My child is very naughty and the teacher complains to me every day. What should I do?

Have a dream and keep going, nothing will be difficult. If you don’t have faith and dreams, it’s not surprising to drop out of school.

University is always the right path, moving in this direction, others It's all little things. This is not a school, let alone a diploma.

When you understand one day, you will already be a person who will not let yourself have regrets

I will tell you my experience. Whether you adopt it or not is a trivial matter, as long as you can understand

It’s harmonious and has more pinyin characters.

Tell me about my life experience.

I was born in January 1990 and am 22 this year. Years old.

At that time, I found all the textbooks for junior high school and studied hard every day. My parents saw my performance and helped me find a junior high school. I passed the first high school, which confirmed that I would continue. Learning is the possibility of achieving your ideal.

From a social gangster who dropped out of junior high school, to entering a so-called vocational school, and finally becoming a college student.

In junior high school During the period, we complained about the small junior high school campus and the barbarism of the village children. They didn't want to study and would only fight and pick up girls all day long.

Old teachers openly asked for money from parents. Those naughty students would call their parents if they found an opportunity. , please eat, drink, smoke and tea to avoid being expelled. I am also one of them.

I am very disappointed with those people. I can’t imagine that the campus in front of me is a school. Does that university really exist? ?

Due to the environment, I no longer had any enthusiasm for studying. I played with students in ordinary classes, climbed walls, and gathered people to fight. At that time, Internet cafes had appeared, replacing game consoles. We started I went to play CS, and those who had some spare money went to play Fantasy Westward Journey, and more often they played stand-alone games.

I was quickly transferred to the regular class, and was under more relaxed management. I slept until noon every day, and had meals. Others would help me with the beatings, and I would continue to sleep after eating and reading novels. Sometimes I would go to the classroom after staying in the dormitory for a long time, and sleep together while the teacher talked with great interest. According to him, it was to fulfill his duties as a teacher.

I left school in 2002. I was 12 years old that year, and I was in the first semester of the third grade of junior high school.

I went to elementary school at the age of four, but I did not graduate from college at a very young age. Saying goodbye to school.

After I dropped out of junior high school, I wandered around society for two years. I lived in Internet cafes with some young people who didn’t study.

At that time, Internet cafes began to develop. More and more people are entering Internet cafes and staying up all night.

Sometimes I feel bored and draw pictures on the computer, drawing the university campus I once dreamed of...

Gradually, I found that I was distanced from those young people, and I felt that I was not the same kind of person.

They began to pick up girls, admire their skills, and often fight. I did not participate in any of this. I just acted as a The role of a game master.

I moved the crowd and stayed with other people. Some of my childhood classmates also gave up school. After returning, I stayed at the house of a 20-year-old brother in some villages to help with farming. We farmed and drove motorcycles together in our spare time. The biggest pleasure was drinking and eating barbecue, and the more boring time was passed by smoking.

I went to live with them for a while and felt the hardship of farming. Behind.

In 2004, when I was 14 years old, I chose to attend a technical school, that is, a vocational school.

When I went to the city, I felt that life in the city was better than that in the county.

I have met new classmates and friends, and it is much better than in junior high school. Maybe it is because everyone is a little older, but there are still some people who often fight and drag girls into rooms. One time, one person even had hallucinations and fell from the building. This After that, the vocational schools became much stricter.

The vocational schools really couldn’t teach anything. I chose computers at first, but all they taught were pediatrics.

After graduation, more I found a lowly job and barely survived.

In 2006, I learned the so-called knowledge of vocational school and graduated at the age of 16.

I went to work But I only received 900 yuan, and I wanted to sleep right after work. I was with some uneducated people. They only talked about women, smoked, drank, and gambled all day long.

Because they did not receive university knowledge. , without the influence of human culture. I deeply feel that I am an outlier among this group of people, but I am the normal one, and it is they who are abnormal.

I studied to be a chef, and in the kitchen The unspoken rule is that you can be beaten or scolded at will, and you will do it if you don't do well.

And a chef with a bad temper will hit his hands with a spatula until his hands turn blue. This is a kitchen rule, you don't have to do it, there are still people who want it. Come in.

Every day, I shā two hundred chickens, one hundred fish, and cut up one hundred kilograms of meat for rent.

