What does it mean to refuse my girl to send me a New Year greeting message? I haven't contacted him for a long time,

Love is an interactive process, while pursuit is an active process. The frustration in the active process shows that girls can't rise to the level of love for you; Sending a message without returning is a clear refusal to you, and WeChat is your last respect.

Every holiday, my mobile phone will receive countless blessing messages. Being blessed should be a happy thing, but I hate it very much. I don't know how to reply to those copied and pasted blessings.

This time, I replied "thank you" for the first time. I didn't hack each other, but silently turned the vibration of my mobile phone into silence.

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I don't remember when we began to live a more and more perfunctory life. For this reason, I lost many friends, and many friends also lost me.

I don't remember when the taste of the year began to fade. I think it may have started with the weakening of human feelings. ......

More than a month ago, I happened to meet my high school friend Lao Bai in the street. I wouldn't be excited if he hadn't given me a high school nickname from the opposite side.

I went up and punched the boy on the shoulder and said, fuck, it's you. I haven't seen you for years. If you hadn't called me, I really wouldn't recognize your grandson. ......

But when I realized that Laobai was still holding a girl's hand, I quickly took all the dirty words out of my mouth.

When I was in high school with Lao Bai, we were front and back tables and good friends who talked about everything. After graduation, I was admitted to universities in two different cities, and my contact was less. It's been more than eight years since I graduated from high school, and we should have met once, that is, in the summer vacation of my sophomore year, the classmate party organized by my high school class, which I haven't seen for five or six years.

Since Lao Bai is still leading his girlfriend shopping, let's exchange a few words briefly. When we leave, we won't forget to say a word to each other. Chat on wechat later.

Wechat, right, he didn't say I might have forgotten. I still have Laobai in my address book. The mobile phone was changed once last year, and the original WeChat chat record was gone. In the evening, I clicked on the head of Laobai and opened the chat page, hoping to make an appointment with him to have dinner and catch up.

The last time we chatted on the chat page was last year's Eve. Laobai sent me a blessing message, but I didn't reply anything ... I don't know why, the news that I had dinner with Laobai has never been sent out.

Lying in bed, I thought about how those little notes, greeting cards and postcards once became a mass blessing and praise from my friends. I thought about it for a long time, but I didn't understand it. But it suddenly occurred to me that I shouldn't throw away the greeting cards that others gave me in middle school, so I searched everything.

After so many years, no one knows where those dusty pieces of paper are hidden. Maybe I accidentally threw it away when I took out the garbage. Anyway, I really didn't find them. But in the bottom drawer of the desk, I made an unexpected discovery. I found my classmates' records when I graduated from high school.

From the first page to the page of Lao Bai, unlike other students' words in the column of greetings, Lao Bai wrote a whole page with the most neat handwriting. It doesn't matter what he wrote. I only remember staring at that page for a long time. ......

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Is it difficult to have original blessing information? It's hard!

Sometimes I think that those New Year greetings are all rustic expressions and rich words. Even if the template is innovative, will anyone really read it?

Every Spring Festival, many people put "friends" whom they haven't contacted for 800 years on the mass mailing list. What are you expecting?

Group blessing, is it blessing friends or satisfying yourself? Is it just a process, or do you want to exchange a reply and a thank you?

I don't think it's necessary if it's just a procedure. No one needs this kind of careless blessing from the masses. When a blessing is given to everyone, it will become meaningless, because it is no longer sincere and different.

If you are expecting a reply and thanks, you are all wet. Because there are really many people who scoff at this greeting. One of your group greetings wants to get an original reply from others. This unequal treaty has left you hanging. What are you doing?

In fact, we all know that no matter how clever, humorous and touching the language of your blessing is, a joke is just a joke after all. Behind this passage, there are no longer fresh people, but only cold machines.

In fact, such mass sending will not only bring you the desired effect, but quite a few people are very disgusted. Many people will greet people with black hair, and your insincerity can only be exchanged for chicken feathers in the end.

Then the problem is coming. Obviously, no one will watch it. Obviously, many people will resent it after it is sent. It was clearly a "blessing", but it turned into "harassment" in the end. Why are there people who are willing to send it so tirelessly?

I can only think of one reason, that is, our relationship is not so close or not so close, but you still want to find a chance to pretend to continue to say hello. We often tell others that we hope everyone will be "more sincere and less routine". As we all know, we have the most routines.