What's it like to talk nonsense and call names?

If someone calls you boring and unfounded, you should answer him like this.

Come on, let's talk about "what" first. Scold can be subdivided into many kinds, so what kind of scolding should we be angry about in this article today? As to whether this is a compound sentence connected by and or an alternative sentence connected by OR, the author says that he hasn't decided yet, and he will think about it while writing.

Also like a hair, this is of course an optional sentence! For example, if you choose a man, he may have no money, but he may be talented, and he may lose face, but he may be talented and rich, and he may not be talented, but he may be talented and rich. But! When the blind date sitting in front of you has no money, face and talent, do you just want to shout: "I really want to press fast forward!" " "

Therefore, in the network era when dark clouds are overwhelming the city, evil spirits are everywhere, and ghosts and monsters have been rampant for a long time because of the extremely low-cost "freedom of speech." There is a product in our WeChat and Weibo called "You are bored, you are bored, you are unreasonable and groundless".

Then let's talk about the question of "why". It is impossible for us to restore these annoying people to the factory settings with one click and learn to be human again, so before pressing the "send reply" button, we should first analyze the common psychology of these ethnic groups and go back one by one according to different psychological activities.

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The most boring dirty words in the world. Guess what this is?

Guess what? There is absolutely no need to guess this. It's really a curse of "donkey's head is not right for horse's mouth"!

For example, I am writing an article "How Ma Yun went from 18 Lohan to today's Ali Empire", and I will receive the following reply:

"Ma has so much money, why should he donate so much money for this disaster relief!"

For example, when I am writing an article on how to go international step by step, I will receive the following reply:

"Zhang Moumou has so much money, why donate so much money!"

Thank this netizen for missing a D this time. For example, when I write the article "How Peng Xiaoliu Becomes an Internet Red Man with Simple Books", I will receive the following reply:

"Peng Moumou, how dare you not donate some money if you dare to dry your payroll? ! "

From the above three examples without nutrition, we can see that the most boring and helpless of all the abuse is this reply that is completely beyond your imagination and the author's expectation. The biggest problem of this patient is that he only cares about his own concerns and doesn't care about what you wrote at all.

So, do you understand? The most common external performance of this kind of person in Jane's book is to open a topic he wants to scold, swipe the screen to the message area, and directly reply to his anger without reading the content. It is not an exaggeration to say that you are immoral.

I especially admire the ascetic monks who try their best to persuade the world to abandon evil and do good, but I also especially hate the hypocrites who suppress and bomb other people's moral territory with guns.

In this case, the most worrying problem is that the cost of "freedom of speech" is decreasing. Imagine that when I exercise my normal freedom of speech, the minimum respect is to "listen" first, just like when I want to scold you for what this article has written. Before that, I should read the content of the article carefully, instead of editing a smelly and sour thing and clicking "send" after reading a title that didn't suit me. For example, some articles written by drunken dolphins are worth pondering, and some opinions are really untenable and unacceptable, but even if anger burns in my heart, I will have the minimum respect-read your articles before commenting.

Do you understand? There is no freedom in this world that does not correspond to obligations. Of course, you have the freedom to exercise your speech, but you can't shoot at random. It doesn't respect people, and it doesn't respect the words themselves. It seems that only you are happy, but are you really happy?

For this kind of patient who doesn't talk nonsense, I suggest to reply with a very cool flirting, and he doesn't wronged himself:

"Rogue, hate, bah!"

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The most boring dirty words in the world. Guess what?

Stop guessing, you still can't guess. That kid pretends to be an old pedant and teaches others how to behave.

Such patients often appear in major emotional inspirational columns.

We all know that the main users of simplified books are young people from high school to college. Did you find out? I don't know when our peers stopped talking well. They began to speak some languages that we didn't understand at all. Their sentences contain a sour taste, which we can smell with our remaining senses. If you still don't feel it, it can be understood that the author of this article is pretending to be an old pedant and teaching you how to be embarrassed.

I can't imagine that a person who has never been in a complete relationship will become an "emotional expert". I can't imagine that a student who has just passed the exam once or twice will become an "inspirational figure", and I can't imagine what will happen if you really listen to their reprimand.

In your long study career, have you ever been scolded by an "old pedant"? If not, it means that you are a good student who has never experienced puppy love, cliques, and your grades have plummeted. What annoys the old pedant most is that he doesn't know whether puppy love is accidental or inevitable, whether it is good to form gangs or not, and whether it is the only way for a person to get along well with others on the surface. In fact, he knows little about these problems himself, but now he wants to pull you over and "reprimand" you. I just want to say that LZ believes in your evil.

Whenever I write some stories about the bleak past in love, I will always be scolded by a sour old pedant with his sour philosophical outlook on life, encouraging me to pursue it without giving up, or saying that I am stupid for dismissing my persistence. At this time, I always respond:

"Do you speak Chinese well? ! "

If I continue to deepen my emotions at this emotional level, I will say:

"Tell me something you can understand, ok? ! "

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The most unfounded swear words in the world. Guess what this is?

"Ignorance and fearless scolding".

This is also what I hate most. Because temporary ignorance can actually be improved through learning, and completely not understanding and not learning to treat knowledge is actually shallow.

For example, after watching the movie "The Furnace", some people questioned that "the law is just a poor puppet"? I won't quote more specifically.

In a word, the law is a text that adults can understand and a rule of the game that minors can't understand.

Perhaps people who study history can better understand the unspeakable subtle logic. You only saw the melting pot, but you didn't know that Ma Dandan's virgin prostitution case promoted the progress of administrative compensation in China. You don't know that the "drunken rose fight" caused Japan to amend the juvenile law and adjust the minimum applicable age of criminal responsibility from 16 to14; Don't you know that the "Sun Zhigang case" promoted the promulgation of "Measures for the Management of Relief for Vagrants and Beggars Without Life in Cities", and the promulgation of this measure marked the abolition of the "Measures for the Reception and Repatriation of Vagrants and Beggars in Cities"?

The reason why law can exist today is that it is still a useful tool for the development of our human society, and it is an irreplaceable tool at present and even for a long time to come when productivity and production relations have not reached a new qualitative change. Everything has advantages and disadvantages, and law, as a tool created by human beings, also has defects, but because its advantages far outweigh its disadvantages, we are willing to continue to use it.

There is such a passage describing the law in the power supply "scorching sun": I like the law very much. I think law is the best thing invented by human beings. Do you know what a person is? In my eyes, man is the sum of divinity and beast. Is that it has something you can't imagine, it has something you can't imagine. There is no right or wrong. This is a person. Therefore, the law is particularly lovely. No matter how good you can be, it limits your infinite evil. Obviously, everyone has something dirty in their hearts. You can think about it, but you can't do it. Law is more like the minimum living standard of human nature, and it is a compulsory practice. Unlike religion, it requires you to look down into your eyes and tell you at least what it should look like. Still talking about human feelings, but also cruel.

Therefore, if you can do more study, understanding and research before firing, you will avoid a lot of ignorant abuse. You know, sometimes the terrible thing about people's emotions is not that you burn yourself, but that when your emotions are translated into words, you may infect and incite a group of people who don't have the ability to think independently. This is why not understanding and not learning is actually a shallow way to treat knowledge.

Finally, if someone scolds you without foundation, then I suggest you reply to him:

Read more books and stay out of trouble.