How to chat with a girl you just met? What are the skills?

Tango, a well-known pick-up girl, mentioned in "Bad Boys: How to Chat with Girls I Just Met" that chatting is an important step to establish contact. If you have a good chat, it will be smooth sailing. Maybe the next girl will let you do whatever you want. If you can't talk well, you can only be rejected or even slapped by girls. If you want to be a man who attracts women, you must learn how to chat skillfully.

Many people met beautiful MM by chatting up, and left each other's phone numbers in a hurry, but they didn't know how to further communicate and understand, so even if they left their phone numbers, it was useless and wasted energy. Some people take the initiative to send messages and make phone calls, but because of the wrong method, the opportunity is wasted. So how to strike up a conversation and chat with a girl you just met?

Because the sense of security established by the person who strikes up a conversation will not be very high, it is definitely not advisable to enter the pursuit procedure immediately after knowing each other.

Before talking about the correct SMS chat mode, list some wrong SMS chat modes:

1. Household registration management type: "Hello, my name is xxx, I work in yyy, from zzz. Nice to meet you. " It's not like a person, it's a computer program. )

2. Cut to the chase: "Are you free for dinner today?" (Too anxious, no bedding, girls generally don't like it, of course, there are also very manly people who will be willing. )

3. Be caring and attentive. "Tomorrow the lowest temperature 1 degree, the highest temperature 13 degrees. Caring about the weather means caring about yourself. Don't forget to add one more dress. " Do we know each other? )

4. Joke: "Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape dung! It's all ape dung! " Forwarding humorous news is a low-level performance that makes everyone laugh. )

5. Narcissism: "If one day you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side. No matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset and flashing in every corner of your life." (mental derangement! )

6. Ask endlessly: "What should I do?" (Watching TV) "What program are you watching?" (If you are the one) "Is it interesting?" (Not bad) "What should I do after reading it?" (... the woman finally stopped answering her text messages)

What's more, it drags English: "Hey, what are you doing now? Close your eyes and I will be by your side, thinking of you day and night!" " (I don't comment)

If you have done these stupid things, please read on.

When it comes to how to send text messages to unfamiliar girls correctly, we must first understand the differences in thinking between the two sexes.

Sasha and Fangfang are together

Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."

Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday, and I like it very much."

Sasha is with her boyfriend.

Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."

Boyfriend: "How much is it?"

For millions of years, men have been quietly waiting for prey in the grass, and women have been chatting with children in caves. Men and men cooperate because of a clear goal, and then start to act silently after consultation. It is normal for women and women to get together because of the same situation and talk about each other's state and feelings. Therefore, men are projection thinking and women are mapping thinking. Until today, we will see that two men can go fishing without saying a word, but they can squat by the pond for an afternoon; Two women go shopping, even if they don't buy anything, they will talk all day.

Look at the examples of Sasha and Fangfang.

Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful." (where to see something, this is the state; What is particularly beautiful is the feeling. )

Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday and liked it very much" ... >>