What should my boyfriend do if he is too busy to reply to messages or make phone calls?

The best way for girls to meet boys who don't return your messages is to do their own thing. Love is very important, but you should also use your spare time to do things that are beneficial to you. A clever girl will never forget what she has done for a man.

So, when he doesn't return your message, you can greet your parents and care about them. Chat with your best friend, go shopping and do anything you want. Anyway, you have to distract yourself. Don't turn your eyes to a man. Remember, you have other things to do After all, he is not the only one in your life, so you should learn to give yourself and him a safe space. Don't be suspicious like a dissatisfied housewife, it will only push people further and further. After all, today's society is full of temptations, for example, I can't help but want to ask a stranger's sister or more direct dough. Of course, some people make quick money, but I can't say that this behavior is not good. Everyone has everyone's pursuit, and some people have strong sexual desire. So trust is the most important thing. The situation of not returning messages here is relatively broad, which does not necessarily mean not returning messages at all. According to the sender's feelings, not returning messages for half an hour, not returning messages for several hours, and then not returning messages for one day are all classified as "too busy to return messages". Today, mobile phones have become the external organs of modern people. As long as it's not closed training or intentional isolation of mobile phones or some accidents, it's basically impossible not to see the news. But if you don't reply to the news in time, does it mean you don't love it? The answer is not necessarily. Let's put aside the fact that you won't be back in half an hour. Even if you don't reply for hours, you may be busy. It's not that I don't even have time to type a few words and make a sound, but I'm afraid that the conversation will never end. If the information sent is neither urgent nor important, it may be put aside and replied in a few hours. In order to avoid affecting the relationship, men sometimes say sorry for not seeing it in time. This is a convenient excuse and a little effort he made to ease the relationship. Most of the messages that have been answered for more than one day have been forgotten. Everyone has their own work and life, and they all have important things. It is still possible to forget to reply after a busy circle. There is no doubt that it is the fault of the party who forgot to reply to the message. It is not inappropriate to be interpreted as not caring. It is also possible to express dissatisfaction with this. Forgive twice at a time, three times and four times, and the other party will be embarrassed and adjust their behavior habits accordingly. This running-in process is essential in getting along. If you don't reply for a few days, then the possibility of cold violence is not ruled out. Whether it is important or not, send it several times to avoid forgetting to reply or not receiving bad signals. After all the possibilities are ruled out, what remains is indifference, indifference and even a precursor to breaking up. It doesn't mean anything to be too busy to return messages once or twice, but as long as you have the habit of not returning messages for a long time and are indifferent after many quarrels, no matter how many reasons you can find to prove that he is busy, it is actually just psychological comfort. What really bothers people is not whether the news is answered immediately, but the attitude you show-as long as you don't reply to me in time, I feel dispensable. One of the important criteria of reliability is "value for money". It is not enough to have an echo, but also to be timely. If you can't do it in time occasionally, you should explain the situation and adjust it next time. This is the way to manage relationships. Of course, it should also be combined with personal personality analysis. Maybe the other person is a simple straight man who doesn't want to return, but he doesn't understand the feelings of business and can't be keenly aware of your mood swings. The solution is to break up or make a little effort to "set it up". Whether the news is answered in time is a trivial matter. Some people regard small things as big things, turn small things into big things, and finally break up because of this. Some people care very much, but they are afraid of destroying the harmony of the relationship, afraid to mention it, and unhappy. Some people argue that the expression of factual evidence and emotional appeal together does not necessarily have a good result. After someone communicates openly with their partner, the problem is solved and the relationship is more stable and sweet. How to look at the problem, whether these small details should be taken seriously, the key is to look at each other's personality and see if the feelings of both sides can be "seen". Seeing only the other person's feelings will hurt you because you are ignored. If you don't value your feelings, who else will? Seeing only your own feelings seems even more incomprehensible and harsh, which does not help to repair the relationship.

Therefore, we should keep a good balance, learn to love ourselves, express our demands in a reasonable way, and learn to love others, understand and trust more. Love doesn't matter, as can be seen from the speed of message reply, but we still have to avoid blind people touching the elephant and see the whole part. Sometimes the answer is not anywhere else, but right next to you.