English short message prologue

The so-called prologue is a set of words, questions or stories used to start a conversation with a stranger or a group of strangers.

First, the structure of the opening remark 1 Shoot the available props next to the target character-prepare the topic opening or impromptu opening and start the confrontation with the target character.

Words.

2. Time limit. After the opening remarks, give yourself a time limit. For example, "I have a little problem" and "I can only stay.

Excuse me, I'm going to meet my friend soon. "Of course, although you say so, it doesn't mean that you have to chase the prologue. such as

If you don't make a mistake, no one will ask you why you haven't left after the opening remarks.

3. Answer why you ask this question. After she answers your question, be sure to say, "I asked you this question."

The problem is because ... "That's the story. After the opening remarks, you must, you must! You need to add words. This is the basis of the opening remarks.

Three parts.

Look, it's not enough to just use the convention of preface. The essence of the opening remarks lies in the twelve-character mantra: listen.

The speaker is unintentional, the speaker is intentional, playing hard to get!

Second, the opening remarks need attention 1. Don't speak too fast so that others can understand.

Speak in a low voice, otherwise it is a sign of lack of confidence.

3. The body should show ready to leave from time to time, don't just stand among them.

4. Time limits and words must be used.

When contacted by strangers, most people will think about two questions:

1. Why does he want to talk to me? (Answer by word)

2. When will he leave? (Through body language and limited walking)

Only by making good use of the mentality of the person being accosted can we take the initiative in the process of accosting, otherwise, it is inevitable to get shot.

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Third, how to avoid anxiety One of the fundamental reasons why I am afraid to strike up a conversation is:

Everyone thinks this is a very unreasonable behavior. If you think of a stranger suddenly talking to you and then asking for your phone number, is it strange and unreasonable? In other words, if we can rationalize this behavior subconsciously, our chat anxiety will disappear. It's best to find a wingman to act with when chatting up anxious brothers. It is true that one person's behavior is unreasonable, but it is reasonable for many people to act together. So before you strike up a conversation, think that there are brothers fighting with us all over the country. You are not alone!

This is a way to relieve the anxiety of chatting up mentally.

In addition, a better way to behave is to warm up at the beginning and take it.

Before you go, you can ask a few girls for directions, only asking for directions is not a question mark, and asking more questions until you get into the state.

You can start taking it. You will find that after doing this, your hands will be smoother and your nervousness will be relieved.

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Fourth, the opening ceremony of each place.

self-study room

Beginners had better start from a fixed place, because in a fixed place, girls are not so defensive and fixed.

The study room in the workplace is undoubtedly a good choice, but the disadvantage is that the quality of girls in the study room is very low.

But it can be used as a place for beginners to practice. After all, it is too difficult to challenge the street from the beginning.

After the difficulties, slowly improve yourself.

There are probably several fixed routines in the study room:

(1). Borrow a pen, paper and transparent glue (you can borrow anything on her desk anyway). This is the earliest and most primitive.

The chat-up method in study room has never been used by brothers, and it is mainly caused by girls and themselves.

A buffer that paves the way for the following important numbers. The main operation method is to find out which study room has the most beautiful women.

Many people aim at the target outside the door to see if there is a space next to or behind the target. There'd better be a vacancy. If not, look for them.

Sit on the ground in the back row first, observe the situation around the target at any time, and walk forward with your bag as soon as you are free. Stay where you are and wait.

You can borrow it in the future, and you can find common feelings with girls after borrowing it.

Let's get down to business. For example, you have read a book on a girl's desk, or you are taking a class. In short, you have nothing to say.

Talk about it every 5 to 10 minutes, and pay attention to the girl's reaction. If the girl's reaction is cold, it's best to do so.

It's coming soon, so as not to affect others' study. If it reflects well, you can go deeper into the topic.

When girls pack their bags and are ready to leave, they usually give them their phone numbers.

(2). Paper flow. You can write this on the note: classmate, I think your hair is very good. It seems that you are very

I know how to maintain it. I want to ask your hair care tips and write down your phone number. If a girl likes you, she will send you a message.

If not, find common ground to chat. Note paper can be used with pen borrowing paper, and the effect is better.

(3). Direct opening. For the target girl, when the girl goes out to answer the phone or drink water, she will walk next to the girl.

Just say, "classmate, I just saw you watching." . . Books, you are studying. . . Really? "Anyway, just chat. or

The interviewer said directly, "I noticed you in the study room just now, and I think you have a good temperament." Can you understand me? " As long as you look

Good affinity, generally a few words can ask the number.

(4) Invite girls to show you around the campus. You can carry a bag and go to other schools for self-study on weekends, looking for that kind.

A school with a large number of girls. There are generally fewer girls in the study room on weekends. After selecting the target and finding the target,

Sit in the back and start:

"Classmate, are you from this school?"

"yes."

"I find the scenery in your school is very good. This is my first time here. "

"Really, which school are you from?"

"I am. . . Are you busy at school? "

"Not bad, what's the matter?"

