My wife and I had a quarrel, and she left, and she didn't send or receive messages or return them. I went to pick her up today. She said she didn't want to see me, and then she ignored me.

Yes, your wife's practice is basically a trick that all women like to use. As long as she is angry, the more she persuades, the more angry she becomes. The best way is to stop pestering her about your right and wrong. You should change the subject and take her to do something he likes. Distract your attention. If this doesn't work, then calm down for a while. In a few days, she will not be so angry. It should be much better if you get along with her again.