Every time a boy eats something delicious, he will tell me and even give it to me. Sometimes he sends me text messages, and I don't care. His mental state is also normal. What do you mean?

It is said that men chase women to block mountains and women chase men to block yarns. If boys really love girls, even if there are many mountains ahead, they can come to girls across the mountains and rivers. This is the kind of boy who takes the initiative in love. But there is always such a person in the world who feels inferior. Even if the girl cares about him, he just refuses to confess and insists on waiting for the girl to take the initiative. If he wins the following points, it means that the boy is waiting for you to take the initiative.

First, pay close attention to you

If a boy doesn't care about you, don't pay close attention to the dynamics of your circle of friends. Even if you walk up to him and say "hi", I'm afraid he won't bother to look at you.

When you send something in a circle of friends, he will praise you for the first time, give you comments, and even send a similar circle of friends, which is full of hints. Girls with high emotional intelligence, if you understand this, then take action.

Second, playing hard to get.

Playing hard to get is like a magnet. If you hold it properly, you can get the desired effect. If you play hard to get, you will only drift away from him.

In a relationship, proper playing hard to get will make the other person more and more fascinated with you, and blind excesses will only make the other person your enemy.

Xiao Ai met a boy of similar age while learning to drive. After a period of hot chat, the two are ready to continue to develop a certain relationship. Xiao Ai's good friend told her to learn to play hard to get, which would make the boy more fascinated.

But unexpectedly, after a period of "uh-huh" and "good", the young men and women who have been walking together finally parted ways and never contacted each other again.

Third, verbal hints.

This kind of boy doesn't want to take the initiative, but he often mentions some girls, hoping that she will take the initiative.

For example, boys mentioned several times in front of girls that there was a new amusement park nearby and wanted to play, but no one accompanied them.

Girls should pay attention at this time. What he means is that he wants you to accompany him. If girls feel the same way, it's a good opportunity to get closer. Since he is unwilling to take the initiative, girls should take the initiative.

Fourth, often send content related to you.

Although this kind of boys are introverted, they generally don't let people see their thoughts, but they will still accidentally expose themselves when they fall in love with someone.

For example, send a circle of friends near your home, take a photo of the place you like, sometimes attach a paragraph, sometimes just a photo, as if urging you to find him quickly.

Some people may wonder, what is the psychology of a boy who obviously likes himself but doesn't take the initiative to express himself?

You know, not all people are extroverted. Although these introverted boys won't say I love you, their love is no less than those who are rhetoric.