How to deal with blue personality

How to deal with blue personality? Blue gives people a calm and rational feeling, just like the blue of the sea. In FPA personality color, people's personality is divided into four types: red, blue, yellow and green, each of which is representative. Here's how to deal with the blue character.

How to deal with blue personality 1 My advice to people with blue personality is that he sometimes speaks without considering your feelings and pays attention to perfection. When he is critical of you, don't mind, understand that he is such a steady and steady character, and he is actually critical of himself. When communicating with him, don't care about his attitude and tone towards you. Pay attention to what he said and what he meant, learn from their earnest attitude in doing things in this respect, have a clear sense of purpose, be firm, learn as much as you can, behave yourself, be a man, and try not to bully people like him. Learning the other side of him will help others, but you must have your own opinion and don't oppress others.

What personality does blue represent?

The kind of person represented by blue is reserved and introverted, and his feelings are obscure. He attaches great importance to logic and rules and does not allow others to change their minds. Pursue perfection and practice. Feelings are single-minded, and it is not easy to get rid of past feelings.

Blue personality, they are perfectionists. People like them are eager to establish and maintain lasting and profound relationships. They have valuable qualities, treat friends, are loyal and sincere, and have deep-seated care and communication in thought.

The motivation of people with blue personality comes from the pursuit of perfectionism. Whether they are strict with others or themselves, they always want perfection in their hearts.

These people are serious in life, profound in thought, independent in thinking, taciturn, but mature, valuable, responsible, safe, reliable and cautious. Adhere to principles, have a strong sense of responsibility, will abide by principles, and will arrange things in an orderly manner.

So once a blue word is hurt by feelings. It is usually difficult for them to get out, and it usually takes a long time to recover if they are lovelorn.

It may take several months for the scarlet letter to be lovelorn, and it may take three to five years for the blue word to be out.

How to deal with blue personality II. The advantages of blue personality

As an individual, people with blue personality are more stable, have a well-organized life, have high standards for themselves, and like to pursue perfection. Good at analysis, organization, careful thinking, think twice before you act. Adhere to principles, have a strong sense of responsibility, pay attention to commitment, and be a reliable and safe person.

As friends: people with blue personality silently pay for others to show their concern and love, always remember some special days and remain loyal to friendship. When friends encounter difficulties, they will try their best to give encouragement and comfort. When friends have problems, they always play the role of solving and analyzing.

Daily communication: People with blue personality like sensitive and in-depth communication, can put themselves in others' shoes, remember their feelings and thoughts during conversation, and like the collision and interaction of small groups. Pay more attention to the details of the conversation

Career: Emphasis on system and procedural norms, details and processes. Make a plan before doing things, evaluate risks, obstacles and conditions, and try to eliminate unpredictable situations. Consider things carefully, and I am more interested in verifying the effect with the management of tables and graphics. Perform work tasks meticulously.

Second, there are too many blue words.

As an individual: easy to be depressed, pessimistic and negative, emotionally fragile and depressed, and sometimes trapped in past emotional experiences. Easy to worry, worry too much, hesitate. Too perfect requirements can sometimes make people feel pressured and difficult to approach.

As a friend: I am overly sensitive, sometimes difficult to get along with, have a strong sense of insecurity, often doubt others' words, and it is not easy to trust others. Sometimes I will personally verify whether others' answers are correct. Like to criticize.

Daily communication: principled, uncompromising, unconscious preaching and on-line, strongly expecting others to have sensitivity and depth and know themselves. I don't want to actively communicate with others, I don't like to create troubles and troubles for others, and I hate others to create troubles and troubles for myself. I always think that others can read their own minds and speak implicitly.

Work career: Seriously, criticize others and your work performance. Pay attention to small details, sometimes you will lose a lot because of small things. Sometimes more emphasis on rules, incomprehensible flexibility, formalism, it is easy to be defeated by unsatisfactory results.

Third, the diamond rule of blue character.

If you are a blue person, don't make yourself so demanding, learn to relax yourself and think positively. Not everyone knows the heart of blue personality, so speaking more directly can avoid the problem of not being understood by others in communication. Sometimes the so-called 80% perfection in blue personality is 100% perfection for others. If you think too perfectly, you may miss the opportunity.

If you have depressed people or clients around you, they like to be praised for being smart. Not much praise, but the essence. They pay attention to details, are rigorous and formal, and are punctual. If discussing problems with them requires high systematicness, logicality and accuracy, it is best to make full preparations in advance to make the communication more quality.

How to deal with blue personality 3 blue personality characteristics

If you have a blue personality in your life, you get a rare privilege to enter an already defensive life. If he is your partner, you should remember that happiness depends on how you respect the blue word for privacy and loneliness.

