Why do you feel that his recent text messages to me are perfunctory? Is it my illusion?

It is the relationship between mentality and the situation at that time. When there are different situations and different inner States at different times, you will have different views on one thing. For example, when you like a person, you will think that he is handsome and gentle in everything he does, but when you hate him, he will feel ulterior motives in any action. . Keep your mind balanced, and sometimes you need to adjust yourself.