Boyfriends and female colleagues send ambiguous messages to each other, saying that they are joking and have no feelings!

As you said, after talking for a long time, you will naturally feel it. However, I don't think their feelings can go beyond you. Men can't be passionate about many women. It's a man's nature, and you can't change it. Since he said he would quit his job to accompany you, it also shows that he really loves you. There's sand and stuff everywhere. Who can say that he will never get sand in his eyes? I wear big glasses and have sand in my eyes. . .

When two people are together, they should learn to be considerate. It is inevitable that they will be apart for too long. As long as he leaves you the most important position, don't care too much, or you will be exhausted. . . .

Of course, if this happens, it should be dealt with seriously. Tell him to mend slowly, in fact, you will have a lot of overbearing power ~ ~ you can make good use of it. Now, don't think about getting married, wait until it eases down.

As the friend above said, marriage needs to be cautious, which is a lifelong thing. However, when we encounter problems, should we think about ourselves first? If we can change others, we can change ourselves (for me, I want to change myself in advance). Don't say anything frustrating, men will be confused. Whether we will be confused in the future depends on your own charm and ability. If you are worried about losing, you must find a way to keep it. I gave up when I was afraid, so I gave up all my life ~ I wish you happiness ~

Finally, I would like to advise you that if you want to find a good man who loves you, you must first have such charm. If you have no confidence, find a poor one, but cheating is not something that handsome men and beautiful women do.