"Oh, this is my first time to come to your school. I wonder if you can show me around? "

"Oh,. . . . . . . "

In fact, as long as you have a strong mentality and don't look obscene, nothing is impossible.

library

The operation method of the library is similar to that of the study room. If you find a girl looking for a book on the shelf and slowly approaching the target,

Read a book near the target, pay attention to what book the girl is holding, and create a common topic with the girl through the book.

However, it is best to pay attention to whether the girl comes alone or with her boyfriend. If you meet her boyfriend, you can

Smile at your boyfriend, "Your girlfriend has a good eye", find a topic to talk to her boyfriend, and then leave after a few words.

Most beautiful women go to the library with boyfriends, which is a bit depressing.

canteen

In the canteen, it is best to find a single target, but it is not easy for two people and many people to cut in. As for the starting point, it all starts with vegetables.

Eat and sit next to the girl. "Classmate, what kind of food are you eating here?" And "classmate, can I order here?" It is anyway.

If you have nothing to talk about, talk nonsense. If you talk too much, you can pull it up.

Campus gazebo, etc.

There are many pavilions and stools in the school, and there are many girls who like reading and English.

We can usually start directly: "My classmate, what are you studying? You are a freshman, study hard. "

Some girls who study hard can talk about their study methods, life and ideals.

bookshop

Bookstores are also a good place to talk with girls about borrowing books. The usual routine is to meet the target woman.

Students, close to the target girl, read books nearby, observe whether the girl comes alone, what books to read and see the girl.

The specific situation of life, then the opening, there are several specific opening ways:

(1). "What are you reading? You are so focused on it, does it look good? "

(2). "Look at your appearance, you love reading. Introduce some books to me. I haven't read any books recently. "

(3). "You also like reading this book. I have read this book several times, and every time I read it, I have new ideas. "

(4). "Ah, you like reading this kind of books, but you don't seem to like it."

Basically, it is cut through books and then brought into other topics. But don't talk too long. After all, bookstores read books.

You can receive the number after chatting for more than 10 minutes. What is even more frustrating for bookstores is that they can only accept a few girls.

That is a small piece of land. There are too many amusement facilities. Maybe the last girl saw you when you took another girl.

On the way to the campus

(1). Ask about the opening of the supermarket. First, you must find out where the school supermarket is, and then at a certain distance from the supermarket.

Look around and see if there are any suitable targets. After seeing the target, you should make sure that she is heading for the supermarket. this

You can continue, the opening remarks are as follows:

"Classmate, where is the supermarket?"

"Oh, that's right. . . . . . . "

(pretending not to hear you clearly) "What you said is too abstract."

"Well, I'll take you there. Anyway, it is already on the road. "

Then we can chat along this gap and go to the supermarket to close the number: "I feel that you are fine and make friends."

",take out your mobile phone, be sure to be generous. Of course, there are supermarkets, libraries and canteens. It's not necessary.

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(2) Opening of the training course. This has been used several times, and it is basically the same as the routine in the supermarket. The specific dialogue is as follows:

"Classmate, are you from this school?"

"yes."

"I heard that you have a school. . . Do you know where the training class is? "

"Oh, maybe. . . "

"Do you have time? I am not familiar with your school. Is it convenient to take the main road? "

(3). Direct opening. Pretty girls are usually chased, so it is normal to take a stand on the road and take this approach at school.

Sam, you will find that the more beautiful the girl, the easier it is to get along with. In their words, yes.

Just making friends. It is normal.

Be brave and go straight up: "hello, I just accidentally saw you." I think you have a lot of temperament. I can get to know you. "

Yao ",it's as simple as that, as long as you are generous and not obscene, you will usually get this number.

You'd better not strike up a conversation by asking the time, because this intention is too obvious, so go directly.

It's refreshing to ask for the number.

On the bus

Many people feel embarrassed to strike up a conversation on the bus. It's a shame to have so many people, but think about it, they can't be right.

You are responsible, only you can be responsible for yourself, because you are worried about the eyes of others and lose your understanding of the girl you like.

Don't you feel sorry for this opportunity? Think of them as an audience and see how you behave. If there are few people in the car,

Many people are embarrassed to sit directly on the target. They think the intention is too obvious, so they must find a way. How's it going?

In order to make her feel that I didn't come to talk to her on purpose, I think this is too torture. Why bother? I just want to know you. I just want you to know this clearly, and you will.

It means that we don't want to make friends, it doesn't matter, there are many beautiful women. So seeing the right one on the bus,

Come on, sit next to her. I usually just ask her where to get off, and then some local customs of Liaocheng, soon.

Get the number when you get off the bus.

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First of all, you must observe whether the person sitting next to the target is her friend, because there are many people in the square, many of whom don't know him.

People we know may sit together, so we must distinguish the situation first.

The general way to open it is to sit near the target and start making eye contact with the target. If the other person touches me.

Eyes, just smile and nod. If the target comes back, go straight up and start chatting. If the goal is given

After a contemptuous look, my brother had better go, probably waiting for his boyfriend. Eye contact is very important when chatting up people.

When I touch your eyes, the chances of success will be much greater.

