How to cleverly "fabricate" the reason for not answering the phone

Specific reasons such as: busy, mobile phone problems, physical discomfort, something at home.

1, busy .....

2. The mobile phone is broken. ......

I haven't been feeling well recently. ......

4. Something happened at home ......

Reasons for rejecting high EQ: No matter who you are, you should give it respect first. What often makes people uncomfortable is not the refusal itself, but your attitude and language when you refuse. In everyone's mind, people who have different relationships with themselves have a more accurate sense of distance. When we have a clearer understanding of the position of our relationship with another person, the more we can grasp the scale of rejection.

Among them, the specific reasons for refusal depend on specific things and the relationship between people. But one thing is clear, the so-called "high emotional intelligence rejection" is to avoid hurting the other party as much as possible or to the greatest extent, and to refuse reasonably. In addition, in the process of rejection, we need to pay attention to the clear rejection and explain the reasons for rejection. When rejecting others, ambiguity is the most taboo, giving people the illusion of perfunctory.

Refuse attention

1, don't refuse abruptly.

If you can politely refuse when it is really necessary, others will be moved by their sincerity. When you refuse, you should smile and have a solemn attitude, so that others can feel their respect and courtesy for each other, and even if you refuse, you can accept it gladly.

2. Don't speak limply.

When you refuse others, if you speak weakly, even if you can't make it clear, you will be rejected. You think you can't help each other, but you don't want to help at all, because generally speaking, only people with guilty conscience will hesitate.

3. Stop pretending.

Since you have rejected others, you should tell the reasons carefully and then express regret or helplessness. Others are unwilling and can't criticize their refusal. However, it is hypocritical to say "it's a pity" and "it must be" just to make up for each other.

4. Don't refuse mercilessly.

Ruthless refusal means indifference, harsh tone, and no room for accommodation, which will make people embarrassed and even turn against each other. Don't refuse haughtily. No one likes getting close to an arrogant person, let alone accepting it.