Blue character is eager for and pursues fairness, so she is always worried about being used and taken advantage of by others, so she will appear haggle over every ounce. Deep down, they are willing to give everything for their loved ones.

A healthy blue personality will protect the people he is close to and agrees with and feel at home with them. They are very loyal and reliable, and people can entrust their work to him. They are the most loyal friends, no matter what challenges they face, they will walk side by side with you.

Blue personality has a serious philosophy of life. They think that life should be full of hardships and setbacks. Once they become smooth sailing, they will suddenly feel that they have lost the meaning of life.

This is nothing like a red personality. They have a happy philosophy of life, and everything in life can be used as a joke. So from the outside, Blue is rather dull and doesn't like joking. They don't like to be funny and surprised, and they don't like to convey their feelings through hugs and intimate physical contact. Of the four colors, blue is simply the most unfriendly person.

It is difficult for them to accept new things. Because of this, they don't like people who think they are "indecent", so on some occasions, jokes can easily arouse the disgust of blue personality.

When they are overly sensitive and fearful, suspicion will seriously erode and affect the hearts of the blue characters. As susan sontag said, they are against mediocrity and moral and aesthetic shallowness.

They maintain high standards of criticism for themselves and others, and sometimes such standards are too high to satisfy themselves, let alone satisfy others. In this sense, we can understand one of the reasons why they are difficult bosses or parents.

Blue words are brilliant, but they often doubt their talents. Their perfectionism always lets them hide their skills and talents.

The red character is always eager to show off with the mentality of "Look, how awesome I am", and then she is always dismissed as a child who likes to show off by her family and teachers. Under the gloomy service, I was always blaming myself in panic. Is there something wrong with me?

Blue character always feels that he is never good enough. They have a high degree of insecurity, and they are worried that showing their talents and skills is a show-off and brings risks to themselves.

Many people are aware of the perfectionism of the blue word, but the real blue word will not say that it pursues perfection, because they think that the word "perfection" itself is too far away, and just saying it is blasphemy.

The advantages of blue personality

Think deeply and think independently: It is no exaggeration to describe blue with human soul, wisdom and spirit.

Because blue is a highly developed brain, they are endowed with the depth of independent thinking, do not follow the trend, respect their own opinions and think about problems.

Lan likes to keep asking why, so she was called "100,000 whys" when she was young. They like to research and invent, and they like to disassemble models and toys.

Compared with children with other personalities, the blue color of childhood shows unusual seriousness and seriousness. Even in infancy, Blue always blinked their quaint little eyes when she was not crying or making trouble, and seemed to be thinking about something all the time.

Many masters on the stage may be red, but the real masters are blue.

Mature and steady, delicate and intimate: Blue is a perfectionist, and they expect to do better in their bones. If you have enough evidence and facts to prove that it can be done, they won't take action until they are sure that everything is safe.

Blue respects moral norms and order, which makes them not fight easily in the face of pain, but sacrifice themselves to solve the problem.

The blue color in the emotional relationship between the two sexes brings your partner something that he will remember that you don't. If Lan cares about someone, he will try to understand you, gain insight into you and do what you need for you. They are so disdainful to express their inner feelings in words, let alone praise them lightly.

Loyalty and friendship: Life is a series of promises to Blue, and they will unreservedly dedicate themselves to a cherished friendship, treat each other with sincerity, seek each other with voices, and bond with friendship. Because they pay attention to the depth of interpersonal relationships, their friendship can often last a lifetime.

Blue is a highly reliable friend. They equate any verbal commitment with a written agreement written in pen and ink. They are proud of their long-term relationship. This loyalty makes Blue enjoy richer and deeper friendship than any other personality.

Pay attention to accuracy and be obsessed with details: For Lan, once the rules are made, everyone must strictly abide by them. Blue usually highly respects the authority of law and order, and they also appreciate others' pursuit of high harmony and order.

Blue likes to put things in order. The loose side of the world makes them feel depressed, and they have a strong will to adjust disorder into order, which makes them feel a little satisfied. That's why Blue likes to organize things so much.

Blue likes precision, which is strongly driven by their perfectionism. For Lan, anything worth doing must be the best. They can easily find out whether punctuation marks are correct and whether headers and footers are aligned, and take pains to correct them.

Inherent characteristics: "The exploitation of mineral resources of human intelligence is bound to be promoted by adversity" and "sadness makes people particularly acute", which is why blue character can feel the happiness of the soul more when reading tragedy works than when reading comedy works, and it is a kind of sad "happiness".

