"The wife should pay for the decoration", Phoenix Man calculated step by step. What happened afterwards?

Love is sacred and solemn, love is pure, love is completely unaffected by the outside world, and love can cross all obstacles, status, family, national boundaries and skin color?

We never deny the greatness and magic of love, but when it comes to marriage and daily necessities, love is often so vulnerable.

Don't be carried away by love and despise the right match.

Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, which is not groundless. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is indeed a matter for two families.

When the hormones disperse and all the fantasies about a beautiful marriage come true, there will be a strong contrast, which often makes people unprepared and unacceptable. So what is the word that often hangs on women's lips? When you fall in love

Many people probably despise marriage, and as a result, they are more wronged, especially when two people are not on the right path and the material conditions are huge. When two people live together, they need to face the conflict of various concepts, and no one will be very comfortable. Finally, it is difficult to have a happy ending.

After the tempering of life, you will find how wrong you were when you paid attention to love and ignored the right collocation.

Love is so beautiful that many people lose themselves, but the life of love is limited. When faced with the cruel reality, the shelf life of love will be greatly reduced.

When you have to deal with daily necessities and trivial matters, you have no time to care about any bullshit love. At this time, the two sides only have various problems in each other's eyes, and everyone will forget the original love.

At this point, love may have become a joke, and the person you once loved most may also become the person you want to get rid of most. This is the reality, and this is also the lesson that life has taught us. Only those who have experienced it can understand.

Phoenix man? This is a commendatory term, but I don't know when, in marriage, Phoenix Man became the choice that everyone stayed away from. This is because more and more people realize the importance of belonging to a suitable family to marriage. After all, there must be some truth in what has been handed down from generation to generation.

Different family backgrounds bring conflicts of behavior and ideas in marriage.

When you read casual books, he thinks you are a young man pretending to be an artist, and you support children who are out of school. He feels that his parents can't earn so much money by farming for a year. You buy, he thinks you burn money, you drink coffee, he thinks you are petty bourgeoisie.

Just because he grew up with different backgrounds, he doesn't understand you, and you don't understand him, but you think he is targeting you everywhere, and you think he doesn't love you anymore.

Phoenix man likes to calculate that you are not Phoenix man. Maybe you don't know that when you grow up in a poor family, when you finally get rid of the fate of facing the loess and taking root in the city, you will cherish everything in front of you, and you will work harder to maintain and strive for a better life.

Connor's boyfriend Chen Wei is an out-and-out Phoenix man. He was born in a cheap countryside, and his family has been farming for generations. He suffered a lot since he was a child. As the only college student in the village, he can be said to be the hope of the village.

Connor was born in the city and his parents worked in state-owned enterprises. As the only child in the family, Connor has been spoiled since childhood.

Connor and Chen Wei are college classmates. Chen Wei entered the school with the first place in the whole department. He is tall and straight, and he was a Communist Youth League secretary. He quickly caught Connor's attention, so Connor took the initiative to pursue Chen Wei, and they also established a love relationship.

Due to limited family conditions, Chen Wei has always been frugal, while Connor has always been generous, so when two people fall in love, whether dating, shopping or holidays, Connor is almost always paid by her boyfriend. For money, Chen Wei has always been more calculating, but immersed in the sweetness of love, Connor never cared about these.

But over time, Connor was still a little unhappy to see that all the female students around him were spoiled by their boyfriends. Whenever this time, Chen Wei will comfort Connor, saying that he has saved so much money. For the future of two people, he will earn money to buy a house by himself and then marry Connor.

Connor was not wronged by her boyfriend's answer, but moved. She used to think that her boyfriend was stingy, but he was not sensible. So Connor is more willing to pay for her boyfriend, hoping that she can help her boyfriend share the pressure and hope that they can buy a house and get married as soon as possible.

After the end of the poverty alleviation marriage, the two men finished their college days hand in hand, found a stable job and settled in the local area together. Next, they are faced with plans for the future.

When two people want to get married, the first problem before them is the house, but to Connor's surprise, Chen Wei gave her a big surprise.

I thought it was difficult to buy a house, but after working for two years, Chen Wei put forward a plan to buy a house like Connor. Chen Wei has saved enough money to buy a house in recent years by scrimping and saving, plus his parents' savings for most of their lives.

However, Chen Wei's family won't have any money to buy a house, and they can't afford marriage, bride price and decoration, so even if they buy a house, their marriage may still be stranded for some time. Chen Wei explained all this to Connor, and did not intend to let Connor help him share some of it.

Connor also understands the meaning, thinking that he still has 200,000 private money, which is almost enough for house decoration, but considering that the two have not yet obtained the certificate, Connor is hesitant.

Chen Wei was also afraid that Connor would think too much, so he promised Connor to wait until the house was decorated before getting married. Hearing Chen Wei's promise, Connor also promised Chen Wei's own money for house decoration.

Connor told her parents about their plans to get married. At first, the old man was very opposed. After all, the gap between the two families is too big. However, Conner's parents heard that Chen Wei had enough money to buy a house and thought that he was a hard-working potential stock with unlimited future, so they also agreed with Conner's idea.

Next, the parents meet, get engaged and get a license. They naturally achieved great things in life, and Chen Wei also bought a house. Connor gave Chen Wei the money to decorate the house, and the house was not complete until it was renovated.

After moving into a new house after marriage, Connor is still looking forward to the happy world of two people. At this time, Chen Wei, a once familiar boyfriend, made a big face change, not only becoming indifferent to himself, but even refusing to mention the wedding, let alone the honeymoon.

Connor couldn't help it and urged Chen Wei again and again. Chen Wei said that there is no money for weddings at present, and there are still a lot of debts to pay for buying a house. Let's wait until the debt is paid off.

For an instant, Connor seemed to understand everything. Chen Wei has been calculating everything from beginning to end, including himself. He is just a selfish Phoenix man, just a wife who doesn't want money. He has nothing to marry, and now he has to help him pay off his house debt.

Connor took out her savings to decorate the house without telling her parents, and the house didn't write her name. Chen Wei's step-by-step calculation caught Connor off guard.

Connor began to question Chen Wei, and Chen Wei turned his face directly. Marriage is a matter for two families. We live in the house together. Our family can't pay all the money. You only spent 0.2 million/200 thousand on the decoration How can you write your name on the house? ?

Connor was completely chilled. She went home and confessed everything to her parents. Her parents were very angry and said that they would support Conna no matter what decision she made. Connor also knows what her parents mean.

The next day, Connor called the decoration team. The house is not decorated, tear down the installed parts! ?

Later, she sent a message to Chen Wei. Let's divorce! ?