I found out that my husband was having an affair. Should I show my hand and file for divorce?

If he realizes his mistake and tries his best to keep you and is willing to mend the relationship between you, you can ask whether you still love him and whether you can forgive him for making a mistake. If you still love him, you are willing to give him a chance, give your feelings another chance, and then ask him to promise that this will not happen. What if it does? If you make a mistake, you must pay for it. You should not cheat for any reason. You can give each other another chance, but if there is another time, say goodbye decisively.

Especially in the case of children, divorce is a very hurtful thing for children. Children from single-parent families always have more problems than children from normal families. Even for the sake of children, we should carefully consider the issue of divorce.

If the other party doesn't realize that he is wrong and is still arguing irrationally, then consider divorce decisively. A man doesn't even feel guilty about cheating, can you still have hope for him? Can you still count on this relationship? Can you expect him to have a positive influence on children?

If you are considering divorce, please break up peacefully as far as possible, and don't cause secondary harm to your child because of money and other problems. A child's heart is sensitive. Divorce is a kind of injury, and the tearing of both sides will hurt them. If children are sensible enough, try to communicate with them, indicating that mom and dad have emotional problems and can't continue to live together, hoping to get their understanding.

In either case, both parties should communicate well and negotiate a best solution. Pay special attention to protecting children and don't let them become the biggest victims.