Introverted boys, dating girls for the first time, what to say, what to pay attention to, and how to confess!

How do introverted boys date girls? Dating and chatting is a key step, but some boys are introverted, so dating and chatting is easy to be awkward. This situation can easily make girls feel inappropriate and want to end the date as soon as possible. How should introverted boys date girls to avoid this situation?

How do introverted boys date girls? Since introverted boys can't chat, they should learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and work hard on dating arrangements.

Choose a suitable place.

Imagine an introverted boy who is not good at chatting. What if the place for dating girls is arranged in a quiet place like a coffee shop?

It will be extremely embarrassing, the atmosphere is quiet and embarrassing, and you have nothing to say, which is even more embarrassing.

So the date must not be arranged in such a quiet place. On the one hand, it will make you and girls very cautious; On the other hand, the environment will suppress you, not your home, and there is no way to help you and girls make a difference in topic interaction through the environment.

Suitable places are: amusement parks, outdoors, parks with good environment and aquariums.

Arranging in this place is crowded, with large space and many things and events around, which will not make your atmosphere very embarrassing. In addition, it will give you more possibilities for interaction, and you will also have more opportunities to "explore topics".

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2. Change the appointment place more, don't stay in one place all the time.

Choose a place that suits you and avoid embarrassment when you meet. Because introverts are not good at chatting, there may still be embarrassing situations. Therefore, in order to avoid this situation, you should learn to change venues. Changing venues many times will be more fresh, girls' emotions will be better mobilized, and girls will feel that dating you is rich and fun.

There are several points to be noted during the transition:

(1) Don't wait until you are completely speechless and the atmosphere is awkward, because girls are likely to reject your next transition plan.

(2) Regarding the transition, you should plan and arrange a certain date in advance. If you make a temporary decision, girls can detect that you deliberately said to go somewhere else in order to avoid embarrassment, but once you are caught by girls, it is easy to feel that you are speechless.

(3) You can still follow the point 1 when changing sites, that is, choose a place suitable for your communication and interaction.

3. Chat interaction, topic selection

Brothers who are introverted and not good at chatting often deliberately talk about their life, work, childhood experiences and so on in order to avoid the embarrassment of silence.

In fact, your intentional girl finish is noticeable. Even if a girl smiles and nods at you, it is probably only out of politeness and personal accomplishment, and has nothing to do with her interest in you.

Therefore, your chat interaction and topic selection must avoid deliberately chatting with her. Learn to interact with scenery and environment and get rid of limitations.

For example:

For example, the first date with a girl is at the aquarium. At first, you didn't know what to talk about, but then you went to the aquarium, where the marine life and the surrounding environment sometimes made it easy for girls to behave like little girls. She will be curious and interested in going to such a place to play. Both of you will be more relaxed, and some of your attention will be shifted to the surrounding environment, so naturally you will not be so embarrassed.

I don't know what to talk about, and there is no topic. Many times, the root cause is your embarrassing atmosphere and emotional tension.

Embarrassed atmosphere and nervous mood will make you afraid to say what you want to say, or you can't think of it at all.

How do introverted boys date girls? At this time, if the atmosphere is relaxed, these creatures can be used as interactive topics, and dating will not be limited to talking about life and work.