How to contact your ex-boyfriend skillfully

Have you ever had such an experience: after breaking up, you want to contact your ex-boyfriend, but you don't know how to talk, and you are afraid of being rejected? In fact, it is not difficult to contact ex-boyfriends skillfully. It just takes some skill and courage. Below, I will share some of my own experiences and methods, hoping to help you.

First, think about your own motives.

Before contacting your ex-boyfriend, you need to think about your motives. Why did you contact him? Is it because you still love him and want to be with him? Or because you just want to keep friendly relations with him, or because you need his help or advice? If your motivation is the former, then you need to seriously consider your emotional state and whether you are ready to start over. If you just want to keep friendly relations with him or ask for help, then you need to express your intention clearly when contacting him to avoid misunderstanding and unnecessary trouble.

Second, choose the right time and way.

It is important to contact your ex-boyfriend and choose the right time and way. If you know his schedule, you can choose to contact him when he is free, so that he will accept your invitation more easily. In addition, you can also choose some informal ways to contact him, such as texting, calling, sending emails, adding WeChat, etc. If you are worried that direct contact will disturb him, you can contact him through friends or social media first, which will be more natural and relaxed.

Third, prepare your topic and dialogue.

Before contacting your ex-boyfriend, you need to prepare your topic and conversation. Don't embarrass yourself or have nothing to say in the conversation. You can think of some topics you are interested in, such as work, life, hobbies and so on. And some common topics, such as places you have been together, friends with you, etc. During the conversation, you need to be confident and calm, and don't let your emotions get too excited or nervous.

Fourth, express your true thoughts and feelings.

When you contact your ex-boyfriend, you need to express your true thoughts and feelings. Don't try to hide your feelings or deceive him. If you still love him, you can express your feelings appropriately, but don't be too active and enthusiastic. If you just want to keep friendly relations with him or ask for help, you need to express your intentions clearly to avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary troubles.

Fifth, accept different results.

After contacting your ex-boyfriend, you need to accept different results. He may refuse your invitation or simply reply to your message, which is a normal reaction. You need to keep yourself calm and rational, and don't get too excited or disappointed. If he refuses your invitation, you need to respect his decision and don't importune or pester him. If he simply replies to your message, you need to adjust your expectations appropriately and don't expect or fantasize too much.

Conclusion:

It's not easy to contact ex-boyfriends, which requires certain skills and courage. But as long as you seriously think about your motives, choose the right time and way, prepare your topics and conversations, express your true thoughts and feelings, and accept different results, you can successfully contact your ex-boyfriend, re-establish friendly relations or seek help. I hope my experience and methods can inspire and help you.