How to treat mass blessing information?

Anyway, I don't like mass new year messages, and I don't know what to reply. It doesn't make sense. It's just a ceremony.

Mass messaging is a convenient and quick way to express blessings, but some people think that this new year greeting method is a bit perfunctory, lacking creativity and sincerity.

I will visit my relatives at home when I pay a New Year call, and I will give them red envelopes when I pay a New Year call to my classmates. "New Year greetings between friends, form a little more. On the afternoon of New Year's Eve, everyone will start chatting and pay New Year greetings to each other. " Li Yijing recalled that one year, she was deeply impressed by the way a social platform visited the New Year. "It was a game, and friends who praised each other could send each other voice blessings. That year, I sent dozens of voices, according to my relationship with others. Everyone has different content. I think I can convey my wishes in my own language and have the feeling of chatting with friends. "

A friend and I discussed this problem. Someone sent a video saying: Don't send blessings in groups, don't send blessings in groups, don't send blessings in groups. This is the most destructive practice. Your careless mass sending is an interruption, not a blessing. During the Chinese New Year, add a name to wish each other happiness and get a good impression. My friend feels the same way, especially against those mass blessings, just feeling disturbed. Reply, reluctantly; Not replying is another psychological burden. Take this video and spit it out.

In addition to the feeling of being disturbed, another friend thinks that mass blessing belongs to copying and pasting, and there is no emotional component. It seems that this kind of mass blessing is a routine, which is a bit cold. On the Spring Festival Evening of 20 14, a song sang: "Send a mass email, no matter who you are, I won't reply. It's not that I don't give you face, but I really feel too tired. " In fact, these feelings are understandable. After all, everyone's time is limited, and the Spring Festival is busy, so there is no more time to take care of these snowflake-like documents.

But from another angle, are these blessings really what we felt before? Are they really all copy and paste? Are they really cool and have no real feelings? At least I don't agree, because my practice has proved this. I believe there is more than one like me. In order not to disturb my friends, on New Year's Eve, I first sent a New Year greeting to all my friends on WeChat. All the friends I saw replied to praise me, and this year's New Year greetings were also sent. On the first day of the new year, that is, the Spring Festival, I sent another New Year greeting from a circle of friends. In order not to disturb my friends' New Year greetings, I specially chose the time near noon.

I have two classmates' WeChat groups. In order to send new wishes to my classmates, I sent New Year greetings among my classmates. I also chose a few classmates who usually contact more, and sent New Year greetings one by one. It should be noted that all the messages sent are pictures with text blessings. Although the pictures and texts are consistent, I really don't have the energy to sort out and distribute different pictures and texts to every classmate. I don't think it's necessary. If there are only three or five people, I can edit and distribute them one by one. If there are thirty or fifty, there is no way to compile and distribute them one by one. Even the same words and pictures can be understood by everyone. Yes, my heart has arrived. You can't call me careless, can you? Can't say that my graphic blessing is unreasonable?

In fact, it is a fate to be able to add thousands of friends to your circle of friends. Even if you take a step back, the other party is also posting, copying and pasting. This annual Spring Festival greeting is also a kind of respect and attention that he chose you among thousands of people. He may also choose casually, but doesn't this casual choice also include a good impression on us? Therefore, all encounters are fate, all blessings are family ties, and all cocoons are vegetables. If we don't want to eat this dish, there is no need to hate it. Are their blessings worse than the silent majority in the address book?

Some friends have no time to write their own books, and some friends have no talent to write their own books. They borrow pictures and words from other friends to express their feelings. We should understand this, right?

Even if these friends who sent blessings really reflected the situation, they at least thought of us. Friends who meet by chance, what higher expectations and requirements can there be? You reflect on yourself. Are all your blessings made up by yourself? Are they all the same? Is every word full of affection? I can't help but hehe.