What if mom keeps going through my chat records?

If you find that your mother often looks through your chat records, you can consider the following ways to deal with this problem:

1. Communicate frankly with your mother: Maybe your mother is curious about your chat record because she wants to know about your life and thoughts. You can try to communicate frankly with your mother, let her know your feelings and thoughts, and explain some personal space and privacy you need.

2. Set a privacy lock: If you feel it is necessary to protect your privacy, you can set a privacy lock, such as setting a password to protect your chat history. In this way, only you or someone who knows the password can view your chat history.

3. Make a non-interference agreement with your mother: You can discuss with your mother and hope that she can respect your privacy and not interfere with each other. You can tell her that if you have any questions or need help, you will take the initiative to share with her.

4. Consider seeking professional help: If this problem has caused you great trouble, consider seeking psychological counseling or family counseling. Professional consultants can help you solve this problem and provide some effective solutions.

No matter which method you take, you need to remain calm and rational, and respect and understand your mother's thoughts and behaviors as much as possible. At the same time, you need to protect your privacy and rights, which is very important.