This kind of physical work really requires strength, so I will do it naturally. No.<

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I also saw a variety of seafood clam snakes. The first time I touched a wind snake, I almost got bitten.

I am a person who has not graduated from junior high school. That's all I can do, for the salary.

But a month has passed, and I have only received a very thin RMB, 900 yuan.

dormitory I needed to pay 100 for water and electricity, 200 for clothes, and two red pagodas to give to the kitchen chef. I had very little left.

Day after day, I left the kitchen two months later.< /p>

I started to do the second job - Internet cafe administrator.

Being an Internet cafe administrator is not what most people call Internet administrators now. Those who should be called As a waiter, I don’t want to do physical work to play with computers, so I go to an Internet cafe and become a so-called Internet administrator.

My job is to check all the machines in the Internet cafe for damage every day and upgrade some software. , adding some games, movies, etc. requested by customers in their messages is actually a job that can only be done by humans.

Because I rely on the computer technology I have learned over the past five years and have very little knowledge. I can only go to this small Internet cafe. I can barely manage the server. A large Internet cafe needs to be managed. The staff is far behind, and being a waiter is boring.

There is a girl who runs out of school to surf the Internet all day long. She is the kind of student who does not study.

During that period, I often helped her solve small problems and occasionally worked together. Played Warcraft with her.

Later she said she no longer had to go to school, started hanging out with some young people, started smoking and drinking, just like me...

< p>I was thinking that maybe studying is the only way to change people.

I decided to go to the university in this city, Guangxi University.

I went there on a weekend , I saw the university campus. When I was a child, I always thought about what a university would look like. What is the reality? It's exactly the same as in the dream, I'm so happy.

My childhood class teacher Ren said that in the future you will go to university. University is a big campus with endless knowledge and openness to teachers and students. Teacher Xu Xiaoyan did not lie. Me, I saw it.

As soon as I entered the door, I saw many people holding books. I felt like college students, and they were laughing silly, "This is a college student."

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I was very happy to see the library of Western University, because I have always liked reading.

But I couldn’t enter the library and was stopped by the administrator. Because I didn’t have a student ID card, I hope With those numerous books, I could only read them at the door. At this time, I saw that there was a rift separating me. They and I were no longer the same kind of people, and my heart was stung.

I slept on the lawn of the university that night. I wanted to feel the atmosphere of the university, and now I feel a little tearful when I think about it.

Actually, I didn’t fall asleep all night, I kept thinking, If I had always gone on to be a good student, I would definitely be able to enter a campus like this today and live a youthful life with my classmates. I would not know about the things outside, and I would never have to know...

I am not a student here. I can only sleep outside the dormitory. At least I sleep in the university. I am not afraid of anything in the university. It is very safe...

Biyun Lake Write my name on the leaf next to it. I will definitely become a student here one day.

Junwu Road, Huixian West Road, Chongwen Road, Tonghe Road...

I left after working in the Internet cafe for two months. I planned to complete a great plan and go to college.

After returning home, I went to the bookstore and bought half of it with the little money I had left. I started studying the junior high school textbooks diligently.

Later, my dad saw my efforts and helped me find the remaining half of the textbooks, as well as the final exam papers for each subject in each semester. He supported it. Me, I'm grateful.

He helped me find a junior high school with a very bad academic style. Because I was re-study and had no record, it was already good to be able to go to school. I didn't have any complaints. I spent a year working hard and reading the textbooks for three years of junior high school.

On July 7, 2007, I saw my high school entrance examination results online. It was the best high school in the county, the high school I disdained at the time. , the high school that will change my life.

I am very excited and happy. One month later, I returned to the campus where I have been away for a long time, a campus with a real learning atmosphere.

I was 17 years old at this time.

After I was admitted to the No. 1 high school in the county, I was very weak in high school at first and could not rank at all. I remembered the vow I made to myself and my life-changing desire in college, and I made up my mind Efforts.

After my infection, my friends from the lower bunk and I began to study each other’s textbooks every day. We would often light candles and read at 3:30 in the middle of the night, and we would often study with the best students in the class. Research questions. When I encounter something I don’t understand, I ask my classmates who are good at studying. When I get annoyed by the questions, I use my own methods to intimidate and induce.

I am no longer the truant in junior high school back then. Now, I understand the happiness of studying, and I should do this.

