What if my girlfriend ignores me? What if my girlfriend ignores me?

I believe that all male compatriots have encountered the situation that their girlfriends are angry. If they are angry, they must be coaxed. If we don't coax them, they will make her more angry. When his girlfriend is angry, boys must think about the reasons.

What if my girlfriend ignores me?

1. Follow your girlfriend's wishes

Don't add fuel to the fire when your girlfriend is angry. Instead, take a step back. Speak sweet words and do what she wants. She will soon become happy and believe in knowledge and understanding.

2. Learn to speak sweet words.

Everyone likes to be praised by others. Of course, every girl likes to be praised and pampered by her boyfriend. So, when she was angry and ignored you. Praise her a lot and say good things about her. I believe that I will smile through tears soon.

3. Learn to make small surprises

My girlfriend is angry and ignores you. At this time, as a male ticket, I have to take the initiative. You can make a small surprise and give a small gift. Gifts are not expensive. Even lollipops. Let her feel your heart. If you are warm in your heart, you will naturally make up.

4. Give freedom and distance to each other appropriately.

If your girlfriend is angry and doesn't want to talk to anyone, you can give her space appropriately. Let her vent freely. Usually when you are emotional, everyone will do something impulsive that you regret. A proper distance will calm the other person down.

5. Make full use of chat tools such as SMS and ball.

Some things can't be said in front of you. On the contrary, chat tools can do it. So when they get angry and ignore you. Try to find one. Send a joke or comfort. Or sweet talk. Can warm her heart.

Reflect on yourself

Why should a girlfriend be angry? Of course she won't get angry and ignore people for no reason. Either you are insecure or you are doing something wrong. Or there is a communication problem between the two parties. Self-reflection, early detection and solution of problems. I believe your love will be sweet and long-lasting.

How can my girlfriend coax me if she ignores me?

1, the first time. When a girl is angry, you should be keenly aware of the reason. Maybe she is angry because of your improper words and deeds, or maybe she is angry because of making a mountain out of a molehill. Apologize, be sincere, and have sugar-coated shells. This process can last for half an hour to an hour, mainly to show her your attitude.

2. continue to coax. After the first round of cajoling failed, the second round began two hours later. At this time, the anger of most girls began to fade. At this time, it is best to make a smile, and girls will be fine when they laugh.

Step 3 meet. The first and second rounds are mainly on QQ or WeChat text chat, or voice or telephone. If both language and voice fail, they will have to meet. It's best not to meet empty-handed, but to bring a gift. Apologizing in person is twice as effective. Better give a hug and be domineering. You can take her shopping, and buy buy will buy it.

Special reminder

1, don't miss the best opportunity when she is in a better mood. Analyze both sides' problems with her. At this time, she can generally listen with an open mind. Whose problem is it? What's the problem? What should I do next time this happens? Now is a good time to solve the problem and avoid similar problems from happening again. Even if it happens, it is more tacit to solve it.

2, most girls want boys to coax, in exchange for a sense of existence and security, to prove her importance in your heart. Many times, a girl is not necessarily angry for a specific reason. She just wants you to coax her. If you care about her, you should spend more time with her willfulness.

3, you can coax, but you can't get used to it, or she will go to heaven. Some girls will get worse when she begins to indulge in your unprincipled doting or even doting. Such girls are either princely, naive or hysterical because of a serious lack of security. Coaxing should be moderate, she should grow in the process of coaxing, and she should not stagnate or even go backwards. Unprincipled doting will ruin a good girl.

4. If all kinds of methods are still ineffective, and girls insist on teaching again and again, or even intensify it, then change it. She may not love you or be right for you. Otherwise she wouldn't be so endless.

The reason why girls suddenly ignore you

1. Some of your words angered her and you didn't know it.

Sometimes I find that chatting with my sister suddenly disappears and I don't talk anymore. At this time, you should reflect on whether you are a strong person (obsessive-compulsive disorder patients can't afford to hurt! ), sometimes chatting, but if you always force your sister to accept your point of view in conversation, it is likely that your sister will feel inconsistent with your three views and stop talking and naturally ignore it.

