The girl met a great man on a blind date, but she refused on the spot and was harassed. Is it wrong to chase girls with thick skin?

A girl in Xiaoshan went on a blind date, but she didn't like blind dates. She turned him down on the spot, and the girl was constantly harassed by the blind date.

The guy on a blind date was introduced by the relatives of the girl's best friend. After the meeting, the girl was dissatisfied with the boy and told him on the spot that it was inappropriate. What the girl didn't expect was that in the next few days, the young man sent WeChat every day, asked her to watch a movie, and even asked for help like a couple. Due to the face of relatives and friends, the girl didn't reply to the boy, nor did she hack him. But that guy keeps sending messages. The girl had to say no again and paint it black. However, the boy still chased after him and kept texting. This girl is in pain.

Netizens have different views on this. Some netizens believe that girls have clearly refused, and it is wrong for boys to interfere in girls' lives again, which is already a harassment of life. However, many male netizens expressed their support for the boy's behavior, thinking that this is the perseverance spirit that love needs. Some netizens even ridiculed: Why not worry about chasing girls?

The evaluation of netizens represents the different ideas of men and women on the issue of love. Girls generally think that liking means liking, and not liking means not liking. Love only appears in TV series for a long time, which is rare in reality. If girls don't call boys, boys should let go generously instead of pestering them and interfering in girls' lives.

Boys generally believe that feelings need to be cultivated. If you are careful and caring enough for girls, or in a certain period of time (such as a hero saving the United States), you can instantly capture the hearts of girls. Therefore, when falling in love, boys should have enough patience, and girls they like should not give up easily.

The cognitive difference between the two sides is that girls put their feelings and eyes first, while boys think persistence and persistence are the key to winning love. The impression and evaluation of girls on boys comes from the communication after meeting. Through communication, we make a preliminary evaluation of boys' appearance, family conditions, work situation and personality characteristics. If a certain aspect obviously doesn't meet their own mate selection criteria, girls will refuse on the spot, regardless of whether there is the possibility of falling in love with him in the future. Boys' demands on girls are mostly concentrated on looks, temperament and personality, and less attention is paid to girls' feelings and demands. When you meet a girl you like, even if the other party explicitly refuses, the boy is full of the impulse to fall in love with him, and he will never give up until he reaches his goal. This has also caused many girls to be afraid of blind date.

There are 200 million single young people of school age in China, almost equally divided between men and women, but less than 30% of them take part in blind date. Some people are too busy with their work and careers to have time for blind date, while others are people who are resistant or even bored with blind date. There are often media reports that girls' blind dates are entangled or even hurt, and many girls form psychological shadows.

20 19 Jiangxi girl Ye Ye met Xu Jun on a blind date. Xu Jun fell in love with Ye Ye at first sight, launched a fierce offensive, and even raised money everywhere to marry Ye Ye. However, Ye Ye felt that prosthodontic was somewhat unreliable and rejected prosthodontic's pursuit. Xu Jun refused to give up, and still often came to Ye Ye. Repeatedly refused, Xu Jun became angry from embarrassment. On the 22nd day when they met, he chopped the leaves to death with a kitchen knife.

According to the prevailing bride price standard at that time, Xu Jun prepared 654.38+10,000 yuan to marry Ye Ye. He feels very sincere, so he doesn't understand why he can't get the touch of foliage and the love he wants. If he can't fall in love, he will end the life of a young girl in an extreme way. How cruel and selfish.

In fact, love is two of a kind's business, and patience and persistence can't be bought. If the blind date makes it clear that the two parties are not suitable, the other party should let go publicly. As the saying goes, twisted melon is not sweet. Moreover, before the blind date, the two people did not know each other and did not intersect. You should go back to your original life, without interfering with each other, without interfering with each other.

Everyone likes beautiful things. You can't ask others to obey your wishes just because you like it. Everyone has the right to choose whether to love or not. No one can act arbitrarily in the face of love, let alone be cheeky, stalking and even threatening. That won't win the other person's heart, but it will increase your disgust.

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