How should a girlfriend break up on the eve of the Spring Festival?

For this problem, you should first think about whether to break up or not, and then see what to do next.

First, I don't want to break up.

1. Control your emotions

If you don't want to break up, you must be shocked, sad and even angry when you hear the news. It is easy to say angry words at this time, so if you don't want to break up, you must bear the brunt and control your emotions. Don't say irreparable things when your brain is short-circuited.

Analyze the reasons

After you calm down, you need to start analyzing the reasons why your girlfriend broke up, especially before the Spring Festival. There are two possibilities:

Your girlfriend may just want to break up, but it's only at this time of the Spring Festival. Generally, this kind of meeting will have certain performance in the near future, such as becoming cold and too lazy to reply to your message, or she is angry with you for something recently. Your girlfriend has always been normal and suddenly brought it up. Then you have to think about it. Did you mention visiting your parents during the Spring Festival to further develop your relationship? The girlfriend may have some resistance to this brother or fear of the unknown, so she can't help but shrink back; Or she has no further thoughts at present, and your words make her have a burden and choose to break up. Communication and problem solving

After you have a general idea, you can talk openly with your girlfriend. If possible, it is best to talk face to face, see more detailed emotional changes, and understand the reasons for deep feelings. Of course, if the woman is more resistant, it is also possible to choose a videophone. But don't delay too long, try to communicate as soon as possible. Then solve it according to your girlfriend's feedback.

If you insist on breaking up, it's good to get together and part. If you just don't want the relationship to go further, then communicate well and take your time. If there are any unhappy little contradictions recently, just communicate and solve them. It's too noisy. 4. Parents communicate

This is to see if you have said to bring your girlfriend home during the Spring Festival. If you have not said it, you can omit it. If yes, it can be handled according to the situation:

If you make up, you don't have to mention it to your parents. Otherwise, it is easy for your parents to have a small pimple in their hearts, which will affect the meeting between the two sides. Being a rational middleman is conducive to family harmony. If there is no reconciliation, tell your parents in advance. Your parents won't say anything true because of improper separation. If you don't want to be asked questions by seven aunts, you can discuss breaking up with your parents. Second, I want to break up.

Then get together with your girlfriend and have a good rest. Mainly to communicate with parents, you can refer to the above practice.

If you have told your parents that you want to meet, make it clear that since you want to break up, there must always be something unpleasant or inappropriate between them. Tell your parents clearly that their parents must make you happy. If you haven't said it yet, you can tell your parents before or after the Spring Festival. It depends on whether you want to be broken or not.

Anyway, don't break up, communicate well and solve it well. The general idea will not change before the Spring Festival. I wish you all a good life with your lover.