When handing in homework, the red letter handed in a lot of homework, and each homework was 60 points, while the blue word only handed in one homework, but it was 100 points.

"Independent thinking" is not the same as "independence". Compared with the truly independent yellow characters, the blue trick is more to maintain ideological independence and personality independence than emotional independence.

Blue character thinks that the true meaning of life is not produced in the excitement; The generation of philosophy is often hard to find in painful loneliness. In the blue word's view, the noise in the crowd will bury many inspirational creations.

Blue characters such as "hot water bottle" are in sharp contrast to the scarlet letter "Tangpozi" (called "hand warmer" or "hot treasure" in the north).

Blue character feels that it is too easy to express her strong feelings, but the proof of practical action is meaningful.

Blue character thinks that appreciation and love are extremely superficial once expressed in words! They are more willing to express their inner thoughts through actions. Blue disdains to cater to each other's wishes and only says a happy word. In the blue word, there is no point in saying anything.

Blue tends to pay attention to details and processes, hoping that others can understand what they are doing without saying anything. They prefer to use hints rather than direct methods to show the information they want to convey.

Because they attach great importance to commitment and are willing to defend it with their lives, the blue character can be the most trustworthy character.

"Make a plan before doing anything, and then strictly follow the plan" may be the second criterion after the highest motto of "just do it" in the blue word principle of doing things.

Red characters like the novelty and uncertain happiness in change, while blue characters like the safety and stability of planned programs.

If it doesn't matter to you, it won't matter to others. Learning to understand and respect other people's thoughts and feelings, learning to understand others, is our lifelong homework.

Blue character is a perfectionist. They want to be the best, find the best and try to be the best. They work hard and like to do high-quality work, even if it means longer time and hard work. For them, if it is worth doing, it must be the best. Any relaxation and lowering of standards will make them feel condemned by their conscience, which will be a great shame.

Yellow characters try to solve the most complicated problems in the simplest way, while blue characters may explain the simplest problems in the most complicated way to ensure thoroughness and rigor. Just like this, they often use an existing idea and make it develop. They have the ideas and skills of inventors. So yellow characters simplify complex problems, while blue characters complicate simple problems.

Restriction of blue characters

Negative and pessimistic, pedantic and closed; Blue is the most complaining character. Blue never realized that they were born with negative thinking, and their chatter-Tang Yan's chatter, complaining and critical Tang Yan's chatter-was enough to have a devastating impact on other personalities.

The core of this blow is to destroy the good mood of others. If Lan can't get rid of the mantra of "nothing good", "well, I don't think so" and "I told you so, you can't do that", their own lives will be plunged into bleak storms.

Blue is so pessimistic and worried. Always think the worst. Be careful when you do things. When it breaks down or is damaged, it is afraid, and it cares about the evaluation of people around it. Thinking about not letting others point fingers behind your back is always the first. Perfectionism often makes them lose the minimum reasonable confidence in themselves, and they are often indecisive, worried, timid and hesitant in their behavior.

Sensitive and suspicious, vulnerable and self-pitying; "What do you mean?" Most people who use this phrase are blue, and their sensitivity also makes them suspicious.

Blue will technically break down every word of others. What's more, the final conclusion is usually more negative than positive, more negative than positive, more pessimistic than optimistic. Blue is the most ironic person of all personalities. This kind of irony makes people feel "yin" and "acid", which makes you feel as uncomfortable as rheumatoid arthritis. As blue, their starting point may not be bad, and their original intention may not be what they say, but it is really difficult for others to accept.

Heavy-minded and difficult to get along with; Why don't you just say it? Because blue has a strong hope that others can understand her wishes, it is inevitable to beat around the bush in her expression, hoping to solve all communication obstacles through hints. Unfortunately, not everyone can understand it, which is why others think that blue is not straightforward and seems a bit petty.

Lan wants to be understood, but she hates self-analysis and revealing her heart. She thinks that such a confession will lose the original meaning of communication, and they hope that someone can read him patiently. When others don't understand, he will be very frustrated. When he conveys his meaning to the other party, he tends to hint rather than be straightforward.

Demanding and suppressing nervousness; Blue is a character whose mood is difficult to relax for a long time. Typical unhealthy blue is easy to be in sadness, anger and depression for a long time, which is far more harmful to the body than a serious disease. Blue sensibility always transcends reason. Once the emotions are intense, the emotions of grief and indignation are always full of themselves. For people who disagree with themselves, they are likely to push each other to the opposite side and intensify contradictions indefinitely. This is bound to be overkill. Although it is happy, it also causes many unnecessary contradictions.

