There was a man who greeted me every morning for over a month. I feel that he has a crush on me.

The man who only says "good morning" to you every day has three reasons for doing this to you.

Guxier

2019-11-12, creator of high-quality emotional field.

# Emotion #

Text: Yuan Bo

Illustration: From the Internet

"I have a friend of the opposite sex who is not close. He asks me good morning every morning, but nothing else. This situation has been going on for almost a month. I really want to know what he is thinking. " This is a private letter sent to me by a netizen, and there is confusion between her lines.

A man asks you good morning every morning for a month, and he doesn't even have a superfluous word except good morning. What's he thinking? What kind of existence are you to him?

Many people must be curious about this kind of thing, and many people have experienced it personally in real life.

What makes this man insist on saying the same thing to a woman every day?

Some people say that a man can insist on saying good morning to you every day, which proves that you are still very important to him, otherwise he will not waste time and energy on you.

Some people say that if a man really loves you and has you in his heart, he won't just say a word to you. He will find all kinds of topics to approach you, instead of mechanical greetings every day.

Both views have some truth, but they are not comprehensive. A man can insist on saying good morning to you every day without a superfluous word. The reasons can be roughly divided into the following three types.

I love you very much, but I am clumsy.

Colleague Huang once loved a girl deeply, but she didn't know how to get close to her. She sent her good morning and good night every day, but she didn't say a word. Everyone laughed at him for being clumsy and unable to catch up with the girl.

But everything in the world is unpredictable. Who can predict the future? He persisted for half a year and finally got together with that girl. What girls value is his perseverance.

I once asked him why he was willing to take the time to say good morning and good night every day, and why he didn't want to say one more word to girls. His answer is: "I'm all thumbs, I don't know what to say, and I'm afraid I'll make him unhappy if I make a mistake, so it's safest to say good morning and good night every day."

There is a kind of man who loves you very much, but he is born dumb and doesn't know how to express it. He was afraid that there would be many mistakes in his words, so he cared about girls in this way and kept in touch with them for a long time.

This kind of man looks confused and even a little timid, but it is the most cherished. They love a person very much and want to care about everything about each other, but they don't want to bother too much.

They just hide in a corner, silently care about each other, and send blessings regularly every day. This kind of man is very valuable, and women must cherish him when they meet him.

Second, catch a big fish in a long line and want to get close to you slowly.

Friend Xiao Zhang is a famous lover in the circle. He made five girlfriends back and forth. The essence of his life experience lies not in these five ex-girlfriends, but in the way he chased girls.

He once threatened that there is no girl in the world that he can't catch up with, and he can succeed if he wants to. Xiao Zhang is in good condition, handsome and tall, and his monthly income is considerable, but his means of picking up girls does not depend only on his own conditions.

He once courted a girl who had only met once. The girl knew nothing about him, but he won her in the end.

According to his own account, he didn't spend much time with that girl. He just gets up every morning and says good morning to the girl, and then starts to do his own thing.

Afraid of forgetting to write a memo every morning, I persisted for a month and suddenly stopped sending it. Two days later, the girl finally couldn't stand it and began to contact him actively.

Now that the girl has taken the initiative, naturally she can't slack off, so she began to talk to the girl, and they were together in less than a month.

For many men, it is common practice to catch big fish in a long line. They ask you "good morning" every day, just to leave a mark on your heart and let you get used to this life.

When you really get used to his existence, he will suddenly leave. At this time, you will feel lost and even start to miss him, and his purpose will be achieved.

Most of these men are good at chasing girls, and they know very skilled skills in picking up girls. They are either masters of love or have been instructed by experts.

Anyway, it's better for girls to be careful when they meet such men, because it's rare for men to hook up with girls in this way.

Third, take you as a spare tire.

You used to think that the man who said "good morning" to you every day really loved you, otherwise why did he spend time and energy on you?

You are ecstatic, quietly enjoying each other's greetings, and even secretly planning your future.

You think you will be with him, you think he has you in his heart, and you are the person he cares about extremely.

It wasn't until one day that he passed by your world holding someone else's hand that you suddenly realized that you were just a spare tire from beginning to end.

This is a sad thing, but many women have encountered it.

The best way for a man to keep a spare tire is to have the shortest time in long-term contact with many women. Asking "good morning" is one of the most convenient ways. They don't need to spend too much time and energy, as long as they send those two words on time every morning.

You think you made him willing to invest time and energy. In fact, you are just his spare tire. He greets others and greets you.

Yuan Bo said:

It is often said that women are mostly simple in front of feelings, because they have love in their hearts and are willing to give all this love to their loved ones.

This is the most lovely place for women, but it is also the most sad place for them.

The biggest weakness of a woman is that she is easily emotional, moved, devoted and valued. As long as men treat them better, they will be deeply involved.

If they meet a man who really loves them, then all their feelings are worth it. But if they meet love rat, it will only end in a black and blue ending.

Girl: Please pay attention to the man who only says "good morning" to you every day. Don't rush for success and don't get caught up in it. Take your time and find out the real intention of the other party before making a decision. Don't hurt yourself and don't miss someone who really cares about you.