She has been very busy at work recently, so she has no time to reply to your messages or talk to you.

If the girl you like is a strong woman-an ambitious girl, then she may be too busy to reply to you in time. In that case, she will come to you when she is finished. If you know that she is such a girl, you'd better not disturb her work and try to chat at night, so that the chances of success will be greater.

She hasn't been feeling well recently, or something important has happened at home.

Normal girls always feel uncomfortable and depressed for a few days every month. I usually don't want to talk much at this time, and I need to be quiet. If you are sure that she is ignoring you for this reason, then you can send a WeChat greeting to comfort me at this time. Give some gifts, such as brown sugar, if you can. Such a warm man will certainly remember your concern after the girl is well, so that you have a chance. If there is a major change in the girl's family, this situation is more complicated, because she is usually in a bad mood and will be very busy at this time, so it is good to spend more time with her after she has finished handling things.

She just used you as a spare tire.

It sounds like a sad story. But, big brother, you all have to accept the reality. Generally, there is no shortage of suitors around beautiful girls. Many times, you may just be her spare tire, because she has never liked you, so it is normal to ignore you when she no longer needs you. At this time, we can only say that there are plenty of fish in the sea. How about going somewhere else? Don't hang yourself from a tree, run away as soon as possible.

She feels a little inferior to you.

If she is a shy girl, she doesn't have much love experience. Probably because of her inferiority complex. Because your conditions are so good, she will feel unworthy of you, so she silently chooses to give up. At this time, if you really don't dislike her, you can open your heart and explain everything to her so that she can eliminate her worries. Such girls are generally more independent and self-respecting. If you really like them, don't miss them

6. You are inexplicably dull.

The biggest difference between girls and boys is that girls can become ordinary friends with boys, but boys generally can't. Sometimes girls get too close to you and you misunderstand, and then you confess, which naturally makes things worse. Generally speaking, if a girl doesn't have a clear hint, don't confess easily. If she confesses, she will ignore you. Don't lose heart. Wait a week, say something sweet or success is in sight. Girls often just keep reserved. If she likes you, you have great hope. Continue to be a warm and caring man. Sooner or later, it will be yours. Stick to it.

7. Needless to say the last point, if she still ignores you after many times, it means that he really doesn't like you or even hates you. At this time, he can only give up.

Several reasons why girlfriends ignore people.

The first reason is that you must have done something wrong Although girls are usually gentle, everyone has their own small temper. If you do something wrong, but you have no intention of repentance or apology, then the girl is angry at this time and ignores you. This is the response you deserve. At this time, as long as the boys bow their heads and apologize, things will be solved.

The second reason is actually quite common. In today's society, not only boys have their own jobs or other things to be busy, but girls usually have their own careers and things. Think back to a time when you were busy at work and didn't reply to your girlfriend's message in time. Now you should put yourself in others' shoes. Maybe your girlfriend is really trapped in something.

The third reason is a little red light. Girls usually have a way to ignore people. If she ignores people in a playful way, that's fine. If one day she really acts perfunctory no matter how many messages you send, your concern and your greetings, she doesn't want to continue chatting with you at all. Then it's time to think about your current state. Is there a contradiction? Or she lost confidence in you because she didn't do well, or she found someone she liked more outside, and she felt that she had given up this relationship to pursue her true love.

The fourth reason is wonderful, but in fact, a large number of girls are like this. Girls are born with one track-minded, so things come quickly. Sometimes it's not that they ignore you. You say that after waiting for the WeChat message for a long time, he won't return. In fact, he didn't ignore you, but she saw it, just suddenly went to do something, and then came back and forgot. So at this time, you can wait with confidence. Anyway, she will remember to come to you sooner or later, and then you will take the opportunity to teach him a good lesson, and this matter will be solved.