Ex-wife’s unwillingness

1. Take the initiative to contact you. If your ex-wife takes the initiative to send you text messages, or contact you through WeChat, Weibo, etc., it means that she has definitely not completely let go of you, and still hopes to get in touch with you. I don’t want you to disappear from her world. For example, she sends you messages from time to time, asking if she has eaten, how she is doing, how is her work, if she has a new girlfriend, etc.? This means that she definitely has not given up on you. If you have not let go either, then men can If you lower your head and look for her back in time, the probability of getting back together is very high. 2. Will talk to you late at night. When you can't sleep at night, when you are drunk, or when you are tired, a woman will be in desperate need of love. No matter how strong she is on weekdays, if she gives you love at such a time Chatting on the phone or sending messages is enough to show that she will still think of you when she is in need, and her feelings for you are not something to be laughed off. At this time, companionship is very important, and listening is very important, but do not bring up the matter of getting back together at this time. It is easy to destroy her atmosphere. She will suddenly wake up and then continue to ignore you. Listen to her troubles and comfort her with a few words. , paving the way for the future. 3. Keep your photos. I heard from a friend that she saw a photo of you two taken when we were together on her phone. Her ex-wife has never deleted it because she wants to keep this beautiful memory. 4. Inquiring about your news. At a party with friends you haven’t seen for a long time, your friends say that your ex-wife inquired about your recent life from him and asked you how you were doing and whether you were happy. She was thinking about you very much. , it means she hasn’t forgotten you yet. 5. Will interact with you in the circle of friends. Of course, this is not only the circle of friends, but also interactive platforms such as QQ and Weibo. But the circle of friends is the most used here. She may not take the initiative to find you, or Although she agrees to some of your requests, she will still appear in your sight continuously, like or comment on your circle of friends, or watch your likes and your friends also like them. If there is such a phenomenon, then to a large extent she has not let you go at all. No matter how relaxed and happy she says, she may be waiting for you to make some changes, because if you get back together according to the status quo, you will only make the same mistakes again. , she was unwilling to do so. At this time, you have to find the source of the conflict between you, and then make corresponding changes, speak with actions, and push forward with actions. When the time comes, she will naturally take the initiative, and reconciliation will be a matter of course. 6. She will come out if you ask her out. If you ask her out on a date, she refuses at first or agrees after a little hesitation. She is also willing to drink tea, eat, go shopping, watch movies, etc. with you. In fact, it doesn’t matter what you do. Want to be with you. These are actually signs that your ex-wife is still in love with you, or that the girl faked breaking up with you. When the above situations occur, we can regard the ex-wife as having reconciled. The state she was in before will be the state she is in now. As we said before Whatever you say about love, say it now; whatever you did to her before, do it now, hold hands, kiss, you will understand later. 7. Didn't change nicknames. Maybe you changed the same online name (a couple's online name) when you were in love, or you used nicknames to call each other privately. You find that she hasn't changed it for a long time, which means that she hasn't changed it. She is quite nostalgic, maybe she has never forgotten you. 8. I will ask you for help with big and small things. I can still maintain a relationship with you after a breakup, and I like to ask you for help with anything, but once I talk about getting back together, there will still be a 180-degree change. What should I say about this? She still has concerns about you. Although she still loves you, she is still afraid of falling into the same old path again, so she can't nod and agree to you, but she still can't let you go. Signs of an ex-wife's reluctance 2 Signs of an ex-wife still having feelings for her ex-husband 1. There has been no new feelings for a long time. Every little thing about being together in love, and experiencing big and small things together are not easy to forget. The life of a couple is like two hedgehogs spending the winter together. If they want to embrace each other, they must pull out their thorns. The changes you have made for each other and the subtle influence you have gained from each other are always lingering in your daily life. If a woman does not start a new relationship for a long time after divorcing you, it means that she still can't let you go, and deep down she still has a trace of affection for you. 2. Care about your ex-husband’s current situation. If after the divorce, you find that your wife is asking someone to inquire about your current situation, it means that she wants to know what you have been doing recently, or she is worried that you can’t take care of yourself.