The class teacher Ren’s home in the old teacher’s office, for a while, I often went downstairs in the girls’ dormitory, in order to wait for the class to learn the final A good girl has solved some of the last problems today, and is often misunderstood for being in a relationship. I feel nostalgic when I think about it.

Three years have passed so quickly. Driven by ideals every day, I am full of excitement. I rushed to the classroom in love. During that time, my classmates and I were really like the movie "Those Years", except that I was not Ke Jingteng, Shen Jiayi became every classmate, and the love in "Those Years" was transformed into learning about youthful friendship... .

Shen Jiayi is indeed beautiful, but what I need more is a youth of friendship. This ending is very good. I am no longer one of those kids who have been in school and are ignorant of the world. , Shen Jiayi should talk about it later.

Recalling my past, I was a dissolute child who had not graduated from junior high school, and my future was destined to be bleak. The people I was with at the time are now being squeezed by my bosses in Foshan, Guangdong, working for fifteen dollars every day. I worked an hour shift and earned more than 2,000 yuan, which is not considered money in Guangdong. I am very happy.

The one hundred days countdown to the college entrance examination passed quickly, and it was finally time to say goodbye.

The countdown to the college entrance examination passed quickly.

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The days of high school are coming to an end, and everyone is finally leaving, but not forever...

In 2010, I graduated, and as a 20-year-old young man, I finally It’s time to witness the results.

After a month at home, I am very happy. I have made a difference and can go to university. I am no longer the useless person. I filled out the voluntary form The first one is Zhejiang University, and the second one is Guangxi University.

I hope to have a new environment. Even if I may not be able to pass the exam, it is still a hope for these years.

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If I fail to pass the exam, I will go to Western University and take me back to the campus. I am absolutely sure about Western University.

I am still a little scared in my heart. I don’t think about the results every day, fearing that I will fail.

In the last few exams in the college entrance examination, although most of them were Very good results, but I dropped several places twice.

Maybe I can’t bear failure and think too much.

In July, I inquired about the same as I did in the high school entrance examination that year. I was excited when I turned on my computer to search.

I definitely met the admission criteria of Zhejiang University, and scored 590 in the Labor and Management Examination...

I really did it, starting from a promising future The transformation from a confused useless person to a college student.

I was excited, I was shaking, and I couldn’t help crying.

I finally... everything in the past disappeared

I am a successful person

Three years have allowed me to get the scholarship from Zhejiang University. Envelope,

One day half a month later, the fourth brother, the postman, said very loudly to my mother on the street, "Your son has been admitted to college. I didn't expect it. I thought he was useless." .

When these words came to my ears, I was really moved. It turned out that I was indeed useless.

I opened the envelope and looked at the notice. It really contained everything about me over the years. I finally understood why the notice made people cry.

I once dropped out of school in junior high school and became a social youth

I know the hardships of the lower class in society, and I know that I can only do that kind of menial job, and I have to do it. If you want to "live" well, you basically go to the prison near my home. Only two college students have entered the prison in history. It was only those people who entered. I finally understood it deeply.

I have chosen to take the right path. Studying is nothing compared to the society outside. Haha, everything needs to be experienced by yourself.

I have played and I have given up studying. , I have experienced the so-called "hooligans", such as friends and brothers, and those who are not afraid of group fights. I went to a vocational school, and I did the so-called future work in the vocational school. I saw what the people at the bottom of society are like. I am what others call a gangster.

I woke up, I returned to junior high school, I was admitted to the No. 1 high school, I worked hard in high school for three years, and I was playing the CHINA version of Liz Mo.

I received the admission notice from Zhejiang University and the admission from Guangxi University. Guangxi University once pulled me back to school.

Although I had a special feeling for Western University back then. , but in reality I still choose Zhejiang University, which is better, after all, I can learn better.

I have received the notice from Western University, which can be considered as fulfilling my wish.

That night changed my life.

I have been chanting "continuous self-improvement" since I was a child. , be virtuous and carry things". Although I failed to make it my school motto in the end, "seeking truth and innovation" will replace it and stay with me throughout my life.

The so-called "all roads lead to Rome" means that the nobles of Kairek and the black slaves of Africa will reach Rome no matter how long they walk. Is this process the same? Think about it for yourself.