The blind date asked to video chat with me. How can I refuse him?

Blind date is an embarrassing thing. It's embarrassing for two people to meet and chat without knowing each other. Blind date men actually want to video chat, which is naturally embarrassing, except for social cows.

So how to refuse the video chat of blind date? You can try the following methods.

The first type: strict family education, parents around, not convenient for video.

Make yourself a relatively conservative person. Because of strict family education or conservative thinking, you don't want to video chat, which is understandable. After all, he can't force a conservative person to video with him.

The second type: the camera of the mobile phone is broken, and it has not been repaired before, so I am not willing to change my mobile phone.

In this case, no matter what the other party says, we can easily deal with it, because it's not that we don't want to open it, but that there is something wrong with the mobile phone.

As for the maintenance time, just decide according to your attitude towards the blind date. If the chat is appropriate, video chat. If it doesn't fit, then I'm sorry for the next one.

The third type: directly switch to voice chat and tell the other party that you are not convenient for video. You can say anything directly on the voice phone.

Can be used for excuses such as not washing your face, going out, and suddenly having something wrong. After several visits, the other party will naturally understand. Of course, you will know whether he is suitable for you after a few chats, so what to do next depends on your feelings.

Fourth, after receiving his video chat, I fixed my mobile phone somewhere to prevent myself from appearing.

You can say that you are shy or inconvenient. In short, just don't appear in the camera until you know if you can accept him.

If a person always doesn't respect your opinion, always wants to make his own decisions in the process of getting along with two people, or has to make his own decisions in everything, it is typical male chauvinism, and whether you can accept it or not depends on your own personality.

My personal suggestion is that everyone knows each other on a blind date. It's better to say something generously, and so is refusing. It is much more comfortable to be crisp and neat than to politely refuse. There is no need to be led by the other side for everything.

If you don't want to, just refuse, let everyone say what they want to say and do, see if their personality is appropriate, and respect each other's opinions, so as to better understand each other.