On April Fool's Day, a message from my good friend showed me the people next to me. Should I get a divorce?

Many people like to celebrate April Fool's Day, because those who are afraid to say it at ordinary times can say it unscrupulously on this day, and finally use the phrase "Happy April Fool's Day" to cover up their embarrassment, which can really make us feel relaxed and happy, but some people use this festival to hurt others in the form of jokes.

Those not necessarily light "love" will also be expressed in this way. Bian Xiao received a letter from a woman who divorced on April Fool's Day:

Hello, Bian Xiao, I left you a message because this festival reminds me of last year. Last April Fool's Day, a message from my best friend made me see the person next to me, and my marriage was gone.

I met my ex-husband on a blind date. Although it is a blind date, we are also two of a kind. We got married soon after we met. At that time, both of them reached marriageable age, thinking that they were introduced by acquaintances and knew each other well, so they didn't think much.

But after I got married, I found that what others say is what others see. Marriage with him, no matter good or bad, must be borne by himself.

Before marriage, he promised me everything and cared for me in every possible way. After he got married, he changed. He often needs me to accommodate him. It is said that men mature when they get married. I feel like I have another son. I am a stubborn woman. Even so, I have never had second thoughts.

He is ambitious, but timid. He always felt incompetent, or I pushed him forward. Later, his life gradually improved. He often loses his temper in front of me, and I bear it. I thought marriage was like this, and I didn't take it to heart.

Later, he had an accident and was injured, and he had to rely on me. He treats me much better than before. At that time, I thought he was finally mature and considerate of others. At that time, our husband and wife had a good relationship. My best friend often said that she admired me and that I shared joys and sorrows.

My best friend is a joker. Every April Fool's Day, I like to play tricks on others. So on April Fool's Day, I was already mentally prepared. Get up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet and see the message from my best friend. This is a message that plays tricks on others. I knew it was a mass message at first glance. I looked at the time and found it was three o'clock in the morning, thinking that she could really toss and turn.

The next second, I heard that there was a message on my husband's mobile phone. Women are curious. Plus it was April Fool's Day, so I wanted to see if it was a prank message. Usually, I don't read it. I saw the name of my best friend. I thought it was a mass message, just like mine. I didn't expect such a short message: "Happy holidays, dear!"

I can't believe it. Next, I didn't fall asleep until dawn. I showed the information to my husband. My husband doesn't change his face, saying that he is joking with his best friend, and that I also know that his best friend loves to joke. I can't refute this, but it can't dispel my doubts, so why is it different from mine? Why use honey? My best friend has never called my husband that in front of me.

Later, when my husband wasn't paying attention, I took his mobile phone and sent a message to my best friend, saying that I would meet him at the old place at seven o'clock in the evening. I didn't expect a good word from my best friend. It was really hard for me at that time.

In the face of my doubts, at first my best friend told her ex-husband that it was an April Fool's joke and told me not to be so serious. The old place couldn't explain it, and finally they admitted it.

My best friend said she didn't mean to destroy my family. She was just impulsive, and my husband begged me to forgive her, saying that as long as I didn't happen, love and friendship could still be saved. I thought they were really hateful. I was so angry that I said I wanted a divorce on the spot.

My husband said that I was crazy, that it was not good for everyone, and they tried to cover it up with April Fool's Day, saying that I was too serious.

Even if it is really a joke, can you forgive it? If they really love me, how can they hurt me with jokes? Actually, I'm not kidding. After my divorce, they got together, but not for long.

What I want to say is that many jokes have real elements, whether good or bad. Jokes can make people feel happy or hurt a person. If you love each other, don't hurt her easily.