How to save an ex-boyfriend? How to send text messages?

Now many girls will have a period of regret after breaking up. At this time, if you want to save your ex-boyfriend, there is still hope. So, how should I send him a message if I want to save my ex-boyfriend?

How to save an ex-boyfriend

First, avoid stalking and texting.

The outbreak of emotional problems is often not the cause of single contradiction, but the process of contradiction accumulation. Many people only see the fuse of the contradiction, but not the root of the contradiction, so we must have a clear understanding and be fully psychologically prepared.

Second, avoid bringing up the past.

If you don't agree with the other person's reasons for breaking up when editing short messages, arguing with him or even shifting the responsibility to the other person will often increase the contradiction between you.

Third, enhance attractiveness.

Emotional counselor pointed out: "In a relationship, curiosity comes first, interest comes second, and attraction comes third", so you want to attract, just to attract his attention and curiosity. If you pester him all day after breaking up and beg him not to leave you, it won't arouse his curiosity at all.

If you want to arouse curiosity, you have to live abnormally, better than when you are in love, dress yourself up more beautifully, expand your social circle and life circle, face the former with a normal heart and let him see that you are not indispensable to him, and life will be better without you. Let him be curious about your abnormality, which will help him realize his mistake and better take the initiative to save you.

How to save an ex-boyfriend by texting?

First, keep the news in a positive attitude.

No one likes a person who is always too negative, that is to say, he breaks up with you, and every time you send a text message to the other party, it is to save it. Every time you send a text message, it is "I can't live without you. Without you, my world becomes so gloomy. Will you come back to me? " Wait, especially offensive information is not conducive to emotional recovery.

If you really want to save your ex-boyfriend, your message must be positive, and others will be happy for you when you hear it. Face life positively, learn to find the beautiful things around you and show the good positive side to others. He may see you as you were and fall in love with you again.

Second, we should fully express our love.

There is only one purpose to save my boyfriend, and that is because of love. Because I love this person and don't want to lose him, I want to save it; Because I don't want to lose my sincere love, I will save it; Regret the impulse to break up, so we have to make up ... just because of love, write short messages with love, let the other person feel your love, and have a chance to save the other person's heart.

Third, sending text messages should eliminate the vigilance of the other party.

In the process of texting, you should convey to the other party the impression that "your texting is harmless, and your purpose is not to force the other party to get back together". Only in this way can we eliminate each other's vigilance.

If the other person replies to your message quickly, it means that the other person cares more about you, and there will be great hope for your reunion, but if the other person replies slowly, you should not be affected. Be careful not to expose excessive demand for recovered news, express your concern like an ordinary friend, and let the other party put down their guard and accept you again.

Ways to save ex-boyfriends

First of all, grasp the meaning of love in life.

When saving love, we should also learn to be reserved. Don't go all the way to the dark and refuse to give up. Perhaps letting go early and loving someone worthy of your love with full blood is the best way to save love.

Second, really solve the problem that caused the breakup.

After finding out the problem and understanding the reason, you can choose the right time to communicate with each other in depth. On the one hand, calm down and communicate with each other in an emotional way, while guiding each other to express their inner thoughts and dissatisfaction.

If your own problems lead to the other person's emotions and misunderstandings, you can apologize to the other person appropriately. In addition, you can also express your inner feelings and demands to each other, guide each other out of indifference and alienation, and discuss how to solve them together.

Third, the method of playing hard to get

Playing hard to get is often used in redemption, which can help us to complete the transformation of high and low roles perfectly, and also let the other person see his heart clearly, and let him find that he has you in his heart, even without you. Playing hard to get can't be used easily, because if you can't correctly analyze and grasp each other's psychology, it may freeze and recover, which will seriously lead to death.

How to maintain a long-term relationship

First, don't take your boyfriend's kindness to you for granted.

When the relationship enters a stable stage, many people will have such emotional confusion: he used to give way to me everywhere, but now he ignores me. Most girls will attribute such problems to each other's fault and think that their boyfriend's attitude has changed. Actually, it's not like this. In a relationship, a girl always thinks that she should be loved, and it is a responsibility and a manifestation of love for her boyfriend to be kind to herself. In fact, such an idea is the most terrible killer in feelings. Once girls have such an idea, they will intensify their efforts to ask each other for emotional value and do not know how to be grateful to each other.

Second, learn to compromise in feelings.

Love is a marathon for two people, and neither of them can reach the finish line. There is no natural perfect partner, all couples or couples need to help each other to get to the end. There will be some bumps on the road to love, but these are all running-in processes. You should learn to hide the thorns that you may hurt each other.

There is no perfect love in the world, so don't have unrealistic expectations for love. If you choose a promising young boy, then you should tolerate his occasional naivety and immaturity; How to choose a mature and steady career man? Be prepared that he can't be with you all day. Love is like a container, which contains both good things and bad things. You can't admire his advantages and dislike his shortcomings at the same time. Only by learning to compromise in feelings can we master the trick of managing long-term love.

Third, good love promotes and progresses each other.

All partners who can grow old together can experience the ups and downs of life together and share the setbacks and happiness of life together. Good love should be nourishing. You can feel happy in love and feel that your life is meaningful. Bad love is consumptive, and you will be more and more tired in your feelings, and finally you will consume the same feelings of two people and lose yourself at the same time. Therefore, to run a long-term relationship, don't put all your life energy on each other, but leave some space for yourself.