Parents will speak and share how to accompany their children to grow together.

Parent-teacher conference speech: growing up with children

Dear parents:

First, the partner on the road of children's growth

Brief introduction of teachers in various subjects

Second, my class management philosophy

Now, from the perspective of the head teacher, I will talk about my idea of managing the class. After ten years of teaching, I thought all the way: what kind of class should I bring out and what kind of people should I train students to be? This question keeps asking myself in the process of accompanying my son: where should I lead my child?

Gradually, I made clear my direction: health first, morality second, and learning third. Without life, everything is meaningless, the quality is not good, and learning is no matter how good it is!

I made clear the overall goal:

1, let children exercise a strong body! This semester's skipping activities are in full swing. ) In my QQ space, there are two class diaries sharing children skipping rope. Please raise your hand if you have seen it. I also wrote two diaries about my son skipping rope. Share the latest article for everyone to see.

2. Cultivate good study habits!

This issue: writing habits-posture, books neat and serious;

Complete homework habits-do homework consciously and actively to meet the requirements of teachers;

Reading habit-love book complex, read once a week.

Parents must cooperate!

3. Have a happy childhood and a healthy mind!

I try my best to be equal in school education.

Seat: rotating system, front, rear, left and right wheels, which is beneficial to eye health.

Duty: Take turns and queue up according to the student number, so that each child is the small master of Class 3/kloc-0.

Major: balanced development. Calligraphy thinking training. Practice writing, mathematical thinking, reading and writing. Combine quality education with exam-oriented education and make some adjustments according to children's situation. Class members: help each other, unite and be friendly.

Competition mechanism: winning flags and flowers, summing up the weekly class meeting and making continuous progress. When the child makes progress, I will seize the opportunity to praise him and give him confidence, but when he really doesn't make progress, please don't worry, please be sure to accompany the child and wait patiently for him to grow up!

Third, your company.

You chose Ji Guang Practical School for your children, creating a comfortable learning environment for them. You sent your children to Class 3, Grade 1, and our team of teachers will do their best to lead them. However, the road of children's growth has always been followed by a solid school. With our teacher, do you know what is missing on the child's growth path?

Your company!

Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents can teach their children the first lie or be an honest person. Parents can teach their children to be selfish or to be kind and selfless. father

A mother can plant a seedling of violence in her child's heart, or she can plant a seed of love in his heart. An early education expert believes that the education a person receives before the age of 6 will affect his life.

Education without parents' active participation is incomplete education, and schools alone cannot cover the whole world of education.

Therefore, I still want to appeal: let's grow up with our children! It's us. Me and you. I wrote you five letters altogether. I am very grateful to my parents and friends who read my letter carefully, especially touching them.

My answer. But at the same time, I have to say I'm a little disappointed. Please look at the pictures of children on the blackboard at the back. I mentioned them three times in my letter, but I haven't handed in all the photos of the children yet. When someone puts flowers on a photo, your child

What am I thinking? It must have lost a goal in its heart. Remind parents: now we use the school magazine. Please read every message from the school teacher carefully. I also give homework to the students on campus every day.

Yes, although you can't tutor your children, you should know their learning progress so that you can tutor them on weekends. Please don't delete it until you have finished reading it.

Today's children are rich in material conditions and need spiritual food. Why don't we find out how long we can stay with the children?

Calculate:

Effectively spend an hour with your child every day.

One week: 1*5+2*2=9 hours.

One semester: 9*4=36*4= 144 hours.

Two semesters: 144*2=288 hours.

Long vacation: 120*2=240 hours

One year: 288+240=528 hours

Six years: 528*6=3 168 hours.

Days after conversion: 3 168/24= 150 days.

In six years, you can effectively accompany your child for up to five months.

Resident students: 5 hours a week, 20 hours a month, 80 hours a semester, one year 160 hours, six years 960 hours, 3 168-960 = 2208 hours, converted into 92 days and 3 months.

Three months, this number shocked us! Some parents have been away for many years and spend less time with their children! When I told my husband about it, he was shocked! He spends as much time as possible with his children now.

Son. After the children went to junior high school and high school, they basically lived on campus. At that time, he had his own friends and was seldom influenced by his parents. There will be less time to spend with children after junior high school. Actually, I am against letting children live in primary schools.

Yes Children live more under the system at school, but they can be spoiled at home and live with love. Primary school began to live on campus, then junior high school, high school and university. I grew up in this group for more than ten or twenty years.

