friendship tree will last forever. Ten or twenty years later, when your life comes to an end, he can still be your good friend. As the saying goes, it is enough to have a bosom friend in life. If you are lucky enough to meet such a person who can be good friends for decades, it is a very happy thing whether he and your gender are the same or not.

I have the second possibility to leave the ground because, as a straight man, I deeply understand the inferiority of men as a species. Men are very possessive of the opposite sex. Although the uniqueness of love temporarily suppressed their desire to sow, this desire has been hidden in their subconscious and never left. So they are generally eager to see the dragon, eating bowls and staring at the pot.

He may have a little affection for you and think it's okay to have physical love with you, especially if you don't need him to be responsible. But if he wants to make a vow with you and grow old with you, he can't make up his mind. He thinks he can meet better people, he thinks he can fuck the opposite sex better, but he is not sure about the future. If we don't meet again, he will make do with you.

But you can't tell what will happen in the future, can you? In case he meets the opposite sex he likes and succeeds together, it's basically none of your business, but as I said just now, men always eat from the bowl and look at the pot. If he has a girlfriend and you are in that pot, he probably wants it from you. At this time, you are still a spare tire, a spare tire that will never turn positive, although it will never turn positive. When he and his girlfriend are unhappy, you open your arms to him, and he will run to you like a puppy, sniff on you, and even go to Wushan with you, but after sex, he will still run back to find his goddess.

This is the difference between male spare tire and female spare tire. The female spare tire still has a chance to use the body of the male god, and the male spare tire will never have a chance. Because the male god does not pay special attention to the cells produced by his meiosis, the goddess pays special attention to the cells produced by his meiosis and the environmental space where fertilized eggs can be bred.