After the engagement, I received an anonymous letter from his ex-girlfriend and learned that I was a mistress. What should I do?

Fortunately, this is a letter I received during my engagement. In this way, it is much better to find out the whole thing and make the right decision than to find out after marriage. What should I do if I receive anonymity after my engagement and learn that I am a mistress?

Generally speaking, the authenticity of this letter remains to be verified. If it were me, I would do it.

Step 1: Get in touch with your ex-girlfriend without disturbing your boyfriend. Whether it is WeChat, telephone or interview, we must make this matter clear.

1. Talk calmly, no matter what her purpose is, don't be emotional. Stay rational and calm until things are clear.

2. Ask her what evidence you have to prove that you are a mistress. At this time, your heart must be broken, afraid to see these but still curious. After all, seeing is believing, but listening is empty. She wants to produce real evidence. Generally speaking, there will be a short message record, so let her take a screenshot to show you as evidence, which will definitely be used when you settle accounts with your boyfriend in the future.

3. Find out her real purpose. Maybe she wants to be angry with you, and she won't let you have what she can't have. Ruined your wedding on purpose to get back at your ex-boyfriend. It is also possible that your future fiance is really a scum who keeps in touch with you while eating a bowl and looking at the pot. I didn't expect it to split too hard and my leg was broken.

You should know these two points before making a decision. If it's something that doesn't exist at all, you should take it as a joke and don't take it to heart. If it's true, then you have to figure out where to go. Note that such a man is scum, the sooner he leaves, the better, and the farther away from home, the better. Otherwise, you forgive her, and you will cheat after marriage. That was the last time. You will have to pay much more money than now.

5. After making a decision, have a showdown with him. Throw the letter in his face and listen to his explanation. Then show him the evidence and gag him.

6. Finally, deal with everything quickly and leave him. Start a new life.

There are good men waiting for you ahead, don't worry! ! !

When dealing with this kind of thing, we must keep calm and rational, and don't let emotions blind our eyes.