Big, if it were you, would you be bored? Therefore, I often tell myself: cherish the time with my son! Because there is not much time like this!

Fourth, how to accompany children to grow up?

Some parents will say, "Your job determines that you can spend time with your children, and my job has no spare time. You are a knowledgeable teacher and can help children with their homework. We don't understand. Why not send the children to live on campus? " be

Yes We adults have to work, live and face some practical problems. Some are helpless. What I want to say is: "Please try your best to create time for your children! When you are busy, when you have time to go.

When playing mahjong, please ask yourself, what is the purpose of being busy? I think we know what to do. "

Briefly talk about two misunderstandings in current family education: 1, please compare vertically, not horizontally. Every child grew up in different environments and different families from birth to primary school. That's why it's the same

Teachers, the same school, but in the end, on the day of graduation, children will be different. Children's acceptance of new knowledge, memory, attention in class and parents' help vary, and children are willing to.

There must be a difference. So please compare vertically and always compare your child's today with yesterday. When you want to blame him, please ask yourself what you have done for him. A few days after the start of school, some parents asked me: "How is the child's performance?" I have always said this: "I still can't see who gets good grades, and children will develop and change." Scores mean nothing. Take the first monthly exam as an example. Some children may be more careful and got a hundred points this time. Some children get it because of carelessness.

99 points. Can you say that children with a score of 99 are not as good as children with a score of 100? Of course, if the difference is too far, it is necessary to see if the child has encountered any problems. Maybe he has a poor foundation in some aspects and was better than other students before.

Just a little contact. 2. spoil. Focus on arranged alternatives. Phenomenon 1: Children can't tie their shoes. Phenomenon 2: The homework didn't bring the strange mother-in-law, and the strange mother. Phenomenon 3: rudeness, of course.

Five, four start action-accompany children to grow up

1, learn to love children. Understand the hardships of children's study. If the child fails, help him find the reason and help him succeed. My son raised his hand. I dare not say it in front of everyone, but I have no expression at all.

Question: I will practice raising my hand with him at home and practice in front of the mirror. Ask some questions and answer them with him. Tell him to pass on body language. Firm eyes. When answering questions in a low voice, teach him how to answer confidently. although

My son's hands are still not particularly mobile. But I found that he was making progress, and I was already very happy. I also wrote about it in detail in QQ space. Some parents may have seen it. Love children, let children.

The child is full of hope. This is very important. Because we often unconsciously compare our children horizontally, what do you think of other children? In fact, the child is very disgusted with this, and it is gone by comparison.

Self-confidence, children have no hope in comparison, and children give up the pace of progress in comparison. Therefore, no matter how far your child is from other children, please always look forward to him. Sharing a story: a meeting between mother and parents

2. Start with reasonable discipline. Parents' education should be persistent. In this way, two people will not quarrel often because of their children, and the children will not contradict themselves because their mothers say so well and their fathers say so well. I don't know where to start.

3. Start by communicating with children. It is necessary to have spiritual communication with children. When we were young, children seemed to tell us everything, but when they grew up, they stopped talking. Because he said it once and was rejected again, saying

Once, it was rejected again. He finally stopped talking. Some time ago we recited vowels, which seemed too difficult for some children. My son showed me his dictation and peeking. As a teacher, dictation is necessary.

They are not allowed to peek. But as a mother, I understand children. The son ate and put it aside: "I peeked at my deskmate's book during dictation today." I led him to ask, "How do you feel when you can't write?" The son said:

"anxiety!" I asked again, "How do you feel after reading and writing?" The son said, "Happy!" I asked again, "Are you happy to write by yourself or to peek?" The son said, "All!"

Happy. "I didn't ask my son again. What I want is that my son can be happier by writing hard. Peeping should be more shameful. But I didn't ask again. I respect his feelings. My son must understand that he shouldn't steal.

Look at that. If I insist on making him feel ashamed of peeking, he won't want to share it with me next time. When the child is willing to talk, you listen, agree with him, and then trust him.

4. Start by being a role model for children. Your child must look like what you look like. Parents are mirrors and children are shadows. He must have learned everything from you. "Set an example" is the most important.

Share story one:

Let me tell you a story first. A long time ago, there was a family of five. It was a big family with grandparents, parents and a son. Grandparents are seventy or eighty years old, and they are too old to walk, mom and dad.

