A smart letter to the wife who cheated on her husband (a letter written by the wife who cheated on her husband)

I divorced with my children, and I forgave him, but he felt that you had no bottom line, and he despised you and looked down on you. And if you just ask him what he is doing after get off work, he will think that you are suspicious of him. In the end, they still torture each other, and the one who loves them more will always be hurt. Now that I have given up, my life is much happier. I have family and children to accompany me. No one can survive without me. Women should live happily and live for themselves. A cheating man is really dirty, let him get out of your world.

In real life, many women, after learning that their husbands have cheated, will stop thinking about food, or simply go on a hunger strike or self-abuse to protest. Some women will even protest in front of their husbands. Cry bitterly, beg, or ask relatives and friends to help win back this changed man

If conditions permit, please change to an environment suitable for improving depression. Choose an environment where you feel safest and stay with the people closest to you. It could be your parents' house or your best friend's house. Ask them to stop mentioning their husband or divorce and divert your attention.

During this period, if he is really willing to have sex with you again in the future, please let him wait. If he can't wait, it proves that he has no intention. Even if you can look back, your life with him will not be good in the future.

Cold your conscious mind, and your subconscious mind will surface and let you see your inner self. If you can accept yourself as you are, as you are, you can get over the shadow of being cheated and betrayed. At that time, whether you are divorced or not, you will have the answers and methods in your heart.

Without children, divorce is better than having children. If he doesn’t love you, leave him and let yourself go. To cure your depression first, travel, make more friends, and use all methods.

Divorce should be done as early as possible, and if you don’t have children, you should get out of it as early as possible. Once you have been married once, you feel that it is not a bad idea not to get married in the future, and live your life in the way you like.

Cheating is just a symptom, and there are often problems hidden behind it that we are not aware of. If you can also examine your own responsibilities in marital problems, it will not only help solve marital problems, but also help resolve the harm caused by cheating to yourself and your marriage. With harmony, you can forgive others, let yourself go, learn lessons, and manage your marriage better; with separation, you can let go, stay away, not get entangled, and have the ability to live a new future.

I have no children and am divorced from my ex.

But I don’t have much affection for my ex-dog

I’m almost going crazy from being tortured like this

People’s desire to survive is strongest when they are really desperate

So staying alive is the most important

Don’t torture yourself to death

It’s too painful, after all, life is still very long