What if I am often urged to get married by my family?

People who are often urged to get married by their families usually don't want to get married for a while or haven't met the right person yet. At this time, in order to reassure their families, they can choose to communicate well, such as risks, coquetry, reassuring their parents and so on.

First, go against the customer and disrupt the other side's situation. When asked about marriage and love, first care about each other's situation. "Aunt, when will the eldest cousin get married?" "When will the second cousin have a baby?" "Uncle's salary has been rising in recent years. How much has his salary increased? " "How was your square dance? Have you learned the dance steps of the little apple? " The other party either pokes a sore spot and loses interest in chatting, or is immersed in personal life and forgets your existence.

Second, risk. When it comes to marriage, you will feel sad and tell the unfortunate experience of your last relationship like Sister Xianglin. It's better to add "I don't believe in love anymore" and "My heart still hurts. What should I do? " "I'm not ready to start the next relationship" and other lines, the elders will stop this topic when they see that you are hurt and bring it up later.

Third, the honey trap, there is no lower limit for coquetry (not applicable to boys). Blinking watery eyes and looking at each other's face: "I hate this, I am still young!" " "Don't you like me? You want to marry me off so soon! People still have to spend more years with their parents! "

Fourth, face the enemy and be prepared. Answered confidently: "I am also considering it. Don't worry! " If you don't want to be nagged by your parents about getting married, you'd better put on a confident look and make people feel that you have found a good way out and everything is going well. However, in order to prevent cheating under the questioning of parents, we should do more preparations, such as forging the image and information of a nonexistent boyfriend and making everything watertight.

5. Seek common ground while reserving differences. First of all, I will definitely get married, and then I will say that marriage has many benefits. Mom and dad listened well, which was equivalent to giving them a reassurance. Then I talked about my plans for my future life. Doing what you like is the most effective way to start negotiations. If you start quarreling, they won't listen to you for a word.