I hate it and think it is a burden. After discussion, they decided to throw their grandparents into the mountains. One night, they put their grandparents in a big bamboo basket, and they took them to the mountains. When they want to put grandpa

When grandma stayed, their son said, "Mom and Dad, leave grandma and grandpa in the mountains. Don't lose this big basket." Mom and dad felt very strange and asked their son why he put the basket.

Take it home. The son replied, "When you are old, I will also carry you into the mountains with this big basket and throw you into the mountains."

Hearing this, Mom and Dad panicked. They quickly took their grandparents home, served them kindly, and never dared to disappoint their parents again.

Share story 2: I have tasted a little bitterness myself, but fortunately it is not too late to correct it. Cooking.

Create a happy and harmonious family atmosphere for children, and children will learn to create such a family in the future. If you create complaints, quarrels and pains, that's what children learn from you. How can you expect him to be happy in the future?

Create a learning environment for children! Don't let him do his homework everywhere, you watch TV everywhere. Besides, he is doing his homework, and you are the invigilator. The best way is: when he is doing his homework, you'd better do it, too.

Buy yourself a book to read. In this way, you won't complain too much about his homework and make him feel happy doing it. When he is distracted, you tell him not to make any noise when reading and make an appointment to finish his homework.

Don't talk before. Let him study quietly. At the same time, children will think: mom or dad are so old that they all like to learn to read. I don't know what the background of this book is. This will stimulate children's desire to learn. You like reading, son.

You will learn, too

Sixth, the key tips

Having said so much before, it actually boils down to two main points: family education-that is, accompanying children. There is not much time with children, please cherish it.

What we should do this semester is to pay attention to study and accompany reading.

1, pay attention to learning, many parents are very upset, especially the mother-in-law grandfather with children. Everyone is distressed that the current knowledge parents don't understand and can't help their children with their homework. It is often said that it is not the education industry.

Some parents complain that children's homework is too difficult now, and grades one and two are better, especially in senior grades, which many parents don't understand. My parents were still complaining to me the day before yesterday that I couldn't help my children read English. That's true. if it were not for

For teachers, parents can review and consolidate what children learn every day, and it will be much easier for children to master it. Nowadays, education requires a lot of children. I remember when I was in primary school, it was usually 70 to 80 points, which was a good result.

But now 95 is not a good grade. Not long ago, I also argued with my husband about this issue: this is what I told my husband. In fact, as teachers, we don't want parents to know their children's homework. The most important thing is that you should check it every day.

Check the child's homework. For the child, he feels that "my mother cares about my study every day, and I have to pay attention to this matter." This matter is very important. I must study hard. "Let's imagine, if you spend ten days and a half months on him.

He doesn't care about his study. Can he control himself to study hard for such a young child? Forget the kids. Let's take couples as an example. If there are different jobs, the husband doesn't ask his wife, and the wife doesn't ask her husband. Long time no see.

Just like talking to my husband or wife about work every day, there is no such person. Sometimes even if I am confused, I feel that the two are closer. So are children. Every day, people pay attention to his study and share it with him.

Xi, then he will think that you care about him, and he will study harder. Of course, if parents really don't understand the right or wrong of children's homework, then you have to look at his attitude. As long as you are serious, praise him. Tell the children:

"This mother doesn't understand, you are responsible for it. Mom wants you to do things seriously. " So we ask parents to check their children's homework, which is actually to create an opportunity for you to contact, communicate and understand with parents. Of course, for example

Children will be more relaxed if you know everything and can guide them well. Please sign your name every time you check your child's homework in the future. Write down the child's completion. It is convenient for us to know the situation of the child. Like Uncle Tan.

Good for mom.

2. In fact, the education of the whole primary school is the education of habit. There are many children who are smart, ignorant in primary school and have made great achievements in junior high school and high school. That's what I did. Primary school dropped one level, and I didn't understand it until junior high school.

To study. Later, I slowly regained my self-confidence and began to study actively, and my grades soared. I would like to take this opportunity to repeat what I said before: "Always look forward to your children! Always compare your child's today with yesterday! " So, son.

Children will continue to improve, and children will not give up on themselves. All habits boil down to one word "persistence", and I don't want to say how important habits are to everyone here. Habit is persistence! Let me share my own here.

Feeling. Although I'm not a celebrity and I haven't achieved much, this is my true feeling and experience. I always insist on telling my son a story every night, or reciting a children's song and guessing a riddle. It's been over two years.

