The most precious memorial of love is not the luxury he gave you.

The most precious souvenir of love is not the watch or necklace you gave me, nor the sweet information or photos you gave me, but the change you made to me, just like the river left to the terrain.

This is a sentence that Cai Kangyong once said. After my best friend, Lao Wei, and her boyfriend had been married for seven years, this sentence became my best hope for the love story.

0 1.

In the dressing room, when the makeup artist tried her best to dress Lao Wei as a beautiful bride, I tried to help her record the beauty of this moment, but Lao Wei, who was afraid of the camera, couldn't smile naturally.

At that time, the photographer was interviewing Lao Wei in the next room. When the cameraman asked, "What impressed me most in love?" , Lao Wei ears immediately, waiting for his answer. Seeing her focused expression, I knew that she must have turned over countless pictures in her mind.

Then I heard the shy schoolboy's answer in a matter-of-fact composition, "It was the two of us riding across the Golden Gate Bridge together, surrounded by endless traffic. At that moment, I felt that the whole world was ours! "

Lao Wei couldn't help laughing, so I immediately raised my camera and recorded this moment.

In the subsequent follow-up, as long as Lao Wei shows a serious expression, I will immediately catch her other half in front of her, and Lao Wei will immediately try her best.

Makes me feel like a dog abuser.

Lao Wei said that after seven years of companionship, he has become accustomed to each other's companionship and entered the marriage. Logically, he never thought of using any melodramatic sentences to describe this love story, but in my opinion, when he looked at each other, the air was full of pink bubbles of love.

Later, I asked Lao Wei what his advantages attracted you. Lao Wei thought about it and told me a little thing.

It was Lao Wei who took an exam, and the two of them arrived in Guangzhou in a dusty way. Lao Wei didn't take the exam to heart, so he didn't prepare carefully. He took old Wei Yi seriously, showed her the examination room, stepped on the spot and made all kinds of preparations. Who wanted to keep it a secret and didn't take the admission ticket? The bloodiest part of the exam happened, and Lao Wei was stopped off the field directly.

Lao Wei said, "At that time, I was already considering giving up. I didn't prepare for the exam seriously anyway. I'd better forget it. He insisted-since he came, he had to take the exam. But the admission ticket was pulled to the hotel 30 minutes away from the examination room, and it was too late once and for all.

Finally, he thought about it and said, I'll help you reprint the admission ticket, and then I watched his running back disappear into the huge campus.

10 minutes later, he came back panting, holding two admission tickets in his hand, and did not forget to touch my head and watch me enter the examination room.

Science and engineering boys never say sweet words. If I answer directly, I can't tell his merits, but I can tell many examples. "

02.

After reading the above passage, you may think that Lao Wei has found a 24-year-old boyfriend.

But in fact, the perfect partner never exists.

There is a saying that even the most loving partner has tried to strangle each other countless times.

It's true.

When Lao Wei talked about her third year of love, the most she did with me was to spit on her boyfriend.

For a while, I thought Lao Wei had found a love rat.

But in fact, any love has two sides, but sometimes the other party chooses to tell you only one side of love.

Haruki Murakami once said at a friend's daughter's wedding-

A Xiang, congratulations on your wedding. I've only been married once, and I don't know much about many things, but it's good when the marriage is good. When it's not so good, I'm always thinking about other things. But it's good when it's good. I hope you have many good times. I wish you happiness.

In my opinion, love is the same.

First love, about the best time, is blind and can't see each other's shortcomings.

Love has faded, and burnout has come. I just want to keep my distance from each other and return to that single and unrestrained self.

Two people are like two hedgehogs warming each other in winter. They are near, painful, far and cold.

You have to pull out the thorns for each other to snuggle up to each other.

In this process, we have to test each other, quarrel, make up, and go on endlessly to find that balance point.

Many people give up at this stage.

Only enjoy the sweetness of love, do not bear the pain of love, and will never be able to dock.

Just like Guo Tianwang's famous argument that shoes don't fit.

Two people who love each other, ups and downs, must taste together in order to join hands in fireworks.

03.

After the wedding, Lao Wei said to me, if there is a problem at the wedding, when is your other half the most asshole? I can also explain-

For example, he used to be addicted to computer games. I still remember when he was taking the postgraduate entrance examination, I went to school to look for him, but I couldn't find him anywhere. Finally, I found him in an Internet cafe. I took him out of the Internet cafe with a black face, and he followed me like a pupil.

For example, he is a little male chauvinist. Every time he seriously discusses a question, he will win the final victory of the debate at all costs.

But after a long time, I gradually found that even shortcomings can be counted.

Of course, there are hard times. In the year of graduation, when the war was at its peak, we became long-distance lovers.

I can't adapt to the sudden loneliness. I can call him a dozen times a day. I don't care about his situation, talk about irrelevant topics, but I just won't disconnect. After the love affair was exposed, I was strongly opposed by my parents, quarreling and crying every day.

He went to his city without hesitation, only to find that there were few employment opportunities here.

During the six months of unemployment, I became a time bomb bursting with negative energy. All this finally vanished at the moment of holding hands for a lifetime.

Even, I am very grateful, grateful for all the bad, grateful for all the tests, let us not only accompany, but also grow.

04.

I don't think there is a conclusion about what good love is like.

But I have always liked the love between Chandler and Monica in Friends very much.

In love, Chandler always plays the loser, and Monica always meets people.

Before the arrival of love, they were old friends who knew all the stories of each other.

Not only is Chandler's parents divorced, but his father is also a homosexual who has an affair with his nanny. Monica is a second child and has not been loved as much as her brother for a long time. These two unhappy people from unhappy families were more or less traumatized.

Chandler likes to tell cold jokes that are completely irrelevant, while Monica has obsessive-compulsive disorder and serious cleanliness addiction;

Chandler is afraid of marriage, and Monica is a marriage maniac;

Two people came together by mistake and healed each other.

They are like Wallace Huo and Ruby Lin's wedding invitations, saying that ten years of close friends turned into love, and this kind of love is a permanent flow.

Being able to witness each other's growth is the most precious and fulfilling memory in the days after holding hands. I look forward to such love.

What about you?