The girl I like ignored me tonight. It's over. It's over. Do I have to insist?

Many times, the romance in the office won't last long, mainly because everyone is too familiar with it. Besides, the office is not a place for dating.

Smart people will never fall in love in the office!

Office romance can't avoid the following three situations anyway:

1.

The most common situation of office romance is that there is no distinction between public and private affairs, especially girls.

Reader Xiao Juan has been in love with her boss. Because the boss is a relative of the boss, they didn't deliberately avoid it in the company, which is quite high-profile.

At first, I was fine. Go to work together every day, be with you 24 hours a day, and envy others.

But as time went on, Xiao Juan became more and more unhappy.

Xiao Juan is a person who is content with the status quo, and her work ability is not particularly excellent, while her boyfriend is very strict with his work and has high demands on his subordinates.

Obviously, Xiao Juan is not his right-hand man. Another girl in the department works hard and is very popular with the leaders. Xiao Juan's boyfriend publicly praised Ann at the regular meeting more than once, which made Xiao Juan a little jealous.

At a recent regular meeting, Xiao Juan made a mistake at work, and her boyfriend severely criticized her in front of a dozen people in the department. It's ok if it's just criticized by her boss, but this is her boyfriend and so fierce. The more Xiao Juan thought about it, the more wronged she became, and she even began to cry in the company.

After coming back, Xiao Juan didn't listen to her boyfriend's apology. The boyfriend explained that the work mistake was really Xiao Juan's fault, and she had to bear the responsibility.

Why do you think people never make mistakes when they are safe? You should learn more from her!

Xiao Juan a listen to more angry, and said:

You think Ann is so good, why don't you go after her? I am nothing, so you look down on me?

Boyfriend thinks she is unreasonable and ignores her. After two days of cold war, they made up.

But there are still many problems.

For example, Xiao Juan had an upset stomach during her physiological period. She sent a message to her boyfriend asking him to get her a cup of hot water, but he often refused her on the pretext of being busy at work, or sometimes he forgot to say yes. At home at ordinary times, no matter what her boyfriend is busy with, Xiao Juan is responsive.

Xiao Juan can't stand the totally different attitudes of company and family, but her boyfriend thinks that public and private affairs should be separated, and she can't be too bored in the office.

In fact, both of them are right. Girls want a complete relationship, and boys have a clear division of work and life.

Many girls' brain circuits are like this: you make me angry at the company, then I will go home and lose my temper and ignore you. You make me angry at home, so I ignore you and don't cooperate with you when I go to the company, which makes people crazy. If you are irrational, don't try an office romance, it will make you fine.

2. Aesthetic fatigue

I can't imagine an office romance, especially one that still lives together.

It's okay during love. I can't wait to go to the bathroom together. But after the love period, see you at work, see you after work, and see you in the morning. Even if you look like a beautiful woman, you are tired of seeing each other.

Fat, long legs have also encountered this problem now.

The two developed rapidly, and after less than a month of contact, Long Legs moved to Pangpang's house.

However, after the love period, they disagreed on how to arrange the weekend time.

As I said before, Xiao Pang is a technician and usually works overtime. Generally, Long Legs will cook the meal first when they come home from work, and then Xiaopang will go home to eat for a while before getting ready for bed. So they usually have no entertainment time.

Long legs hope to be alone on weekends, go to road trip or just stay at home and watch a play.

But Pangpang usually works too much overtime. I hope to play ball with my good friends at the weekend to relax and get together with my long-legged friends.

Long legs don't like it, why do you have to give half the weekend to outsiders?

Fat doesn't understand. I've been with you for 24 hours, and I still can't make friends?

I understand everything. Their hobbies are quite different.

Pangpang is a fan of Marvel comics. Usually, Marvel Comics movies are released, and he will definitely go to see them. However, Longlegs prefers Korean dramas to watching superheroes. I watched it with chubby several times, but I couldn't understand it, and then I gave up.

Pangpang also likes playing ball and clubbing. These long legs don't like it.

Fat doesn't force her to attend. He thinks it's good to have his own circle of friends. To be honest, you will still get tired of being bored together all day.

The highest point of a relationship lies in the stage of testing and understanding each other. When you are in love, you are most afraid of not being fresh.

If I see you on any occasion, you will become boring, and over time there will be no desire to explore. In this case, there are two solutions: either one of them resigns or lives apart temporarily.

If the relationship between two people lasts for a long time, is it a matter of time? Moderate distance is the catalyst of emotion.

3. Risk of personnel changes

Why do most companies oppose office romances? Because at the company level, the biggest problem is the risk of personnel turnover, which is why I learned that Xiao Pang and long legs fall in love and will suffer from insomnia.

Pangpang is my right-hand man, and our team needs him. I will never let him go just because he is in love. However, the long-legged business ability is mediocre and can be replaced. If she leaves her job, will it also affect the stability of Pangpang in the company?

On the other hand, if their relationship breaks down, in order to avoid embarrassment, one of them will leave, which will be a huge loss for the company. If you don't leave, can two people who have hurt each other still treat their work rationally?

There are also extreme situations that companies have to guard against. For example, sales and finance fell in love, secretly tampered with the company's accounts and cheated the company. What should I do?

Therefore, office romance is harmful and useless, and smart people will not choose office romance. If you are having or planning an office romance, you must think twice before you do.