Chatting with former friends.

First, the routine of chatting with ex 1 wants to get back together with the other party, but you must not say it directly when sending a message. I can send a message to meet each other first, just chatting, with no purpose. When you meet, talk to each other more about your worries. 2, two people broke up, then you can say something thank you to each other, or that you did something bad. In order to make up in the future, we should treat each other sincerely and not dwell on the past. Don't keep in touch often, which will make them think you are annoying. At an appropriate time, we can communicate with each other, go out to meet together and learn about the latest developments. Get along with others slowly and let them know that you care. After a long time, they will rekindle their passion for you. Second, how to send a message to retrieve your predecessor 1. To get back together with each other, you must not show a decadent state, which will make the other party look down on you even more. So you must keep positive energy, and your life can be good, so that when the other person sees you, he may re-examine you. 2. To get back together with each other, you can create some opportunities and seek each other's help. If there is any problem between two people, you need to use some skills to save each other. Don't tell each other directly about getting back together, it will make them mutually exclusive. What are the routines for chatting with your ex? Nowadays, couples will break up if they can't get along, probably because people are too anxious to cherish each other. Sometimes, when you really understand, you will feel regret. As for how to send a message to get your ex back, in fact, if you feel sorry and want the other person to trust you again, then you must make more efforts to let the other person see your change. If two people can get back together, it is also a kind of fate. It is not easy for two people to be together, so we must cherish it. If the previous relationship did not make enough efforts, then when the relationship is restored again, we must seize it. Therefore, if you want to save a person's heart, you must make more efforts. In love, you need both people to cherish it in order to get each other's heart. When you get along, if you say something sad, you must know how to admit your mistake and don't care about each other. In fact, there are some routines and skills to save your predecessor. I hope everyone will cherish it. Chatting with your ex. 2. Save 22 chat topics. 1. In the process of chatting, he was reminded of the good times when you two were together, such as the place you really wanted to go when you were in love, so when we said these words, we should also put you two in such an environment, which I believe will definitely help your recovery. 2. When talking to him, you should change your previous style, not only because you care about his feelings, but also tell some jokes from time to time to make him happy, which was completely absent before, so I believe your attitude and your change will also make him reconsider your feelings. After all, you have become what he once imagined. At first, we never talked about getting back together with him. We just care about his daily life. When he feels your concern and changes, he will naturally have another view and attitude towards you. When the time comes, we will boldly confess to him, and I believe that your chances of success will be high. 2. Regularly attend some parties where you two have friends. On that occasion, I'm sure he would never say anything too much to you. You cared about him in every way at the party, so that you two could spend more time together. I believe that under the offensive of your various concerns, he will surely successfully throw himself into your arms again. Recover. The road will never be smooth, so if you want to get back your lover, you must be mentally prepared. Only by making full preparations will the chances of success be increased. How many tricks have you learned to save 22 topics in chat? In fact, as long as you can let the other person see your change now and see that you really want to be with him again, even a topic, even without too much sweet talk, can be successfully brought back to your arms. After all, you two used to have feelings, which is a very favorable point for you. He must have known you well before, and he was full of surprises after the change. We can let him see some changes in you every day and let him feel the freshness of being with you. I believe it's only a matter of time before he comes back to you. Then let's start with a chat. First of all, you need to be bold and brave to contact him. Only if you two have something to say, let him not resist you, can we win the final victory. Chatting with your ex 3 1: If you want to get back in touch, you'd better choose a topic related to the event to start. For example, in COVID-19 recently, you can ask him about his condition, share some information about COVID-19 with him, or ask him about his health and work properly to express your concern. Such greetings between friends will not reveal a sense of need. Some time ago, COVID-19 broke out in North Korea, and a friend of mine got in touch with his predecessor in North Korea in this way. She sent a message directly to the other