Being hacked by the other party will teach you a trick to save it.

I think being blackmailed by the other party teaches you how to recover:

1. Keep calm, find out the problems and improve yourself;

2. Give each other space and don't disturb each other often;

3. Let the other party see the change and progress by enhancing their attraction;

4. When re-establishing contact, we should start with a light and tasteful topic, gradually resume interaction and remain sincere.