What is the psychology of people who send text messages in groups?

Why don't I like sending text messages in groups? I believe many people will feel the same way and can also cause * * *. Sometimes it is unnecessary for a person to hate something. That kind of hatred comes from the deep heart, and the rational brain can't analyze the reason. It may also be just a performance art that shows personality. Like it or not, just for entertainment, not serious about things or people themselves. I often get lost in all kinds of annoying reasons, list them like a paranoid, and convince myself that annoying is rational enough, not whimsical, not an overwhelming prelude. Then try to make it clear why it is annoying!

First, sending messages in groups seems insincere.

The Spring Festival is a good time for family and friends to get together. Usually, they are disjointed, intimate and distant, familiar and unfamiliar. Some years, this rope is twisted together, and they can't help getting close to each other. They made an appointment to greet each other and catch up. The atmosphere is a vast world and an idle time. Everyone has no pressure and chats naturally. But for those who can't meet each other, they can only realize the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as calling New Year's greetings, online video, SMS and emerging WeChat. Telephone and video are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, and it is impossible to spread to all relatives and friends unless they are particularly close. Short message is a popular form of communication, which is fast and convenient enough and has been popular for more than ten years. Now they still occupy the first channel of New Year greetings, but short message operators happen from time to time.

On such a grand occasion as China New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing messages. The more they receive, the more they show that they have strong personality charm and make more friends, which is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, among the many messages you received, you found that different friends sent the same blessing message, and some reckless people even forwarded it before changing their signatures, which is even more surprising. Will it still feel heavy? Of course not. You will regret finding yourself unimportant, and you will see through your friends' carelessness. Tap a key on a short message, and the message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. This convenient operation will ruin your friend's good image of sincerity and reliability in your mind. It turns out that you are just a string of cold numbers in his New Year greetings. What you send is not a blessing, but a radio wave that tests the link. At this time, people tend to doubt the significance of texting and lose confidence in their sincerity.

Second, sending messages in groups casts a layer of dust on the celebration of the New Year.

Chinese New Year celebrations run through the New Year's Eve, and most people who have gone through hardships just happen to catch up with it. Perhaps the only good time to reunite with your family is New Year's Eve and the first day or two. On other days, they need to go out to visit relatives and friends often, and they are as busy as children. Therefore, the feast of New Year's Eve needs to calm down and concentrate on spending time with parents and family, but this time is also the time to send a message of blessing to generate, and everyone can't stop the interference, because you can't rudely refuse other people's good wishes, and you can receive sincere wishes, which will definitely add icing on the cake to the festival. If the massive text messages on the screen fill the memory of your mobile phone like a plague, your heart will not be so beautiful and you will be depressed! You'll get sick! These massive short messages are submerged in the torrent of truly meaningful greetings, which may make you miss the vital blessing information in your life. It is possible that the person in your heart has not received a response for a long time after sending you a blessing of love, and there is always a feeling of resentment. During the Spring Festival, any unpleasantness will cast a layer of dust on the celebration of the New Year, leaving a shadow in my heart. A bad beginning will always make people have an inextricable knot.

Third, sending messages in groups makes friendship or family lose its sense of reality.

The maintenance of feelings lies in the management and dedication of both parties. Affection and friendship are two different feelings. We tend to treat each other separately and maintain sincere and long-lasting feelings with different attitudes and ways. The greetings during the Spring Festival, however, have brought the two feelings together and merged into one. During the Chinese New Year, friends and relatives can't tell each other clearly, and they don't want to be so clear. Anyway, it's the New Year, just for happiness and luck, the rule that family and friendship can agree with each other is simply a pot of stew. The disadvantage of mass texting is what kind of mentality is behind those emotionless words. The compilation of blessing information is not a mass mailing, and the true meaning of the text may not be recognized by the sender. Maybe many senders don't know all the information at all and send it out at will. The meaning itself is not important, but the sender cares about the sending itself. Let the other person think about it and see if I haven't forgotten you! Even if the same short message is sent to all the names in the address book that can be stored in the address book, how many are real friends? Not all of them, but quite a few of them may be working partners who have met once or have never met before. These people can't be mentioned in the same breath as their relatives and friends, but they don't have this choice in transmitting information. Family friendship has lost its sense of reality here.

I hate sending short messages in groups, but I don't hate leaving messages for the New Year. Calling is the best way to pay a New Year call, but it's too late. The next best thing is to choose information. But I will edit the information item by item and try not to be identical. After all, it is sent to all kinds of relatives, friends, teachers and classmates, even if it is slower. A year is a long time.