My boyfriend never comes to me. I send him a message and call him back. Besides, if you don't contact him for a few days, you won't take the initiative to find me.

There are several reasons! First, if he didn't take the initiative to contact you at first, it proves that it is his personality problem, or he doesn't really like you! Second, he just started to contact you! Later, I stopped contacting you slowly, that is, his enthusiasm came down! Give you a suggestion! Talk to him! Don't think for yourself.