Two people can get to know each other, and from the moment they step into the palace of marriage, their fates have been linked. If your ex-wife is inquiring about you, it means that she still cares about you in her heart, but she is too embarrassed to take the initiative to meet you or is not good at expressing her feelings. In this case, the chance that a woman will choose to get back together with you is very high. 3. Will contact you when encountering difficulties. There is a saying that the softest side of a woman's heart will only be shown to the person she loves. If she still seeks your help after the divorce when she encounters problems that she cannot solve, even for small things in life, it is enough to show that the only person she can rely on in her heart is you. In her heart, you are still her most solid backing and her most reliable haven. 4. Take the initiative to contact your ex-husband. If a woman cannot forget you after a divorce, she will contact you frequently. There is no storm in this world that cannot be overcome, and there is no difficulty that a couple cannot overcome. She may have realized after she calmed down after the divorce that after searching for so long, the person she loves most in her heart is still you. Therefore, if your ex-wife takes the initiative to contact you, the two of you should explain clearly what happened before, settle the old grudges, and work together again to put a perfect end to the previous regrets. What does it mean when an ex-wife cares about her ex-husband? Human emotions are the most uncontrollable. You will not be able to control your emotions in time just because the relationship is over. Divorce cannot end a person's thoughts, she may still have you in her heart. Symptoms of an ex-wife not letting go of her ex-husband: 1. Help you unconditionally. When you need help, even if you haven't asked yet, she will help you as enthusiastically as she did when we were together. This is someone who still has feelings for you. Help you unconditionally. The reason for doing this is just because she still has you in her heart. If a woman is unwilling to do something, no one can force her, let alone it has nothing to do with her? Being willing to help you shows that you still have feelings for you. When you see her again, she greets you and offers to help you. Such an action represents her heart. This is how a woman loves someone and will help you unconditionally. 2. Ask about your recent life. When a woman takes the initiative to ask you about your recent life, it already means that she has you in her heart. Otherwise, she would not do this. For a woman, she will not take any action against irrelevant people. Asking how you are doing lately is just because I want to know more about you. This behavior of a woman is a result of countless struggles in her heart. She wants to meet you again, but she doesn't know how to start a conversation. The nervousness and fear of making mistakes when they met, all actions represent that she still has you in her heart. Even if they are divorced and have nothing to do with each other, that heartbeat cannot be erased. 3. Nervousness that can be seen at a glance. Two familiar people will definitely still feel familiar when they meet again, but a woman who has you in her heart will be more nervous. When you meet again, you will find that her nervousness is too obvious. Whether it is her helpless look or her wandering eyes, it shows that she is very nervous at the moment. If a woman meets you with a nervous attitude, it only means that she still has you in her heart, she still cares about your opinion of her, and she has not completely let go of you, otherwise she would not be nervous in front of you. 4. Pay great attention to your manners. Women will only show attention to their manners on important occasions and in front of the person they love. Obviously your chance encounter is not an important occasion, then you are the person you love. When you see your ex-wife, she strokes her hair and pulls the hem of her skirt in front of you. These subtle movements reveal her inner self, showing that she is nervous at this moment and wants to show her beauty in front of you. This behavior of a woman shows that she still has you in her heart, so she cares about what you think of her, and hopes to always look the most beautiful in front of you. The status of ex-wife in a man’s heart: In a man’s heart, who is more important, his current wife or his ex-wife? In fact, the answer is nothing more than two words: separate people! For a man who doesn't really love you, even if he gives a fancy answer, his actions will eventually reveal his nostalgia for his ex-wife. How can you be happy when you marry such a man? A man who truly loves you will naturally forget the past and the troubles he had in the marriage, because he knows that they have passed and are no longer important. Only you now are the one he should cherish. `The person in front of you. Signs that an ex-wife is unwilling to give up 3 Signs that an ex-wife has given up on her ex-husband 1. She never wants to see you again If a woman never wants to see you again, it means that she has given up on you.

