My sister always reads my short messages, and I feel very uncomfortable.

1. Understand your sister's behavior with a positive attitude-she cares about you! In this way, you can at least use the word "peek" from the heart to ease your unhappiness;

2. Look at your sister's behavior from a moral point of view-voyeurism! This is a kind of mentality and behavior that people are eager for the unknown. From this point of view, it shows that you and your sister have little communication about this matter, which makes her feel that she doesn't know or doesn't want to know about it, so she can only understand it in this way. This also shows that your sister is not good at communication, otherwise she would not take this way to understand your situation.

Solution:

1. You can talk openly with your sister about it, and telling her about it will make you feel bad. If she wants to know the relationship between you and your boyfriend, she can use the normal way of communication-chat.

2. For the problems between boyfriends, you need to communicate with your sister more, not to say everything, but to skillfully satisfy her curiosity without causing her more curiosity. Because, for women, whether they are sisters or friends, there will be more or less comparison and jealousy for the happiness of others. So, tell her what happened between you and your boyfriend properly, which will not cause her other psychological activities, so that your news will be safe. But also can guarantee the affection between you and your sister.

3. Encrypt or set a password. Let her subconsciously feel your unhappiness, but doing so may have sequelae, affect the feelings between your sisters, or arouse her more curiosity.

Hehe, in fact, this is how people get along with each other. Both friends and relatives need some communication skills, so that you or the people around you will not be embarrassed.