What does the second message stand for?

How to judge whether others like themselves is a very important thing for people, which is related to their future relationship and whether they are romantic or not, whether they are two of a kind.

However, there is no clear definition of "liking someone", and we can only prove from the side whether we like it or not through some phenomena when we get along.

Patience when you are sad, considerate care when you are sick, and timely help when you encounter difficulties can all be manifestations of love. Nowadays, many people judge another person's goodwill by the information of "second reply".

However, do people who "return" your messages really like you?

It is really convenient to communicate with mobile phones through the Internet, but at the same time, there is a drawback, that is, you are not sure whether you are "one of them" or "the only one".

In reality, there are many people who chat with several opposite sex at the same time, and everyone is slightly ambiguous. By replying to the message quickly, I give the opposite sex the illusion that "I am special in the other person's heart" and think that the other person is in love like myself.

However, the other person may be complacent about his charm.

Therefore, when judging whether another person likes it or not, the first thing you should do is to understand his/her love life and see how his/her personality is. It is a very irrational behavior to give your feelings rashly because of the other party's "second reaction" without knowing anything.

When people are bored, they always try to have some fun for themselves. If there is someone to chat with at this moment, obviously, this is a very good choice.

I may even ask you out to play, but I don't want to associate with you. He (she) likes you, too, but I'm sorry, it's not her boyfriend who likes you, but she just treats you as a playmate.

It's just easy for another person to misunderstand. Therefore, under the premise that the other person's character is not bad, the next thing to do is to see if the other person has any plans to start dating. If not, he will often call you back, either as a friend or as a spare tire.

Of course, the answer is no, and there is a degree of liking. Why is there such a saying that in a relationship, the first person who is tempted loses? Because people who are tempted first pay more and like more. And those who pay less, of course, are also shallow.

The depth of liking affects all aspects, and so does replying to messages. In addition, not everyone is idle with their mobile phones, just waiting for news reminders.

As an adult, there are too many things to do, such as work. Don't ask, "Is it me or work?" Because work is most important because another person is fighting for a better future for two people.

So, if there is no news of "second reply", you may be really busy. It is unfair to another person to judge that he or she doesn't like you because of such performance.

Like is a very complicated thing. It is impossible to say "you don't like me" just because of one aspect or one performance.

Like is also a question with no standard answer. Maybe your definition of like doesn't apply to others.

Therefore, if you want to know whether the other party cares, you should consider it comprehensively from many aspects. Make decisions according to different situations. If you come to a decisive conclusion just by replying to the message, you may be wrong in paying your heart or missing the quality of the opposite sex.

Look at things comprehensively, and the damage will be less.