What does a person’s upbringing include?

Education generally refers to the cultivation of culture and moral character. From the perspective of external manifestations of education, it includes all aspects of a person's words and deeds:

When someone pours you water, don't just look at it, but support it with your hands to show politeness

< p>When someone talks to you, you must at least be able to answer the conversation. You can’t miss the next sentence when they say the first sentence, or just keep saying ah ah ah, yes, yes, yes.

Someone is staring at you When you look, don’t look directly at the other person and pretend you didn’t notice.

When someone farts, don’t hide away in disgust or fan yourself with your hands. You should pretend to be nonchalant.

Those who are reprimanded by the leader Don't lower your head when speaking, but look directly at the leader to express acceptance of criticism. The leader's anger will slowly subside, otherwise, the leader will add fuel to the fire.

When leaving the table after eating, say: "I'm done, you guys, please wait." Use. ”

It must be both hands when passing water and food to others.

Don’t tilt your chair up when you sit on it

When you eat, you should hold a bowl, don’t pick at the plate, and don’t knock the bowl with chopsticks

Be the last one to enter and remember to close the door

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When sending someone away, say: "Walk slowly."

Don't throw away your hands after washing them, as the water will splash on others, which is very rude

Passing knives to others Remember to pass the hilt of the knife

Don't expose other people's shortcomings

Don't look around when listening to others. This seems very rude.

After pouring tea and water for others, do not face the spout towards others

Stand up and sit down.

When you encounter a door that can be opened from the inside out, pull instead of push.

When there are people in the room, close the door gently when going out

When serving rice or tea to others, if there is someone in between, do not pass in front of others, but pass it from Go around and pass behind others

Learn to be gentle and listen

Go to other people’s homes, don’t sit on their beds

Clink glasses with others at the wine table, your own The cup must be lower than the other person's, especially if the other person is an elder or leader. Stand up when toasting to show respect

If you ask someone something and they don't answer you, don't keep saying it shamelessly. ask.

Try not to make any noise when eating

Squat down when picking up things or putting on shoes, and don’t bend over and stick your butt out - especially girls

When someone criticizes you, even if they are wrong, don't refute it first, wait until everyone calms down before explaining - appear generous'

Do things in moderation, whether it's eating your favorite food. Still lose your temper

After dinner at a friend's house, you should take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table - the host has already worked hard to cook, so you can't ask the host to clean up afterward

Hospitality must be generous, and housekeeping must be modest

Don't talk to colleagues about the rights and wrongs of your boss or other colleagues. Your unintentional remarks may become evidence for others to attack you

Wipe the table When you make a call, wipe it in your own direction

The first sentence you say when making a call must be hello, hello; when hanging up the phone, if the other party is an elder or your boss, then wait for the other party to speak first Hang up again. If you are an elder or superior, hang up the phone first and don’t let the person on the other end wait.

Don’t spit and throw things. If there is no trash can, take it home and throw it in the trash can.

Don’t put your hands in your pockets when walking

No matter what the conditions, brush your teeth carefully, especially at night

Speak less about other people’s rights and wrongs, and take care of yourself

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Girls, you have to pay for yourself when going out with boys

Be responsible for your own behavior, don’t blame others, think about whether you should do it before doing it, and learn to solve it yourself when something goes wrong.

If it is a spring door, whether it is pulling or pushing, please go out first and then go in. If there is someone behind you, you should take the initiative to hold the door in place to prevent it from bouncing back and photographing others. Always say thank you when someone opens the door for you.

Be polite to everyone, whether it is your boss, your elders, the restaurant waiter or the old man picking up garbage on the roadside.

Don't jump in line. All you gain is the few seconds you wait. But what you lose is other people's recognition of your quality. (If there is really an emergency, explain the situation to the person in front of you. At this time, most people will take the initiative to let you stand first.)

Pour the wine full and the tea half.

When you pour wine in China, you should fill it up to show respect. When you pour wine abroad, or to foreign guests, especially red wine, no matter who you give it to, it must be less than half or about one-third of the glass

When you come back from a friend's house in the evening, be sure to tell your friend that you are home when you get home. It doesn't matter whether people care about it or not, it's polite. If a friend comes home at night, send a text message to ask if he's home

At the dinner, every time a dish is served, let the leader and elders use their chopsticks first, or take the initiative to serve them. Turn the dish in front of them

When others are sleeping, try to keep the volume down when you walk, work or talk.

Please keep your distance from others when speaking, and do not stick close to others

When speaking, it is better to use honorifics such as "you" and "excuse me" more often, and use "trouble you", "excuse me" and "really" Use apologetic words such as "I'm sorry" and "ok", "ok", "what do you think" and other inquiring words.

Don’t interrupt others when they are speaking. After listening to other people’s opinions, nod gently to show respect even if you disagree.

In public occasions, cell phone ringtones and message prompt tones It should be softer, preferably vibrating. When talking on the phone, don't raise your voice or dance enthusiastically, which will destroy the tranquility around you and force others to pay attention to you. That is very rude.

While I was discussing things with everyone, the phone rang. I want to tell everyone: I'm sorry, you talk first, I will answer the phone.

I went out to visit others. When the master sends you off, he must say: Please stay, there is no need to send it away.

When you are the first to enter the elevator, you should hold down the button and wait for everyone behind you to enter. When you come out, if you are a subordinate or junior, and if time is not too urgent, just wait for others to come out before you come out.

When someone gives you something that she cherishes or is very expensive, it is best not to accept it. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Sometimes, material things will destroy the precious friendship.

When others ask you for help and you are unable to help, apologize and then think of ways to make amends. For example, "Check it online. There might be something there..." Never reject others with a blunt "no", as that will make you look particularly cold and arrogant.

When picking up food, if someone else picks it up first, and the dish you want to pick up is on the other side of someone else’s hand, you should wait for the other person to pick it up first instead of passing it from below or above

When men and women walk together (keep to the right), let the girl walk on your right, because it is safer on the right side.

When taking a taxi, if you block the car yourself, you cannot rush to sit in the back seat.