Don't bother her anymore. Because if a woman gives up on a man, then she will definitely not have any enthusiasm or emotion for this man. She would just want to stay away from this man. Because she no longer loves you and has despaired of you, she no longer loves you. The way she looks at you also reveals exhaustion and sadness. If a woman truly loves you, she will definitely want to get close to you and maintain friendly interactions with you. If she doesn't even give you a chance to meet, then her attitude has been made very clear. She has given up on you, and you can give up on her too. 2. She really treats you like a guest and is very polite. The original meaning of "respecting like a guest" is to describe husband and wife respecting each other like guests. If a woman is determined, she can treat you like a guest and will not act coquettishly with you anymore. When you speak, you definitely cherish your words like gold, and you can only say one sentence at a time. It is appropriate to be polite to strangers and ordinary friends. But if between husband and wife, your wife is always polite to you, it can only be said that she no longer regards you as one of her own, her heart is no longer with you, or her heart has died. 3. She doesn’t care what you do. She doesn’t want to participate in your world. Of course, men can’t enter her world either. At this time, the woman is really tired of the man, and she can only keep the grievances she has suffered in her heart. She may want to travel, but she won't tell her man. A woman who is obsessed with a man will exclude you from her world. You will no longer exist in her heart, and she no longer has any expectations for the man she once loved deeply. 4. Stop contacting you. A woman’s mind is actually very simple. If she loves you, she won’t care about anything. You may even find that your girlfriend who has been difficult to pursue before suddenly becomes a sweetheart after you fall in love. She will take the initiative to call you and even take the initiative to come to your home to help you clean up. But if a woman doesn't love you anymore, you will find that she has less contact with you. If you don't take the initiative to contact you, she will simply forget that you exist. Signs that an ex-wife has no feelings for her ex-husband: 1. She feels very embarrassed and disgusted by her ex-husband’s phone calls or appointments and meetings. So this situation means that your ex-wife has no intention of remarrying at all, and has completely regarded you as a stranger, leaving you only bored. 2. The ex-wife has started a new life of her own, with a new boyfriend and even a new marriage partner. In this case, it also means that the ex-wife does not want to remarry at all. A woman who wants to remarry will not accept other men easily. Being able to accept other men means that the ex-wife has been completely broken inside and there is no possibility of healing. 3. They often avoid their ex-husband and do not want any contact. Even far away from the city where they are, not wanting to have any more intersections. Women who change their phone numbers and addresses and just hope to start over will not accept remarriage. How to treat your ex-wife 1. First of all, if the relationship is not harmonious and the breakup is peaceful, then you can face each other calmly and the possibility of becoming friends is very high. After all, the two parties have been together for so many years, and their life circles and friend circles are very intertwined. , it is also a good choice to become friends if you can't be harmonious, but it's just that you will feel more or less uncomfortable when you see the other half of the other person in the future. 2. If the divorce is caused by resentment, dissatisfaction and disharmony, then if it is not handled well, it is likely that the two parties will no longer be able to communicate with each other. At this time, the friends involved will be very embarrassed. In fact, both parties can relax their minds. If you don't have children and are no longer in the same city, you may be able to do it slowly. In many cases, there will still be intersections, so don't worry too much about everything when it's over. 3. Both parties have no children. So, if they are reunited and separated, most people will choose to say goodbye after settling the property division. But if there are children, the children are the blood of both parties, so they cannot just stop contacting each other, regardless of the children. Which party should be left to take care of it? Parents should not spread their dissatisfaction on their children. This is not only unethical, but will also cause great physical and mental harm to the children without mercy. 4. Before both parties or one party finds a suitable partner, it is best to leave enough face for both parties in life. For example, if one party gets married first, they can selectively remain silent. After all, it is necessary to enter another happy life. Consider the current feelings of those who have experienced similar hardships.

5. If both parties find their other half again, then even if they have been unable to let go, they should find time to properly resolve it. Their children will have two more unfamiliar uncles and aunts to care for them as family members. And care, as parents also have a happy life for the rest of their lives, what is more important than the health and happiness of their children? Real-time communication, you can even send blessing text messages during the holidays, like old friends. Why is it difficult for men to let go of their ex-wives? 1: As a man’s first wife, he must have devoted all his emotions to her. No matter how time goes by, he cannot erase his complicated feelings for his ex-wife. Some men still do not forget it after remarrying. There may be some ex-wives who don’t want to forget or don’t want to forget. 2: The three major pains in life: not getting what you want, feeling that it is nothing more than that after you get it, and knowing how to cherish it after losing it. The two divorced due to various reasons, but deep down in their hearts they will always remember the goodness of each other and will not go away. Blame each other for their faults. Three: After a man remarries, he often compares his current wife with his ex-wife. The result of the comparison is that his current wife is not as good as his ex-wife. Therefore, the more they think about their ex-wife, the more they will never forget it. The ex-wife is always the woman who has given the most to him and is quite understanding and considerate to him. The new wife is generally younger and does not understand many things, which often makes them troubled, so men They complain that the new wife is not as good as the ex-wife.