How does Xiaoshan Jindianzi Dating Agency charge?

Hangzhou "Metropolitan Express" Zhejiang's demand for door-to-door son-in-laws is bullish. International students call for consultation (picture)

On the table of the dating agency, folders are full of classified information. There are tips. There are some who apply for door-to-door sons-in-law

There are more girls than boys

As the quality of door-to-door sons-in-law in Xiaoshan increases, the demand for door-to-door sons-in-law also increases

The demand for door-to-door sons-in-law in Xiaoshan is bullish

At noon on March 18, Xiao Xu made a special trip from Shanghai to Hangzhou City Station by EMU, then immediately changed trains and rushed to Xiaoshan Jindianzi Dating Agency.

With a crew cut, a white shirt, a green jacket, and shiny leather shoes, Xiao Xu came in a hurry and was here for a blind date, so he was dressed meticulously.

Last month, he registered at a dating agency and wanted to be a door-to-door son-in-law.

“About three years ago, when I was still working in Shenzhen, I heard about Xiaoshan’s son-in-law, and I had an idea at that time.

Later I went to work in Shanghai and found out about it online. The dating agency is here," Xiao Xu said.

This dating agency, which mainly introduces door-to-door sons-in-law, is very famous in Xiaoshan. If you want to be a door-to-door son-in-law, the membership fee is expensive: 8,000 yuan, and the introduction period is two years.

“Nowadays, we are recruiting son-in-laws not only in Xiaoshan, but also in Yuhang, Binjiang and other places. However, most of them are in Xiaoshan, and Xiaoshan is the most common in Guali, Ningwei, Yaqian and other places. Register and apply here. We have clients from all over the country, and in recent years, there have been calls from overseas students studying in Japan and the UK for consultation,” said Li Jiyan, the person in charge of the dating agency.

What do people in Xiaoshan want from their son-in-law? Li Jiyan, who has been a matchmaker for ten years, said four points: one must have a good character; one must have a good temper; one must have a skill and a strong ability to survive; and one must be in good health. He said these are all tough measures. In Li Jiyan's view, the two biggest changes in home-based son-in-laws in the past 10 years are two points: 1. The academic qualifications and quality of home-based sons-in-law have been significantly higher. In the past, there were many foreign sons-in-law in junior high school and high school, but now they have at least a college degree or above, and some have a master's degree. Doctors and doctors also come to apply for a son-in-law. They have twenty or thirty masters and four or five doctorates registered here. In the past, there were mostly migrant workers, but now there are more highly skilled talents, teachers, civil servants and other applicants. 2. The current market situation is "more girls than boys", and the demand for door-to-door son-in-laws is rising. Some families in Xiaoshan have begun to relax the requirements for recruiting door-to-door sons-in-law. As long as the son-in-law has a stable job and good quality, it doesn't matter if the son-in-law doesn't live in the woman's house, and he has a house anyway. The first blind date was at the woman’s house. Now let’s talk about Xiao Xu. Xiao Xu is from Jiangxi, born in 1979. He started working at the age of 16. He worked as a cook and drove a forklift. Later, he used the money he earned to learn how to repair cars. He has been doing car repairs since he graduated. Now, he works in a car repair shop in Shanghai, earning a monthly income of more than 4,000 yuan. "A few years ago, I was optimistic about the prospects of repairing cars and used all my savings to open a small car repair shop. However, I had no experience and was not experienced in the world, so I suffered miserably. It was not until the year before last that I paid off all my debts. " Xiaoshan is very wealthy and has the highest car ownership in the country. I came here to be a home-based son-in-law because of my own career. "Xiao Xu did not shy away from his original intention of becoming a door-to-door son-in-law. "Would this make people think that you are too purposeful in becoming a door-to-door son-in-law? "I asked. "(Being a door-to-door son-in-law) I am targeting a region, not a family. "Xiao Xu answered resolutely. "In my hometown in Jiangxi, my brother and sister are already married. As for me, it is impossible for me to go back to my hometown to get married. I have the skills, I just lack the opportunities. "Have you ever thought that being a home-based son-in-law would put you under a lot of pressure?" "I asked. "Thought about it. Others may look down on you at first, but the key is to think highly of yourself and prove it to others. "As he spoke, Xiao Xu's face turned red. "What do you think are the conditions for a home-based son-in-law? "Be filial, respect your elders, have good character, and be diligent." "Xiao Xu said. After waiting for 4 hours at the dating agency, Xiao Xu, who was restless, set off to the blind date location. I told Xiao Xu that I also wanted to have a look, and Xiao Xu readily agreed.

We arrived at the entrance of a large supermarket in Xiaoshan together. Xiao Xu was on this side of the road at first, then went to the restroom on the other side of the road, and then kept texting there. The appointed 20 minutes had passed and the girl hadn't come yet. Xiao Xu kept looking around. During this period, he took a tissue twice to wipe the sweat on his head. I looked at him from a distance across from him. In the blink of an eye, Xiao Xu disappeared. I quickly sent him a text message and asked him where he had gone. Five minutes later, he texted back and said that he had gotten into her father's car and was going to the woman's house. In other words, the first blind date was at the woman’s house. At about 8 o'clock in the evening, I sent a text message to Xiao Xu and asked how it was going. "It feels good! Now her father is driving me to Xiaoshan Railway Station, and I am buying a ticket back to Shanghai." Xiao Xu texted back. In the past two years, there has been a decrease in the number of divorce cases involving sons-in-law. When walking on the streets of Guali Town, Xiaoshan, luxury cars such as BMWs and Lexus speed by from time to time. As well-known as Guali's wealth is the custom of marrying into the family. President Ge Hongwei of Xiaoshan Guali Town Court laughed when he heard that he wanted to know about the marriage status of his son-in-law. "Son-in-laws who visit are relatively common in Guali, and there must be marital issues involved." In 2008, our Guali court heard about 770 cases, of which 25 were divorce cases, that is, more than 190 cases involving in-laws. Marital dispute cases account for 20% of divorce cases, which is less than 40 cases. "President Ge said that in the divorce cases of son-in-laws who come to Xiaoshan, it is usually the woman who files for divorce. This is mainly because the husband cannot integrate into the local life in Xiaoshan due to the differences in the status of the two parties in the family and social status. There are also some door-to-door divorce cases. The son-in-law has insufficient living skills and gives up on himself, which leads to the breakdown of the marriage. "However, the number of divorce cases involving son-in-laws has been decreasing in the past two years. "President Ge said, "There are two reasons for this. First, Xiaoshan has lowered his requirements for the son-in-law who comes to the house. For example, he is not necessarily required to live in the woman's home, which reduces the pressure on the man. "Second, the quality and work ability of the son-in-law who comes to the house are also improving, and he is very popular with the woman's family. This will also improve his status in the family, which is of course conducive to the stability of the marriage." (Reporter Yue Haizhi)