My son now asks me to tell him every night, no matter how tired he is. Sometimes he is too sleepy. Make sure I tell him. Even after I opened the book, he fell asleep just after two or three sentences. I'm tired sometimes, but as long as

He told me to talk, so I braced myself and told him. Ask parents to think about it. To talk about the gap, a child who has listened to stories for two years is compared with a child who rarely listens to stories. How many stories will children receive in two years?

New knowledge. Moreover, if the child doesn't receive any knowledge through stories, I want to be a child when he grows up. Recalling how wonderful it would be to listen to my mother telling stories every night when I was a child! My son likes to read stories by listening to them every night.

Books, during the day, he will go through those books and read them by himself. At least he doesn't hate books. So, if you want your child to behave well in school, please at least let him get into the habit of finishing his homework carefully every day. this week

I sent a short message again. At that time, I smoked my children to recite Bear Crossing the Bridge. So many children can't recite it. I was really angry. The child may have forgotten where to do his homework. I took the newsletter sent by the school last week.

Let me see, did I send the wrong message? There is nothing wrong! Make it clear. Recite 10, 1 1, 12. Can be asked about children, some only recite one song, some do not. I am a relatively calm person,

But in the face of this matter, my heart is not calm. I ask myself, I treat 44 children with great care, but I don't feel the attention of some parents. After a long time, it will inevitably make people relax. You don't pay attention, and I still pay attention.

Do what? Here, I emphasize the requirements of weekend homework: Chinese is generally reading, writing and memorizing. Then there is telling stories. Reading is reviewing, and children's knowledge may have been forgotten. Consolidating it again will be more solid. Write current

The requirement is just to let the children write carefully and not scribble on the book. Backrest accumulates knowledge for children. Tell a story. I'll talk to you later. Please sign the information in the book after reading it, sign the information in the book after writing it, and recite the information attendance book.

Let's go Parents are asked to correct math with a red pen on weekends. The first and second grades are relatively simple, and now parents can basically understand them. Listen to him read English. If he can't remember, please make a mark and go back to school and ask the teacher. As long as the child's study

Get used to it, and you can finish it seriously if you don't understand him in the future.

The method of reading picture books is shared in an article in my QQ log. At the same time, I will upload some photos of children to QQ space from time to time according to the situation in the class, and I will try my best to capture the wonderful moments of each child.

Of course, there must be an oversight. Please remind me if you find it. If you think it's good, reprint it to your space. I took it on my mobile phone, and the effect is not bad. You can wash it out and keep it. Please add me if you haven't added it yet. Go ...

Pay attention to children's growth. Finally, as I wrote in my first letter. I sent invitations to 44 parents, inviting you to grow up with my children. Of course, I also see that many parents are doing very well, much better than me.

Yes While accompanying the child to grow up, record the story of the child's growth and send it to my mailbox. I said that at the end of the first and second grades, I would compile the photos of the children and their stories of growing up into a book. As a child

The first footprint of a child's growth. But if it's really just me, I can't do it. In front of me, I invited parents to write down their children's growth stories and send them to my mailbox. So far, I have received many responses from parents, but

Yes, there is no short story about you growing up with your children.

I compiled a list of schools that parents need to cooperate with this semester, and I can take it out if I forget it.

Seven: grow up with children!

Please remember: six years is fleeting, and we can stay with our children for five months at most. Please cherish this limited time!

Please remember: always compare your child's today with yesterday! Always full of expectations for children!

Please remember: if you want to be close to your child, you must play dumb and listen to your child!

Please remember: you have to be what you want your child to be!

Please do this: sign your child's homework every time and everything. Write down the child's completion in words in the homework. Your concern is the motivation for children to learn.

Please do this: apply for a QQ number, add me as a friend (40358 1257), and watch children's stories and photos. Pay attention to the growth of children and urge me to stick to it!

Please do it: read with the children! Excellence is a habit! And forming a habit is persistence!

Please do this: record the story of children's growth and send it to my mailbox guolq0603 @126.com. Only with your company can you leave good memories for children's growth. I can do better and go further in your company!

Ask your child: Love the class group. Only by loving the class collective can he feel the happiness of living in it!

Ask your child: Love every subject, only if you don't be partial to the subject can your child develop in an all-round way!

Ask children: Love every teacher, only by loving teachers can children love the knowledge taught by teachers!

Please remember the most important one: when you have something to say to me, you can ask your child to bring me a letter, and you can even dial the service number-

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Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to listen to me!