Blue requires society and others to be as self-motivated and have correct moral values as themselves. But in fact, the world around him is not as perfect as he imagined, so they are disappointed and angry. And blue made a mistake and didn't even want to forgive herself. How could she forgive others easily?

Because of refusing to interact with the outside world, the unhealthy blue character becomes easy to escape, divorced from the crowd and reality.

On the one hand, they are full of vigilance and reprimand, on the other hand, they are afraid of attacks from others. Therefore, they are prone to doubt and mental stress. They are troubled by delusions, and their thoughts in turn threaten themselves. As a result, they become paranoid and constantly suffer from phobias.

Compared with the red character, it is easy to "jump out of grief and not be lost", while the blue character lives more in the past and can't get out of the trough for a long time, cheer up and make people around him miserable.

Blue character is not confident because she is used to underestimating her own advantages and seeing her own shortcomings more.

When the sensitivity of blue character goes to extremes, if you are too timid, you may have fear, which may lead to paranoia and morbidity. When the blue character indulges in his gloomy imagination, one day the blue character may go too far, leading to symptoms of danger and self-destruction.

Blue character wants to be understood by others, but hates self-analysis and disclosure. He believes that such a confession will lose its original meaning and lose a very important process. They hope someone will have patience to understand him.

When others can't understand, he will be very frustrated. When conveying his meaning to the other party, he tends to use implicit hints instead of direct hints.

Yellow revenge is to show that you are the final winner by fighting back; And blue, they can't understand their blind hatred and passion, and they are deeply immersed in their emotions.

The perfectionism of the blue character makes them feel that if something is worth doing, it must be the best. It's a pity that they will never reach their best, so they would rather not do it. In order to avoid being too demanding and pursuing perfection, the words that Blue Word has to recite all his life are: "In my eyes, others have thought it was 100."

Blue character believes that the motto "People can only make progress through constant criticism" makes people around them live very hard and easily frustrated.

Yellow personality and blue personality tend to give others a sense of oppression and inaccessible. The difference is:

Yellow personality gives people "pressure" and blue personality makes people "depressed"; Yellow characters feel "cold" and blue characters feel "cold"; Yellow people think you are "weak" and blue people think you are "retarded".

People with blue personality say "no" longer than other colors say "yes", and his stubbornness can resist any force or coercion.

Because of strict order, rigid appearance, blue personality does not know how to release emotions and lacks a sense of humor. Even at parties, we seldom find them absorbed and laughing, and their melancholy personality can never be relaxed. Immersing yourself in negative thinking is not morbid, but it reduces a lot of fun in blue's life.

The typical blue word treats the person you like, and you must learn to "fold the flowers straight, don't wait for the flowers to be empty!"

For details that have nothing to do with others, the blue word will be captured with highly sensitive observation, and its importance and severity will be magnified ten times, and then a modification scheme will be proposed. But many times, while losing flexibility, it also eclipses the high emotions and atmosphere around it.

People with blue personalities usually delay or get stuck in details for fear of making mistakes. Their standards cover all aspects of life, and their rules are "rules", which I believe everyone knows. They hate those who break the rules and escape successfully.

Emotional needs of blue personality

"Please support me, don't tease me, please give me more quiet and independent space." This is the heart of blue.

The basic appeal of blue character is to do all the arranged things well. They have no other way.

When you can't finish something in time, they will think you didn't do your duty. Because doing a good job is a job, you have to criticize if you don't do it, and you don't need to praise if you do it.

The following points will help you better meet the needs of blue personality:

Support: They need to know that "you are on his side". If you joke with them or make fun of them, they will get hurt easily. Don't ask, "What's wrong with you?" Instead, I should say, "I see you are hurt, and I will stand here until you want to tell me."

Quiet space: Contrary to the characteristics that red characters need to talk, blue characters need their own space. They want to know what they did today and what they must do tomorrow. Try to understand that the blue word has its own living space and try not to disturb it. Blue words hate noisy, noisy or chaotic. They need a space where they can escape from the noise for a while, and this space happens to be their bridge opening, where they can temporarily stop the noise, laugh and cry for a while. Please pay attention to their wishes and don't disturb them.

Step by step: Try to respect the daily arrangement of Lan's personality and disturb him when there is something really urgent. If possible, help your blue personality partner stick to the schedule, which will relieve their stress.

If you have a blue personality, realize that no one can fully meet these needs.

Life is not always perfect. When your schedule doesn't work properly, it's not necessarily your fault.

Sometimes time or circumstances may not allow others to finish the work your way, but that doesn't mean they don't love you.

Always remember-we live in an imperfect world, and you can never make everyone live the way you want.