Tell women how to manage their marriage harmoniously with psychology.

Emotional management of marriage is the combination of two people, mutual tolerance and understanding, and also the combination of two families. It is completely different from when two people are in love. They are chic and sweet and exclusive to each other.

There are still many practical problems in marriage: job transfer, expenses, housework distribution, filial piety to parents, raising children, spare time arrangement, and even different schedules will all bring challenges to the relationship between husband and wife.

So how do you manage the marriage between husband and wife and adjust your attention and focus?

One of the biggest secrets of a successful marriage and happiness is to adjust your attention and focus, so what does this mean? Simply put, it is to accept the reality and know what your other half is like, instead of complaining about why your other half is not as good as others. There is a saying: accept and cherish the Ta you currently have, and be sure to meet each other's needs. To be honest, many times, you start to take care of others, and others will take care of your feelings.

Don't lose yourself.

When a woman gets married, it is easy to lose herself completely after giving birth to a child. Of course, Xiaohe also heard from friends that there is a situation called "postpartum depression". (Xiaohe certainly hopes that his daughter-in-law will do the same in the future. Although there is no object, this issue still needs attention. After marriage, a woman's life circle will generally become smaller and smaller, only knowing to turn around with her husband and children. No matter how busy your life is, remember to keep in touch with your friends so that your emotions can be vented normally.

? Communication first

Once the married life is on the right track, the pressure of life will follow, and it is easy for busy two people to ignore each other's feelings. Put communication first, let the other person know happy or sad things, know the thoughts and feelings of both sides, and the two can always be heart to heart and heart to heart!

have mutual trust

Every couple will encounter difficulties in their marriage, and there will always be difficulties. We are not sure when and what kind of problems will happen, but when problems happen, choosing to trust each other is the decisive factor to determine whether the marriage life can last long.

If the husband and wife can do this, there may not be so many differences.