My boyfriend sent me a text message today asking me to go to his house for dinner tomorrow, saying that her mother was going to give me a handbag. Shall I take it?

It seems that what you are considering is not whether to go or not, but whether to take it or not.

The answer is simple, that is, take it.

Since you are willing to go, it shows that you feel it is necessary to communicate with her mother.

Holding it is actually courtesy, that is, respect for "his mother accepts you".

If you take the handbag, his mother will be happier because you accepted her kindness.

So, don't worry, holding it is an acceptance and a courtesy, and it has nothing to do with whether you marry him or not.

Because you are also inspecting his family, and inspecting the sincerity of his family.

If what his family did was really bad, and he later hurt you because of something

You can also reconsider these feelings, and if necessary, you can return your handbag.

so, take it and don't worry.