party, saying, "I heard that COVID-19 is spreading in South Korea. I want to tell you to be careful and not to walk around. I didn't want to contact you at first, but I was worried when I thought of your weak constitution. " After all, people who reach out and don't smile are the same in any country. Although there are a lot of unpleasantness when breaking up, as long as it is not hacked and deleted and disconnected for a long time, the pain caused by feelings will heal and slowly forget the pain. In this case, the predecessor also gratefully thanked her for her relationship and told her to pay attention to her health. The two naturally resumed contact. Two: Festivals break the ice. Some festivals are completely possible, such as Christmas, New Year's Day, Spring Festival, Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival. We need to celebrate together. But be careful not to celebrate festivals, such as International Tooth Love Day, Consumer Protection Day, Earth Environmental Protection Day and so on! It would be better if I could meet my predecessor's birthday. I broke up with my predecessor in college for a long time. Because there was no social software at that time, I deleted my mobile phone number after breaking up and completely lost contact. So, on his birthday, I ran to his blog and wrote him a birthday wish: "I don't know if you can see it, but I wish you a happy birthday." As a result, since she wrote back to me the next day, I said something unexpected and unexpected after receiving his reply. After greeting each other for a few words, she took the initiative to ask me for my mobile phone number, so we resumed contact. Here, I would like to remind you that birthday wishes like this must directly express the theme of the blessing, be concise and avoid long speeches. I once read a girl's blessing message. The whole content is to send a blessing first, then start to reflect, then express gratitude, and finally do not forget to sublimate the blessing. In fact, when you are in love, he may not have the patience to finish reading your long speech. What's more, after breaking up, can he read your apology letter word for word like a novel? So I have always stressed to you, don't write a small paper for your predecessor, who is not interested or in the mood to study it seriously. In the end, you just touched yourself. Three: Story-like icebreaking If you are particularly unlucky, there is no big deal, and his birthday is far away, then we can use the story-like beginning as an excuse to break the ice. Here is a versatile and reproducible speech called: I dreamed of you last night. This sentence will be ambiguous at first, but it is just right. Whether he really dreamed about his predecessor can't be verified, but it is enough to arouse his curiosity. Who doesn't want to know what I look like in your dream? Secondly, because the content of its subsequent dreams can be very open, you can enter, you can attack, and you can retreat. If the other person is still very resistant to you when replying, then you can take the route of funny dreams, such as dreaming that you are chased by a dog or something. If your ex has completely let her off guard, you can take the nostalgic route to stimulate her memories. For example, you can say, "I dreamed of heavy rain before, and I didn't bring an umbrella." You came soon and gave me an umbrella, but when you saw me shivering at the station, you directly put the big umbrella on my head and told me to "go home", and then I woke up. Remember, there must be details, and it must be something that really happened between you two. You are both impressed. According to these frameworks, you can choose your own ice-breaking method according to your actual situation. However, it should be noted that enough is enough to resume chatting in the early stage, and it is best to end the conversation within 20 sentences. The purpose is not to let the other person realize your sense of urgency and need. Besides, don't express your direct apology in person. All introspection and apologies should be placed in the circle of friends, otherwise it will not only bring psychological pressure to the other party, but also make the other party feel that you have a strong compound purpose. Having said that, many people may ask, why can't they directly expose their purpose of redemption to each other? Because, no matter what causes the breakup, the process of recovery must be painful. If you let him know that you contacted him to get back together, he will be angry: why get back together? Our relationship is so casual? You just don't take me seriously, so we must be patient. Recovery is a gradual and continuous process. Don't try to strike while the iron is hot, otherwise it will only backfire. Once you start pestering frequent contacts or directly exposing the sense of demand, you will soon find that the initiative that the other party has just recovered will disappear completely. Therefore, after restoring contact, the next most important thing is to restore comfort and let him slowly put down his guard against you. Even if the other party is more active, reduce the frequency of initiative, and be able to hold your breath and be patient. Only in this way can you achieve emotional balance. After the balance, there will be more possibilities for offline invitations to meet.