A beauty recounts her intimate moments with her foreign boyfriend

Introduction: After that passionate outdoor sex experience, he finally snatched me away from my boyfriend with sweet words, and I became his girlfriend.

I have to admit that he is a very resourceful person. When I first started dating him, I often mentioned the sweet story between my boyfriend and I, and accidentally revealed his name and workplace. He actually checked his information, including his mobile phone number, address, and email address. Then I sent an email to my boyfriend telling me what was going on with him, which directly caused me to break up with my boyfriend who I had been in a good relationship with for 2 years.

Later he told me that he had also checked my information, and after checking, he found that everything I told him was true. This man is so scary. I have never checked his details. He is in his 40s. How do I know if he is married or not? If he has a wife and children in the United States, I choose to believe that he has been looking for true love and has not found it yet. Until he met me, he had never been so excited and crazy about a good girl. (What a man’s lie!)

He hasn’t worked for a long time. I have also considered financial issues for him. I go to cheap restaurants or sometimes I pay or simply buy food and cook for him. He eats.

He said that when he was rich last year, he had several houses in the United States. Now the subprime mortgage crisis has almost completely taken over by banks. He also knows that I am not with him for money. After all, I do many things for him. he considered.

The breakup with my ex-boyfriend made me physically and mentally exhausted because I always felt that I had failed him.

After getting close to "Passenger A", I felt that he was a man who could not be trusted. First, he was in Qingdao and I was in Shanghai. When we meet, he never leaves his phone, even when going to the toilet or taking a shower, and his phone is always busy with text messages and calls. He doesn't answer many calls. I feel strange. He says some of them are unimportant calls, and some of them are unimportant. It was a harassing phone call from his former girlfriend, and he didn’t want to waste his precious time with me answering such calls.

Including chatting on the computer, he never lets me see who I am chatting with or what. On the contrary, he is very strict about my affairs, such as me and my old classmate of 10 years. (Male) When he goes out to eat or go clubbing with his girlfriends, or when chatting with netizens, he always looks unhappy, distrustful, and jealous.

At first, I thought he cared about me and loved me as much as he said. In fact, he was simply afraid that other men would take me away, because I was poached by him.

When I went to Qingdao to see him, there was a sudden knock on the door. He said to ignore it. I thought it might be a salesperson and didn’t pay attention. After more than half an hour, I saw that it was almost time to catch the plane back to Shanghai. When I walked downstairs with him, there was a beautiful girl in her 20s wearing sexy clothes waiting for him downstairs. , as soon as he saw "Passerby A", he seemed to want to say something, but he was a little surprised when he saw me, so he asked: Who are you? I was dumbfounded on the spot and didn't know what to say. I felt as if I was a third party.

"Passerby A" asked the girl to go back, and then took me away, who was stupid. The girl followed us and didn't leave until we took a taxi. I was very angry and he explained that this girl liked him but he never had anything to do with her.

The girl later defrauded him of the love and money of a foreigner friend, and then disappeared from Qingdao for a while. He was also surprised why the girl suddenly appeared at his door and so on. I finally chose to believe what he said, stupid me, no wonder people say that a woman in love has an IQ of 0.

The second thing: I received a text message from him one morning: "Good morning, my dear! I miss you. I wish you a good day." This is normal, he often sends me Of course I am very happy every time I receive such news. After all, I am in Shanghai and he is in Qingdao. We can only rely on mobile phones and the Internet to communicate between the two places.

Less than half an hour later, I received another text message from him: Good morning, dear! I came back for two or three days and then went out again. Are you in Yantai? (I still save this message on my phone to remind myself of this lesson). The first thing I knew was that he had pronounced it wrong, and then I was surprised that he still had a "dear" in Yantai who had the same status as me.

His explanation was that “Dear” is the English word for “Dear”, which is how friends can be called. In the end, he promised me not to call other women "dear" anymore and the matter was settled. However, I always felt that he had a lot of tricks up his sleeve in Qingdao and I couldn't trust him.

Although he took me to the bar several times when I went to Qingdao to see him and met some of his friends, I always felt that he was hiding many things from me. It turns out my intuition was right.

Every time something like this happens, and I feel so frustrated and want to quit and break up, he always says with red eyes how much he loves me and how difficult it is for us to get together, more than once. He said he planned to marry me, but I gave up so easily.

I think it’s pitiful that I make a man in his forties cry, and he has reasonable reasons every time. I think maybe I really misunderstood, just again and again. Believe and forgive him. Women who are immersed in love are really the stupidest and most naive.

There were many problems with the separation between the two places, and coupled with my distrust of him, he controlled my activities in Shanghai very strictly. After knowing him for more than 8 months, he still couldn't find a job and come to Shanghai. I asked him to move to Shanghai first and then slowly find a job. Anyway, he was a free man in Qingdao, but he refused to move because he had no money. Shanghai, I think he is not even willing to sacrifice for me. How can I believe that he can give me a future, let alone marriage. I don't care if he has money or not. I have been waiting for him for more than 8 months just to wait for the day when we can be happy together without having to work so hard and worry about each other.

During the National Day, I began to think about and propose breaking up with him. But he told me on the phone that I was too selfish, cold and cruel to him, and even cried. I began to feel soft. I called him last night to comfort him, but he said that he had chest pain and was not in the mood to talk about it. He hung up the phone hastily.

I called him this morning to ask if his chest still hurts. I got through and I fed him but no one spoke. I only heard him playing a small game on his computer at home. ( Because we sat on the sofa and played together when I was bored when I went to Qingdao, so I recognized it as soon as I heard it. The game, his typing on the keyboard and the sound of his stereo were all so familiar).

But what surprised me was that I heard another girl talking next to him and watching him play this game. It was exactly the same situation as me at his house. I endured it and listened. They played and laughed for more than 10 minutes. After passing a level, he suddenly realized that he had mistakenly pressed the answer button instead of the reject button, so he immediately pressed down the phone.

I immediately called him again and asked who the girl was at his house. He also pretended to be stupid and said that he was waiting for someone outside to play games and then a girl came over. Watch him fight, it's that simple.

If I believe him again, I will be either stupid or foolish. I also asked if it was outside, why was it so quiet over there? Give the phone to that girl and I want to find out if she is at your home or outside. He argued that you are going to break up with me, why should you prove it to me. I said that we would break up completely if I didn't prove it to me, but he still didn't prove it because he didn't dare.

The fact is that he said on the phone last night that he was not in the mood to talk to me because he had a girl spending the night at his house, and in the morning they played games together on his sofa. This scene is so familiar, Because it was like this when I went to Qingdao to see him. I immediately realized that everything I believed and persisted in for more than eight months was false. The whole person felt collapsed instantly.

He immediately called me again, and I stayed there crying and said: We'redone.Don't call me. Just hung up.

This is the first time I have caught evidence, but he still refuses to admit it. Who knows how many girls accompanied him while he was sending sweet words to me in Qingdao.

I wasted more than 8 months of my time and feelings, and found out that he was just a foreign trash who played with girls in China. My previous friend’s advice made sense now that I think about it. Who made me such a trash man? What about the silly girl who believes in love? People like "Passenger A" finally taught me an important lesson in life!