Restaurant or coffee shop

In a restaurant or coffee shop, I saw a goal and an empty chair (movable chair) on a table and asked, "Is anyone here?" target

Children usually say no (they think you just want to get an empty chair somewhere else; Then, laughed and sat down and said:

"My friend will arrive in a few minutes, so I'll go with you. "Low risk, high return. They can't right away.

If you leave, you can't be driven away without courtesy. as long as

You can catch one of the women's interests in a minute or two (not necessarily the target's interest, but also her friend).

Friends), then you can blend in with their group.

bar

Precautions before: if a girl is sitting in a chair in a bar, observe which side her bag is placed, remember, from

Stay close to the other side, or you are likely to be hit.

You: This position seems to be reserved for lonely singles (get close to her, don't do it yet).

Girl: What?

You: As you can see just now, several guests in this position left by themselves, and the chair seems very quiet.

Silent curse

Girl: What, you want to break the curse for me?

You: (Sit down) Look carefully. This dress of yours has a different color.

Girl:. . .

You: Just now, a girl wore the same skirt as you (NEG, attracting attention with negative stimulation).

Girl: The same skirt?

You: But don't worry too much. The same clothes are more gorgeous on you (IOI, then turn around quickly to praise).

Girl: You are so funny.

You: (It's best to have a Keno at this time, and then you can take it to the booth)

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In the final analysis, this street is because there are the most beautiful women on the street, so this street must be conquered. According to the goal

Whether to move to split it.

Fixed target:

When you see the target in front of you, and the other person has not moved obviously for the time being (such as waiting for someone or resting)

Sometimes, according to nature and the three-second rule, you can pretend to call first and then hang up when you reach your destination.

Cut off the phone, eyes naturally contact with each other, began to speak:

"Hey, if this isn't Wen Wen (anyone can), it's a coincidence that you are here."

The other person usually feels strange or confused and asks you, "You have the wrong person" or "Huh?" Things like this are actually not heavy.

Yes, and then continued, "We had dinner in the red house yesterday. I'm in Class Three. What about you? "

I come from Class Five. You can't forget it after drinking it. . . "(in a teasing tone)

At this time, the other party will usually declare that you have mistaken me for someone else again, or if you are lucky, you will release IOI. At this time, start yourself.

Play it.

Moving target:

At this time, it is best to move the target in front of you, and then move closer to make sure that the target hears what you say:

"Hello ~ ~"

Then the other person turns around and you can say:

"I'm sorry, I thought you were my friend. Your backs are too much alike ~ ~ "

If you are confident enough in yourself, keep striding forward after you finish, and then use the corner of your eye to see if the girls have come forward.

Try to catch up. If it's a little, that's good. You should wait for the girls to come up and play freely ~ ~

Of course, if you don't go forward after saying this sentence, you can look at the girl's reaction after saying this sentence and then judge for yourself how to express it.

In short, as long as you interact with girls, as long as you are not a wretched man, the probability of winning the number is still quite high.

Another cliche is that when chatting up girls, generally speaking, try not to look directly at each other when talking to them.

Target, 45 degrees on the side is the golden angle of the public, showing the feeling of being at arm's length, that is, the body should shake back and forth.

The extent of the swing, but don't act like singing RAP, be natural, and don't let the other party feel obviously enterprising.

Graphics are ok.

Five, the opening two rules

Three-second rule

The three-second rule is absolutely useful, but it can't be implemented invariably. You should at least observe whether the target is waiting for a boyfriend.

Friend, if her boyfriend comes during the riding, it will be more troublesome, so don't shoot blindly, observe first.

Look at the environment, hehe, speaking of which, a brother told me that when he hooked up with a little girl, his mother.

Right next to it. He thinks it's her sister, the Khan. In this case, no matter how good your communication level is, you can't get it.

Hands.

Blind shooting is an extreme, you can't do it. This is the other extreme. The three-second rule is to push yourself.

Take action as soon as possible, and the conversation will turn into stalking. You will find that the longer you follow the goal, the more you feel petty.

Once you feel petty when chatting up, it's over. So, if after observing the target,

If you find that you still can't take action, then give up your goal decisively, adjust your mentality and change your goal before taking action.

90/ 10 rule

When talking with the target, your speech should account for 90%, and the target only needs to provide 10%.

If you usually only provide 50% content,

If the target does not fully provide the remaining 50%, then the dialogue will enter the cold stage. Never ice, it is better to talk nonsense than to talk nonsense.

Don't say strong. After a short opening, the target's response is nothing more than that, generally not too enthusiastic, we will

You must take the initiative to throw out the dialogue and infect the target with your own energy. Therefore, prepare a few more open styles that you are good at.

Topic, ask the goal first, the goal may be just a few words, and then your performance.

Try to use fewer questions in communication, such as "Where are you from" and "What's your major", which is not only boring,

And remind the target repeatedly that you are unfamiliar, you can change these questions into declarative sentences!

"I think you are from the north, you can hear it from your accent" and "you should study art", so I think you will.

Much better, cold reading can also be of great use at this time, such as "I feel that you are a person who is not good at dealing with people."

Dear people, I can see this because when you talk to me, you always put your hand on your chest. These are very effective.

Chatting with men and women-opening remarks-to be continued