Grandpa died in the war for decades. Can he get a marriage certificate with grandma?

1, in fact, that is to say, the old man at home has left, and the grandchildren have to be filial for three years. Soon after the old man leaves, if the younger generation holds a wedding, there will be a feeling of disrespect for the deceased.

2. Of course, this is just the old ethics. Times have changed, and now it is not enough as a code of conduct. Objectively speaking, filial piety and unfilial should reflect the respect and care of children and grandchildren when the old man is alive, rather than letting the living torture themselves after the old man dies.

3, but then again, if the old man dies soon and the younger generation does a happy event, it is obviously a bit unreasonable. So generally speaking, in the short term after the old people leave, the younger generation should not do anything important. Like my hometown in rural areas, after the death of the old man, it is human nature that most people in Dai Xiao will have a Spring Festival to celebrate their wedding.

Second, you can't get married after a few years of filial piety.

Generally speaking, you can't get married within three months after the funeral, but it's not three months. It's a hundred-day marriage custom.

The first point is that parents will lose their lives for three years (because of the changes of the times, losing three years is no longer in line with the needs of society. )

The second deceased was grandpa, and the older generation had to mourn for a year. (called "opposite year")

The way to deal with this situation is to get married within 100 days. The function of getting married for 100 days is to let happy events wash away the bad magnetic field at home, and also to let the family get rid of sadness as soon as possible, which is called "rushing to happiness".

However, there are also taboos to pay attention to when holding a happy event within 100 days: no white gauze, no bright red, no firecrackers, no decoration, no extravagance and waste, and everything should be simple and low-key.

If you can't get married within 100 days, you can at least get married after the "anti-year". Therefore, if the wedding is held after the Chinese New Year, it can restore the excitement of general marriage.

So seize the opportunity to get married in 100 days, or it will be a whole year.

3. Can I get a marriage certificate during the funeral?

1, according to custom.

There are different customs about how long to get married after grandpa's death.

In some areas, it is said that weddings can be held within 100 hours after grandpa's death. If not, the wedding will be held after the expiration of three years of filial piety.

There is also a saying that things can't be done in those days, so it will take a year after grandpa's death to get married.

Of course, these are local customs, and different places have different time regulations, so just respect local customs.

2, the law did not make provisions.

In our country's laws, there is no regulation on how long it takes to hold a happy event after a white incident. So, according to the law, we can get married after nothing.

Step 3 discuss decisions at home

The most important thing when choosing a wedding time is to discuss with your family, so it is best to discuss with your parents how long to get married after grandpa's death. If parents want to follow local customs, they should also respect them. However, it should be noted that if you really wait too long, you should also negotiate with your parents, or get a license first, and then hold a wedding after the expiration. The death of grandpa at home is a big event, and so is marriage. In fact, parents should be consulted whenever you do it.