A song for strange relatives: I’ll send you away, thousands of miles away, and don’t come back again!

People are born with inextricable relationships with other people, rather than existing independently. Human emotions also produce various warm, sad, happy or sad reactions in other people or things. But sometimes, when we meet people who don’t fit in with our worldview, we really want to cut off the relationship immediately, especially when we meet those weird relatives.

I don’t know if other people’s families have weird relatives. I do have a lot of them in my family. I really don’t know if I should be happy. The weird ones are all around me. Others should be happy. It keeps rising.

When my grandfather passed away, many people came to express their condolences, especially relatives from my grandmother’s side, and many relatives who were beyond their reach came.

This incident also made me realize a lot and understand a lot. Some relatives are not on the same level as you, nor do they have the same values, except for some thin blood ties. Relationship, I can’t find the intersection of your lives. Only if you are clean, upright and trustworthy can you establish a foothold in this society and never be afraid of others poking your back.

Someone who claimed to be my distant aunt came to my house to express condolences, and instead of kowtow, she gave me 20 yuan. Yes, you read that right, someone really paid 20 yuan in the 21st century. . A family of five came here, and they were guests. My mother had to let them come to the table to eat. Oh dear, the whole family occupied a table and refused to let others sit. The family drank five bottles of liquor and started drinking like crazy. They wanted to go home. My mother had no choice but to take a taxi to take them back. As a result, they refused to leave and kept trying to get into the river in front of our house. My mother was dealing with my grandpa's funeral while looking at this weird family. She was exhausted mentally and physically. I felt sorry for my mother, so I took out two boxes of white wine and asked the chef who was hosting the family banquet to prepare a table of dishes for the family to eat and drink. While they were all asleep, I moved them to the van and gave them all away. Go to the hotel in town. The waiter at the hotel said that this family was too drunk and I couldn't afford anything to happen to them. I said, "What are you afraid of? It's my fault if you drink yourself to death. When they wake up, I'll kick them out and say they didn't pay the rent." There are still 1,000 yuan left. You can take it first. When they get out, you'd better record a video. The harsher and fiercer your scolding is, I'll give you more money.

I finally sent this weird family away. Take a look at the vegetable garden behind my house. Oops, that weird family made my vegetable garden a mess. Then I thought about it, no, I turned around and immediately asked my mother to see if there was anything missing at home. My mother's face turned red with anxiety and she said that two gold necklaces and one gold bracelet were gone. My mother was so anxious that she collapsed. Grandpa had just passed away, and there were still people who dared to steal things at this juncture. Needless to say, everyone knows who stole it.

I called the hotel directly: Okay, send them directly to the police station before they wake up. The waiter said: What? What did they do?

I said: Check out the towels and hair dryers in your hotel. Don’t let others take advantage of you.

The waiter understood.

Afterwards, the police station returned the things my mother had thrown away and told me that the family had a criminal record and had been habitual offenders. They often stole things from acquaintances and relatives. Some did not call the police because of family ties and dignity. Like I was sent directly to the police station, very ruthless and quick.

Some people may ask: What you did is outrageous. Are you afraid that they will retaliate again in the future?

When water comes, earth will cover it, and when soldiers come, it will be blocked. I can't prevent this situation, I can only see it once and solve it once.

But grandma felt particularly guilty and lonely. Such relatives made people lose face. Grandma sighed and said: After I die, they will probably have no reason to come to our house again.

At this moment, I realized that the older generation values ??blood ties. In that era, when there were many brothers and many sisters, there would naturally be a mixture of good and bad.

In our generation, there are more only children, and every household lives behind closed doors. We are not afraid of offending anyone, nor are we afraid of cutting off contact with anyone, because our center is only our own small family.

Perhaps, this time, in order to vent my anger, I did not handle the matter properly. If it's you, do you have any better method?